Why do we attract

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by sunaina on Monday, December 29, 2008 and has 23 replies.

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@krysrenee7
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As an Aquarian, for some reason I rarely if ever attract other Aquarians. I've heard lots of people say they attract their own sign to themselves, & I've even read it in the books that people of the same sign are very compatible. Maybe it's just an Aquarian thing, but I just can't imagine being married to another Aquarius, just like I can't imagine 2 Cancers being married (the emotions would be out of control). IDK I think if I was married to another Aquarian, we'd kill eachother. I like to talk alot but I'm not necessarily intrigued by someone who talks way more than me (because I'm so used to being the main conversationalist). We'd both be extremely stubborn. Now, if we both had the same opinions & feelings about alot of things, then I think we could hang in there, but oh lord, I can't imagine being with an Aquarian who has completely different beliefs & morals than me; the relationship would be a reck because it would drive us both crazy that we can't change or sway the other person

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@krysrenee7
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I think that naturally we attract the same signs over & over again no different than we attract others because of similarity. I tend to attract men who resemble my first love to an extent, just like I tend to attract men who have a natural, but not over-bearing confidence about themselves. It's amazing, sometimes I can tell what somebody's sign is just by looking at them & being around them for a good 30 minutes. And the times when I'm wrong, out of the 3 guess, 1 of them is usually right.

For some reason, I tend to attract alot of Leos & Libras. Weird because Leos are Aqua opposites & Libras are the missing puzzle pieces for Aquas. And if I attract a Scorpio, for example, it never goes beyond physical appearance or lust. I can usually tell up front if that person exhibits some of the traits that I consider impossible for my personality to work with (ex: possessivness, extreme jealousy, etc.)

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@AngryScorpio
18 YearsScorpio

I, of course, am a huge chick magnet, and i've noticed that the majority of chicks who flirt with me are Aries (Which is horrible because they're as bossy and angry as I am)

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@zenalchemy
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I, of course, am a huge chick magnet, and i've noticed that the majority of chicks who flirt with me are Aries (Which is horrible because they're as bossy and angry as I am)

no I don't think that's it - I think cos they think you're a chick with all the sensitivity, you know aries chicks flirt with chicks too 😛

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@zenalchemy
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lol blingie - you work in the nhs?

seriously,they kinda seem like the kinda chicks who wouldn't get all schizo if you started wrestling and then getting it on,and not analyzing it and thinking 'omg,I've just been dominated....the feminazi handbook doesn't allow for this'

see, you may be right because I, like ardent, didn't understand that blah, we share the same sun so we definitely won't be doing what we don't understand

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@justcuriousxo
17 Years

they kinda seem like the kinda chicks who wouldn't get all schizo if you started wrestling and then getting it on,and not analyzing it

im a scorpio and i would honestly love that.
i actually really want that for some reason hahahaha.

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@zenalchemy
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no I hear doc being thrown around too much - especially by PhD folks, it's lost it's cache 😢

way closer to Nurse,,,,I dunno how I got here,tbh....apart from being able to administer some meds....but seriously,the NHS staff who I'll be working with, I can see why....lazy non-commited assholes (one,specifically),who would probably Ebay their Gran for a week off in lieu ...and people are worried about privatization.....

LOL...my moma's a nurse - she has a mouthful too but what can you do eh...

Nurse for guys is HOT ! damn, you're looking better and better each passing moment

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@zenalchemy
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how's he a turd? can you get rid of peeps though?

lol my mom's agency so she works when ever - says she can't be full nhs staff cos they mess about too much, full of shitty folks who just want paychecks and too much NHS pay cuts...
the hours are killer though ! he feet's always hurting - she's kiddies too...intensive/pediatric stuff

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@zenalchemy
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That's what most things now come down to - the contracts afterall bounce around passing through both govt and private funding - all has to look good on paper...
It's sad really but you gotta do what you believe in or better yet become a money grubbing bastard...with one, your account gets padded, the other, you suck on your self-righteous juice 😛

My mom gets crap like that all the time --- she actually avoids people but booking shifts when they're not working.

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@zenalchemy
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phss do it b4 year end and you'll help their funding request so they won't bother checking 😛

should be in bed though - why the fuck am I up ! damn I just looked @ the tym