Onimusha01
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Chase or not chase a cancer man
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Posted by Marai
True. Cancers need to be chased over and over to be certain if you truly like them.
Save yourself the headache and don't start, cuz it can take years 😂
Well I met this Cancer guy and he is very loveable and he has been very open (which I find weird) but when we talk we can talk for hours. like since morning to morning.
But like from 5 times . 3 of the times I had reach out. him the other 2.
But as soon as I text him. we chat for hours and he seems happy and he also makes me feel very good.
The other day he got sick and I had texted him the night before I was going to bring him some soup and some food for the kids so he can rest.
He didnt answered when I called , but by previous conversations he had let me know he wouldn't mind me just popping up at his house unannounced and surprise him. So I did just that, he wasnt there, he was at the hospital. But the kids (that already know me ) opened the door for me and his mother (which had heard from me already) invited me in to wait for him. the kids called him to let him know I was there, we spoke , he was already coming back and he was extremely happy I was there, we sat down, he had me lay on him hugging me while on the couch. He made dinner for me and him . And every time I attempted to leave, he asked me to watch one more episodel. lol. at the end I left cuz I wanted him to go to sleep as I knew he wasnt feeling well. He gave me kisses before I leave, when I was leaving and all the way to my car lol. He made it really pleasant.
But my issue is, I think a man should chase a woman if he likes her.. so even tho he makes me feel so awesome. Im not quiet sure if he is interested. so, Im kinda backing up slowly to see what he does after that day.
I wonder if he is overthinking .. as he overthinks a lot.
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
Posted by Kuta
The greater the distance you give them the better
I though of like just stop texting him and see how long it takes for him to reach out... But they have such a stubborn mind, I dont want him to think I moved on or something. lol.
Posted by CoffeeAndCream
A man should chase even a crab man.
Agree and you come across a lot of Crab men too
Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
It shows he’s trust you at least, as for him making effort... I’m not sure what Cancer men do to initiate.
I’m a chatterbox with everyone so that doesn’t help with your query 😅
In the other thread you mentioned you both chat so much and there is a connection, has the tempo remained or you both chat less now?
From what you’ve said it all sounds positive, if you want him to pursue you then you might have to ask him. I did pursue a Leo once and that was so awkward.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Kuta
The greater the distance you give them the better
I though of like just stop texting him and see how long it takes for him to reach out... But they have such a stubborn mind, I dont want him to think I moved on or something. lol.click to expand
Crabs are so fucking stubborn 😬
Posted by KutaPosted by Arinoaqua
I never had to chase a cancer man during the “courting” phase. They are a cardinal sign after all. They have no issues initiating.
Exactlyclick to expand
Even tho they’re afraid to fall in love again?!
Posted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
It shows he’s trust you at least, as for him making effort... I’m not sure what Cancer men do to initiate.
I’m a chatterbox with everyone so that doesn’t help with your query 😅
In the other thread you mentioned you both chat so much and there is a connection, has the tempo remained or you both chat less now?
From what you’ve said it all sounds positive, if you want him to pursue you then you might have to ask him. I did pursue a Leo once and that was so awkward.click to expand
Yes omg we talk aaaalot.... I know cancers don’t open up very easy. But this one has told me very deep feelings of him and he even told me at some point he don’t know why he can tell me things he had never tell anyone else before.
To be honest with you I have never pursue a guy, it is the first time I meet someone and I’m so attracted to him that I don’t want to let him go. One time he said he is afraid to fall in love and get hurt again and he is terrified just to think he can hurt me. (Go figure) Í asked him I would move on if he asked me to . He just ignored the question and kept talking about other things. Idk it’s so confusing is not even funny.
Don't corner yourself by spilling all your secrets and setting up a chat based relationship. Does he desire you? Does he comment about or ask to see your body? There needs to be something about you he/we can obsess over.
Create some sexual tension, then give him some space and time to think about that.
You taking him soup at the same time as his Mom sounds way maternal.
Create some sexual tension, then give him some space and time to think about that.
You taking him soup at the same time as his Mom sounds way maternal.
Relax. Be yourself.
