Chase or not chase a cancer man (Page 2)

Posted by Onimusha01

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Onimusha01

A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.

We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!

Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.

@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?



No his ex wife , his Mother.

About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.

One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.

Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.

He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.

I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.

Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?

Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.

I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.

Seems you’re ok with getting less than you deserve or really want. But telling OP that this man treated her well and to accept the treatment you accept is just wrong. And now look he blocked her and dropped her like a bad habit!

We are not here Judging on nobody , we are not talking about her accepting less or me accepting less. We are talking about the cancer man.

He treats me good I have no complaints, he did not let me for something that I did to him personally. So if we go to the facts I shouldn’t be blocked.

Anything bro to say about the cancer man??

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I’m not 100 % of what you’re saying but I think I understand most of it.

We’re constantly judging but It’s not put you or her down.

I can tell by the way she framed her original statement that she’s not really 100% ok with the way her relationship is, then to tell you that it’s ok because she accepted it is wrong.



Now regarding you, him being a cancer is irrelevant. He doesn’t want to date he said that, he already knew that before he said hence his actions. People show us they aren’t into us it’s up to us to heed the signs. Sometimes there subtle.

And I wouldn’t believe his reasons for ending things, because if he was really into you NO ONE would stop that.

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Onimusha01

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Onimusha01

A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.

We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!

Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.

@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?



No his ex wife , his Mother.

About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.

One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.

Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.

He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.

I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.

Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?

Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.

I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.

Seems you’re ok with getting less than you deserve or really want. But telling OP that this man treated her well and to accept the treatment you accept is just wrong. And now look he blocked her and dropped her like a bad habit!

We are not here Judging on nobody , we are not talking about her accepting less or me accepting less. We are talking about the cancer man.

He treats me good I have no complaints, he did not let me for something that I did to him personally. So if we go to the facts I shouldn’t be blocked.

Anything bro to say about the cancer man??

I’m not 100 % of what you’re saying but I think I understand most of it.

We’re constantly judging but It’s not put you or her down.

I can tell by the way she framed her original statement that she’s not really 100% ok with the way her relationship is, then to tell you that it’s ok because she accepted it is wrong.



Now regarding you, him being a cancer is irrelevant. He doesn’t want to date he said that, he already knew that before he said hence his actions. People show us they aren’t into us it’s up to us to heed the signs. Sometimes there subtle.

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Well, his actions were all the contrary of not wanting to date, he just said that now, cuz obviously if he tells me since the beginning nothing would of happened. He does treats me very well. Only issue is that most of the times I’m the one who initiates the communication. But I want him to be himself same way I want him to accept me being myself. I don’t like when people does things just to impress me cuz for me it means they’re not doing it from their hearts.

Everybody knows what they allow and what they don’t .

Maybe this dude knew he didn’t want to date since the beginning, maybe he did but got a change of heart, maybe he said it cuz of his bad mood and his stubbornness. Maybe he started catching feelings and he’s afraid to get hurt as he has told me plenty of times. Idk. I guess time will tell.

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And I wouldn’t believe his reasons for ending things, because if he was really into you NO ONE would stop that.

Fear can get people to do stupid stuff! Just like when you’re madly in love. Even ending something good.

I know cancers need plenty of reassurance, but I’m not the one to fix his unresolved issues , that’s his own personal butter to deal with.

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Onimusha01

A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.

We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!

Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.

@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?



No his ex wife , his Mother.

About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.

One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.

Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.

He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.

I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.

Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?

Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.

I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.

Seems you’re ok with getting less than you deserve or really want. But telling OP that this man treated her well and to accept the treatment you accept is just wrong. And now look he blocked her and dropped her like a bad habit!

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How am I getting less than I deserve?? Because my bf doesn’t like texting me first because he doesn’t want to wake me up when he gets up at 5 am or earlier. But then sends me pictures and texts throughout the day. Huh he treats me great 🥰

Posted by Onimusha01

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Onimusha01

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Onimusha01

A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.

We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!

Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.

@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?



No his ex wife , his Mother.

About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.

One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.

Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.

He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.

I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.

Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?

Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.

I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.

Seems you’re ok with getting less than you deserve or really want. But telling OP that this man treated her well and to accept the treatment you accept is just wrong. And now look he blocked her and dropped her like a bad habit!

We are not here Judging on nobody , we are not talking about her accepting less or me accepting less. We are talking about the cancer man.

He treats me good I have no complaints, he did not let me for something that I did to him personally. So if we go to the facts I shouldn’t be blocked.

Anything bro to say about the cancer man??

I’m not 100 % of what you’re saying but I think I understand most of it.

We’re constantly judging but It’s not put you or her down.

I can tell by the way she framed her original statement that she’s not really 100% ok with the way her relationship is, then to tell you that it’s ok because she accepted it is wrong.



Now regarding you, him being a cancer is irrelevant. He doesn’t want to date he said that, he already knew that before he said hence his actions. People show us they aren’t into us it’s up to us to heed the signs. Sometimes there subtle.

Well, his actions were all the contrary of not wanting to date, he just said that now, cuz obviously if he tells me since the beginning nothing would of happened. He does treats me very well. Only issue is that most of the times I’m the one who initiates the communication. But I want him to be himself same way I want him to accept me being myself. I don’t like when people does things just to impress me cuz for me it means they’re not doing it from their hearts.

Everybody knows what they allow and what they don’t .

Maybe this dude knew he didn’t want to date since the beginning, maybe he did but got a change of heart, maybe he said it cuz of his bad mood and his stubbornness. Maybe he started catching feelings and he’s afraid to get hurt as he has told me plenty of times. Idk. I guess time will tell.

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The fact that you had to initiate paints the entire picture. If he was that interested he would be initiating contact. Then he blocked you. He blocked you because he felt you chasing him and pressured.

Posted by Onimusha01

Posted by bkbella86

And I wouldn’t believe his reasons for ending things, because if he was really into you NO ONE would stop that.

Fear can get people to do stupid stuff! Just like when you’re madly in love. Even ending something good.

I know cancers need plenty of reassurance, but I’m not the one to fix his unresolved issues , that’s his own personal butter to deal with.

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That man wouldn’t have let you go if he was really interested. Plain and simple. but please do believe what makes you feel better.

When I was heartbroken bad like real bad I went into a depression for 3 years . And I didn’t even wanted to talk to a male. So I know what he’s going through.

To open up yourself to someone new once u been hurt it’s hard. That’s not like yeah, let me just be with you and I won’t give a shot if I get hurt again. No ain’t that easy as u say.

Oh and I found out I’m not blocked .

Rn I really don’t know what to believe , if I knew I wouldn’t be posting here. But I guess time will tell.