Cancer Men Loosing Interest

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by misslibrascorpio on Tuesday, August 11, 2020 and has 11 replies.

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@misslibrascorpio
7 Years

What are some obvious signs a Cancer man is not IN LOVE with you anymore?

Can a Cancer man be honest about them loosing interest?

Will a Cancer man cheat before breaking up with you?

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@misslibrascorpio
7 Years

Well there's a lot going on with his personal self...

I just read things like he will stop spending time with you or doing little things you like.

We don't live together anymore but recently he's been putting a lot of energy and time to helping his friends band and then just giving our relationship less mindfulness.

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@misslibrascorpio
7 Years

Posted by BlueStar

Is this the same Cancer that is working on himself? Are you in a legit relationship with him? Or is this another Cancer?

No, this is the same Cancer guy.

Yes we have been together for two years.

We both have children (not together) and things have been pretty blended and serious.

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@misslibrascorpio
7 Years

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Posted by misslibrascorpio

Well there's a lot going on with his personal self...

I just read things like he will stop spending time with you or doing little things you like.

We don't live together anymore but recently he's been putting a lot of energy and time to helping his friends band and then just giving our relationship less mindfulness.

Wouldn’t you look into not living together ‘anymore’ as starting point of fall out?

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Situations are all different and I moved out because it was my choice but he didn't want me to leave.

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@Cancer96
7 Years

The most difficult part about break-ups for any Cancer in general is that we don’t know how to tell someone that we’ve fallen out of love with the person. We don’t want to hurt that person.

We end up stalling or pushing those thoughts away until it gets really bad, so ... best that you ask him directly.

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@misslibrascorpio
7 Years

Posted by BlueStar
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Posted by BlueStar

Is this the same Cancer that is working on himself? Are you in a legit relationship with him? Or is this another Cancer?

No, this is the same Cancer guy.

Yes we have been together for two years.

We both have children (not together) and things have been pretty blended and serious.

Well if the relationship is that serious then maybe you need to have a conversation about your concerns because it doesn’t seem like you have a stable foundation even though you’ve been together a while and have blended families.

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I agree...

Seems like there some uncertainty but we need to go over concerns and build a better foundation.

Thank You ❤️

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@misslibrascorpio
7 Years

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Posted by misslibrascorpio
Posted by BlueStar

Is this the same Cancer that is working on himself? Are you in a legit relationship with him? Or is this another Cancer?

No, this is the same Cancer guy.

Yes we have been together for two years.

We both have children (not together) and things have been pretty blended and serious.

But you moved out and you asking if he lost interest. Meaning you felt like he is lost interest.

You moved out to see if he is going to DO something about it and he didn’t ran after you?

Am I right?

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No I moved out because he has an addiction problem and yes a couple of moments where I thought our relationship was over but he managed to always call me drunk or email me asking me if my daughter and I are okay.

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@misslibrascorpio
7 Years

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Posted by misslibrascorpio
Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Posted by misslibrascorpio
Posted by BlueStar

Is this the same Cancer that is working on himself? Are you in a legit relationship with him? Or is this another Cancer?

No, this is the same Cancer guy.

Yes we have been together for two years.

We both have children (not together) and things have been pretty blended and serious.

But you moved out and you asking if he lost interest. Meaning you felt like he is lost interest.

You moved out to see if he is going to DO something about it and he didn’t ran after you?

Am I right?

No I moved out because he has an addiction problem and yes a couple of moments where I thought our relationship was over but he managed to always call me drunk or email me asking me if my daughter and I are okay.

I’ve already said that but I’ll treat it - do you want your child to grow up with an addict?

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My child isn't around him or even communicates with the person I have been romantically involved with, and that's my decision. My child also does not need a step parent, she has both her biological father and I in her life.

My partner has problems and if he can not admit to these issues and start getting help then I will have to walk away because I know I can't help someone who doesn't want the help.

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Isn’t it you that needs to continue making the stand and not sit around worrying about whether he is coming back?

He’s an addict, you’ve left so he can sort himself out. If he doesn’t you keep walking??

Also, how does your daughter have no involvement if you were living together? Curious