But most importantly match his intensity.
I doubt he is reading articles about Aquarius
But most importantly match his intensity.
I doubt he is reading articles about Aquarius
Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.
Posted by shellshocker
Don't corner yourself by spilling all your secrets and setting up a chat based relationship. Does he desire you? Does he comment about or ask to see your body? There needs to be something about you he/we can obsess over.
Ohhhh yes! All the time, we were teasing each other. We just don’t chat typing we send each other videos and voice msgs.
Create some sexual tension, then give him some space and time to think about that.
We happened to be alone at his place and obviously all the previous teasing took over. However after we hit it, he became kind of quiet. Like 1 day passed and we were back in his house watching tv w the kids. But we didn’t talk about it. I know he might be thinking about it.
You taking him soup at the same time as his Mom sounds way maternal.
He got sick! And he has custody of his kids! I knew he was going to the hospital so I came to drop some food for the kids and soup for him. That’s when I personally met his mother . But she already knew who I was bc a picture of me he had shown her days prior.
Posted by shellshocker
Don't corner yourself by spilling all your secrets and setting up a chat based relationship. Does he desire you? Does he comment about or ask to see your body? There needs to be something about you he/we can obsess over.
Create some sexual tension, then give him some space and time to think about that.
You taking him soup at the same time as his Mom sounds way maternal.
I forgot to add one of his obsessions lol. We both want kids you know if thinks workout... he is obsessed with getting me pregnant. Even tho, I think I will have to wait till we have sex again. Bc he does not wants to f w me he wants to make love to me . Kinda cute tho lol.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.click to expand
Yes, that’s why I don’t want to let him go! I love how he talks to me and how he treats me.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.
Yes, that’s why I don’t want to let him go! I love how he talks to me and how he treats me.click to expand
Why do u care that he’s not chasing you?? He’s still making plenty of effort.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.
Yes, that’s why I don’t want to let him go! I love how he talks to me and how he treats me.
Why do u care that he’s not chasing you?? He’s still making plenty of effort.click to expand
Bc if I don’t text him first then I feel there will be no communication.
meeting the kids, mom and baby talk all within a month of dating?
that’s fast and could be auto pilot for a crab. More infatuated with the ideal of a partner and life together without taking time to sit with the reality.
I’m cancer dating a cancer, we’ve only made out and dude can't stop talking about it.
I chase him sometimes and love bomb him with my Virgo Rising but drop out for a couple days when I need space. I like to let the feelings and emotions settle, so I don’t get too caught up in it all.
he usually comes looking when I'm gone.
if you’re worried you’re doing too much, fall back and cool out. Either he steps up or he doesn’t but at least you’ll feel more balanced.
that’s fast and could be auto pilot for a crab. More infatuated with the ideal of a partner and life together without taking time to sit with the reality.
I’m cancer dating a cancer, we’ve only made out and dude can't stop talking about it.
I chase him sometimes and love bomb him with my Virgo Rising but drop out for a couple days when I need space. I like to let the feelings and emotions settle, so I don’t get too caught up in it all.
he usually comes looking when I'm gone.
if you’re worried you’re doing too much, fall back and cool out. Either he steps up or he doesn’t but at least you’ll feel more balanced.
All relationship videos from men say never chase a man.
Posted by shellshocker
meeting the kids, mom and baby talk all within a month of dating?
that’s fast and could be auto pilot for a crab. More infatuated with the ideal of a partner and life together without taking time to sit with the reality.
I’m cancer dating a cancer, we’ve only made out and dude can't stop talking about it.
I chase him sometimes and love bomb him with my Virgo Rising but drop out for a couple days when I need space. I like to let the feelings and emotions settle, so I don’t get too caught up in it all.
he usually comes looking when I'm gone.
if you’re worried you’re doing too much, fall back and cool out. Either he steps up or he doesn’t but at least you’ll feel more balanced.
Yes, I don’t remember mentioning it’s been a month, but that was accurate, lol
The kids talk came out Bc we both wanted to meet someone who wanted kids and who wanted a family. I’m aqua with Cancer moon so I guess we have a lot of similarities when it comes to that. We both got caught up on what if. However we also both agreed to take the time to meet each other better, but ai believe due to the frequent communication and the closeness (we live 10 min away from each other) things started going a little bit too fast. I believe he is afraid to catch feelings too soon and heck I am too, even tho I think it’s too late for me lol. But I don’t want him to feel like I’m rushing him but at the same time I don’t want him to feel like I don’t want him . See my dilemma. ?!
Posted by BETYOURLIFEONITPosted by Onimusha01Posted by KutaPosted by Arinoaqua
I never had to chase a cancer man during the “courting” phase. They are a cardinal sign after all. They have no issues initiating.
Exactly
Even tho they’re afraid to fall in love again?!
We're not afraid of love. We're afraid to waste energy because the ones who have suffered and be through pain know what real love is.
Don't let the ego get in the way. I'm forgetful sometimes. Not by choice but because the day to day is draining and I need to charge. It makes me lazy.
I don't think it would offend him if you were forthcoming with him regarding this.
Just mention what I said above about considering that he may need his space and downtime while giving your viewpoint without accusing him of anything and see what happens.
Aqua - Crab can work cause it's real easy to just pick off where you left off. Stay detached and enjoy the moments you have with him. Be who you are and let him be who he is and all will be well.
What else can you do?click to expand
Omg ! That was beautiful!
We had this conversation where he said I’m an extraordinary woman that just thinking he could hurt me by him still feeling hurt from his past, got him terrified . I told him it is normal, that if you keep touching a wound it would never heal. And that nobody has make it to our age without being broken. ( we have very deep convos btw but I think being able to listen could be blessing and a curse) lol
We haven’t really talk much as we used to this past days since we intimated but that’s the same weekend he got sick . So, it could be understandable he wants to be by himself. I saw him Monday and we spent some quality time w his kids. We spoke a little cu he wanted to make sure I got home safe. It’s been 2 days Since.
I just sent him a text yesterday saying I hope he feeling well. So yeah, there’s nothing else I can do but to sit back and let him be.
Posted by Dreamy88
If there's one thing I know about Crabs, it's that their entire reaction, conversation, and treatment of you is based on what happened during their day. Of course they'll "forgive" you later on once they realize it's not you and it's more of just whatever outside force is effecting them, but from what I've seen, outside influence will be projected towards you.
It kinda sucks, but it basically makes it your job to break down all of that emotion and get to the good stuff on the inside. The yummy crab butter. That is, if you're willing to handle all of that.
If you are able to dissect all of their internal problems, it's one hell of a blissful day and beyond worth it.
As far as chasing, I feel like they need a nudge and approval from friends. There's a couple of Cancer buddies of mine that talked about romantic interests and I told them to "give it a shot". Idk why, but I honestly think Cancers think a lot about their social circles, especially family circles. They'll chase you to an extent, until they notice something weird, but they are very quick to cancel someone.
Lol it’s so true and funny. Yeah, he pretty much tells me “everything” even when he gets mad at something or someone cuz he knows imma be on his side lol . I think I’m eating that yummy butter already otherwise I wouldn’t be this confuse 🤣😂
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.
Yes, that’s why I don’t want to let him go! I love how he talks to me and how he treats me.
Why do u care that he’s not chasing you?? He’s still making plenty of effort.
Bc if I don’t text him first then I feel there will be no communication.click to expand
It’s ok to not talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
It shows he’s trust you at least, as for him making effort... I’m not sure what Cancer men do to initiate.
I’m a chatterbox with everyone so that doesn’t help with your query 😅
In the other thread you mentioned you both chat so much and there is a connection, has the tempo remained or you both chat less now?
From what you’ve said it all sounds positive, if you want him to pursue you then you might have to ask him. I did pursue a Leo once and that was so awkward.
Yes omg we talk aaaalot.... I know cancers don’t open up very easy. But this one has told me very deep feelings of him and he even told me at some point he don’t know why he can tell me things he had never tell anyone else before.
To be honest with you I have never pursue a guy, it is the first time I meet someone and I’m so attracted to him that I don’t want to let him go. One time he said he is afraid to fall in love and get hurt again and he is terrified just to think he can hurt me. (Go figure) Í asked him I would move on if he asked me to . He just ignored the question and kept talking about other things. Idk it’s so confusing is not even funny.click to expand
He’s probably more openly expressive due to his life experience especially being a single dad. Still really fast tho.
Aquarian’s do make it easy to be around them, usually non judgmental so it eases people to be comfortable. You have Cancer moon an that probably helps with this connection but as others have said reduce contact and see what action he takes.
It’s better to know these things at this stage before you start building bonds with his kids or mother.
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Posted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Posted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.click to expand
I understand he gets stressed out but the ones he should block are the ppl stressing him not the only one person is not. Idk I’m 🙄😳😳 You think one day when he comes out to his normal self he’ll reach back. Or it will be easier for him to move on maybe not to hear what I have to say and not get stressed out. Grrrrr... this Really gets me on my last nerve.
Posted by Moon_River
Cancer Men do not want to be chased unless they have some influence from another sign.
This is true. Most men don't like to be chased. It puts the woman in a masculine position.
That wasn't my experience with the one I dated; but hey, do you and chase on.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
I understand he gets stressed out but the ones he should block are the ppl stressing him not the only one person is not. Idk I’m 🙄😳😳 You think one day when he comes out to his normal self he’ll reach back. Or it will be easier for him to move on maybe not to hear what I have to say and not get stressed out. Grrrrr... this Really gets me on my last nerve.click to expand
Even if he managed the stress levels, seems like there is a lot is going on.
Are you sure you want to take all that on, especially in the initial dating phase? It’s just wayyyy too fast.
He probably will reach out once the dust settles, hard to say how long that will take... you’re better off keeping yourself busy for now.
Posted by Arinoaqua
You’re coming on way too strong. I cringed a little
I don’t know what u mean. I spoke to him as we always did.
I think he came out stronger by introducing me to his kids so I just tagged alone.
Posted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Don't you think he's being a bit of a dramaqueen? I feel he has been just venting out to her because she was there.
@Onimusha01 could you drop his chart?click to expand
Ofc he is, Cancer men and high drama 🙄 but there seems to be so many other unresolved issues in the background.
I just don’t understand why someone (OP) knowingly would go into this so fast, when they have the option to take a step back and reflect.
Aquarian’s are my go to people when it comes to deconstructing thoughts and ideas, so I can see why he would spend so much time talking to her.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.click to expand
Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?
Posted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Don't you think he's being a bit of a dramaqueen? I feel he has been just venting out to her because she was there.
@Onimusha01 could you drop his chart?
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Cancer 27°52'
Moon Aries 19°36'
Mercury Leo 22°21'
Venus Leo 7°22'
Mars Scorpio 17°23'
Jupiter Capricorn 5°33' R
Saturn Scorpio 9°45'
Uranus Sagittarius 9°52' R
Neptune Sagittarius 29°19' R
Pluto Libra 29°21'
Lilith Pisces 24°42'
N Node Gemini 5°18'
click to expand
Posted by ArinoaquaPosted by Onimusha01Posted by Arinoaqua
You’re coming on way too strong. I cringed a little
I don’t know what u mean. I spoke to him as we always did.
I think he came out stronger by introducing me to his kids so I just tagged alone.
Granted I don’t know the whole backstory but based on the exchange you posted it seems like you totally ignored the fact that he said he didn’t want to deal with anyone and needed space. He listed off all of the women that are stressing him out and then you included yourself in that list by telling him you miss him....which puts an expectation on him that he just said he didn’t want.
You didn’t get what he was trying to say even though he was polite and direct so then he had to tell you I LOVE BEING SINGLE.
Do not chase this man after he’s rejected you. You’re setting your self worth in his eyes very low if you do.click to expand
He would always tell me exactly how he felt. So I didn’t think anything of it. That’s why my msg was short and clear. So I could give him space after that. But maybe the fact that he was not going to be available for me bc of what he was going through made him feel some type of way ?! 🙄
Posted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Don't you think he's being a bit of a dramaqueen? I feel he has been just venting out to her because she was there.
@Onimusha01 could you drop his chart?
Ofc he is, Cancer men and high drama 🙄 but there seems to be so many other unresolved issues in the background.
I just don’t understand why someone knowingly would go into this so fast, when they have the option to take a step back and reflect.
Aquarian’s are my go to people when it comes to deconstructing thoughts and ideas, so I can see why he would spend so much time talking to her.
Talking is fine, but now it's all with the wrong intentions. Don't you think?
That Aries moon is really amplifying the "woe is me" right now...click to expand
Woe
Idk what that means lol
Posted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Don't you think he's being a bit of a dramaqueen? I feel he has been just venting out to her because she was there.
@Onimusha01 could you drop his chart?
Ofc he is, Cancer men and high drama 🙄 but there seems to be so many other unresolved issues in the background.
I just don’t understand why someone knowingly would go into this so fast, when they have the option to take a step back and reflect.
Aquarian’s are my go to people when it comes to deconstructing thoughts and ideas, so I can see why he would spend so much time talking to her.
Talking is fine, but now it's all with the wrong intentions. Don't you think?
That Aries moon is really amplifying the "woe is me" right now...click to expand
Jury’s out with Merc Retrograde 😕 as we both said in the other thread, talking a lot at the beginning doesn’t really mean much. The faster the chat the sooner it will burn out...
Only problem now is, she’s met his kids and it gives false sense of commitment. There isn’t any real foundations built here through.
Posted by ArinoaquaPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ArinoaquaPosted by Onimusha01Posted by Arinoaqua
You’re coming on way too strong. I cringed a little
I don’t know what u mean. I spoke to him as we always did.
I think he came out stronger by introducing me to his kids so I just tagged alone.
Granted I don’t know the whole backstory but based on the exchange you posted it seems like you totally ignored the fact that he said he didn’t want to deal with anyone and needed space. He listed off all of the women that are stressing him out and then you included yourself in that list by telling him you miss him....which puts an expectation on him that he just said he didn’t want.
You didn’t get what he was trying to say even though he was polite and direct so then he had to tell you I LOVE BEING SINGLE.
Do not chase this man after he’s rejected you. You’re setting your self worth in his eyes very low if you do.
He would always tell me exactly how he felt. So I didn’t think anything of it. That’s why my msg was short and clear. So I could give him space after that. But maybe the fact that he was not going to be available for me bc of what he was going through made him feel some type of way ?! 🙄
I just saw his chart. I’m worried his Aries moon is not going to be as gentle with your cancer moon. My ex was an aqua/cancer moon.
He is full of fire. He definitely doesn’t need you to chase him. I could almost put money on the fact that he’ll reach back out.click to expand
Most of them come back, some don’t . But when they come back I already buried them lol. I also believe once he gets better and calm and relax he will. But ofc Idk how to sit and wait. We don’t let things unresolved when we care so I’m holding myself not to make a another stupid move. Lol
Posted by ArinoaquaPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ArinoaquaPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ArinoaquaPosted by Onimusha01Posted by Arinoaqua
You’re coming on way too strong. I cringed a little
I don’t know what u mean. I spoke to him as we always did.
I think he came out stronger by introducing me to his kids so I just tagged alone.
Granted I don’t know the whole backstory but based on the exchange you posted it seems like you totally ignored the fact that he said he didn’t want to deal with anyone and needed space. He listed off all of the women that are stressing him out and then you included yourself in that list by telling him you miss him....which puts an expectation on him that he just said he didn’t want.
You didn’t get what he was trying to say even though he was polite and direct so then he had to tell you I LOVE BEING SINGLE.
Do not chase this man after he’s rejected you. You’re setting your self worth in his eyes very low if you do.
He would always tell me exactly how he felt. So I didn’t think anything of it. That’s why my msg was short and clear. So I could give him space after that. But maybe the fact that he was not going to be available for me bc of what he was going through made him feel some type of way ?! 🙄
I just saw his chart. I’m worried his Aries moon is not going to be as gentle with your cancer moon. My ex was an aqua/cancer moon.
He is full of fire. He definitely doesn’t need you to chase him. I could almost put money on the fact that he’ll reach back out.
Most of them come back, some don’t . But when they come back I already buried them lol. I also believe once he gets better and calm and relax he will. But ofc Idk how to sit and wait. We don’t let things unresolved when we care so I’m holding myself not to make a another stupid move. Lol
Oh I know. Give him the Aquarius silent treatment lol.click to expand
Not that he going to notice it anyway. I’m Blocked! Till further notice 😞 Like if I wanted to be a psycho, which as Aquarian I can do very well. I could blast all his social media But I ain’t doing that. I care bout him. If He had dropped the I want to be single before telling me what he going through. I would of feel sorry for him. Baaaad!
Posted by bkbella86Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.
Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?click to expand
Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.
I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.
Posted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Sorry to hear the bad news. He gave an explanation rather than ghosting you. He said he doesn’t get serious with anyone. Time to move on.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Sorry to hear the bad news. He gave an explanation rather than ghosting you. He said he doesn’t get serious with anyone. Time to move on.click to expand
Well, or so I think I’m blocked, I resent a msg last Night just to make sure I was blocked and now it shows as “delivered” Opss!
Yess! Too much Drama for my liking. I can stand a little bit of drama here and there. But he going overboard. Whomever takes butter from their last relationships is bc they want to. I hate the fact that he took it off on me.
Posted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Don't you think he's being a bit of a dramaqueen? I feel he has been just venting out to her because she was there.
@Onimusha01 could you drop his chart?
Ofc he is, Cancer men and high drama 🙄 but there seems to be so many other unresolved issues in the background.
I just don’t understand why someone knowingly would go into this so fast, when they have the option to take a step back and reflect.
Aquarian’s are my go to people when it comes to deconstructing thoughts and ideas, so I can see why he would spend so much time talking to her.
Talking is fine, but now it's all with the wrong intentions. Don't you think?
That Aries moon is really amplifying the "woe is me" right now...click to expand
It's actually the Scorpio Mars. My ex had it, everyone and everything was against and out to get him. He had some accountability but the level of hate for his wrongdoers was scary. He claimed he was a victim of my kindness in the end.
I have an Aries Moon and I find we can get over things and easily forgive after we've moved on
Posted by shellshockerPosted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Don't you think he's being a bit of a dramaqueen? I feel he has been just venting out to her because she was there.
@Onimusha01 could you drop his chart?
Ofc he is, Cancer men and high drama 🙄 but there seems to be so many other unresolved issues in the background.
I just don’t understand why someone knowingly would go into this so fast, when they have the option to take a step back and reflect.
Aquarian’s are my go to people when it comes to deconstructing thoughts and ideas, so I can see why he would spend so much time talking to her.
Talking is fine, but now it's all with the wrong intentions. Don't you think?
That Aries moon is really amplifying the "woe is me" right now...
It's actually the Scorpio Mars. My ex had it, everyone and everything was against and out to get him. He had some accountability but the level of hate for his wrongdoers was scary. He claimed he was a victim of my kindness in the end.
I have an Aries Moon and I find we can get over things and easily forgive after we've moved onclick to expand
Yes, I guess it isn’t hard if you’re willing to, but come on you can’t keep communicating with the people that caused u the pain. And I kept telling him all the time. They keep stressing you bc you allow it and u haven’t step a foot in the ground and you keep the communication open. Like I understand his kids mom, but why is he still talking w his other ex. U feel me.
OP, his actions definitely had the Aries Moon impulsiveness.
Who cares if he comes back, looks like he has a pattern of starting families he doesn't finish. If he does, don't be sweet and understanding call him out for what he is.
It's the only thing he'll respect
Who cares if he comes back, looks like he has a pattern of starting families he doesn't finish. If he does, don't be sweet and understanding call him out for what he is.
It's the only thing he'll respect
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by shellshockerPosted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by MaraiPosted by IsoldePosted by Onimusha01
talk for a day or two. That space is actually amazing for couples. See how long it takes him to text you.
UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.
Maybe the retrograde, of all his past is coming back at him and he can’t cope. Not making excuses for him but that’s why actions matter more than words as I have been saying.
Don't you think he's being a bit of a dramaqueen? I feel he has been just venting out to her because she was there.
@Onimusha01 could you drop his chart?
Ofc he is, Cancer men and high drama 🙄 but there seems to be so many other unresolved issues in the background.
I just don’t understand why someone knowingly would go into this so fast, when they have the option to take a step back and reflect.
Aquarian’s are my go to people when it comes to deconstructing thoughts and ideas, so I can see why he would spend so much time talking to her.
Talking is fine, but now it's all with the wrong intentions. Don't you think?
That Aries moon is really amplifying the "woe is me" right now...
It's actually the Scorpio Mars. My ex had it, everyone and everything was against and out to get him. He had some accountability but the level of hate for his wrongdoers was scary. He claimed he was a victim of my kindness in the end.
I have an Aries Moon and I find we can get over things and easily forgive after we've moved on
Yes, I guess it isn’t hard if you’re willing to, but come on you can’t keep communicating with the people that caused u the pain. And I kept telling him all the time. They keep stressing you bc you allow it and u haven’t step a foot in the ground and you keep the communication open. Like I understand his kids mom, but why is he still talking w his other ex. U feel me.click to expand
He probably does it cause he loves to complain about the drama and the fighting turns him on
I’m sorry but you did too much showing up at his crib with soup. Are y’all even exclusively dating? This isn’t how you get a man. You will push him away or he will use you. You know this and that’s you’re having anxiety and making threads. Cease the chasing and see if he comes after you. That includes texting and calling. I’ve known a Cancer man for years we dated at one point, he still wants to date me and chases relentlessly, you don’t need to do all this.
This ain’t got shit to do with an Aries moon or cancer sun, he is full of shit. If he was really into you this wouldn’t have happened and it’s not a diss to you. He knew you liked him and couldn’t deliver the same feelings hence the block.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by bkbella86Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.
Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?
Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.
I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.click to expand
Seems you’re ok with getting less than you deserve or really want. But telling OP that this man treated her well and to accept the treatment you accept is just wrong. And now look he blocked her and dropped her like a bad habit!
Posted by bkbella86Posted by pinkbird03Posted by bkbella86Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.
We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!
Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.
@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?
No his ex wife , his Mother.
About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.
One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.
Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.
He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.
I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.
Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?
Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.
I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.
Seems you’re ok with getting less than you deserve or really want. But telling OP that this man treated her well and to accept the treatment you accept is just wrong. And now look he blocked her and dropped her like a bad habit!click to expand
We are not here Judging on nobody , we are not talking about her accepting less or me accepting less. We are talking about the cancer man.
He treats me good I have no complaints, he did not let me for something that I did to him personally. So if we go to the facts I shouldn’t be blocked.
Anything bro to say about the cancer man??
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UPDATE:
Him
Hey...I've been in bed since the other day and now taking my morning mom to Wharton to different cousin to do some paperwork... I had the kids mother annoy the eff out of me and put me in a really effin baad mood...and on top of that my ex from England texted me literally not too long ago and her kids too sent me messages and all this on top of my based headache got me really feeling pissed off and really effed up and I really don't wanna talk or deal with anyone... I'm sorry about it I just need peace and calmness and relax... I hope You're okay
Me:
No worries Handsome, Im okay and I’m much better now that I know you’re home and not at the hospital or something. Just calm down and don’t let them get to you! I’ll send some prayers your way! So you can get well soon, miss to see your crazy face 🤗 😘
Him
Thanks for the prayers...there's a reason why I don't date or get too serious with anyone because then afterwards it bites me and stresses me and get my blood pressure up and can't relax and sleep for long time...that's why I Love and enjoy being single and really feel thats how life needs to be (for every man)because I don't open any pandora boxes and then get me really upset and literally sick and headaches even worse then already come because of the accident...and this from both exes upset me severely...anyway thank You for the prayers
And blocked me. End of the Story.
Idk why if I wasn’t the one stressing him out. I know it was bc of his mood swings. Not really my fault. I thought maybe when he goes back to his normal self he would reach back or it could be gone forever.