Did I get played?

So I was talking to a cancer man. I am a Leo woman. We had talked a few weeks via text and he was cool. He was very sweet. We finally hung out and we slept together. So even afterwards we talked but it wasn't as much. So then afterwards we would still hang out. We cuddled all of that. So I asked him what's going on and he said that he wasn't a phone person and he was a in person kind of guy(kind of sounds like bs to me) he said he was open to whatever happens with us and he was sorry for being distant. He also says that he isnt a good communicator. but now I'm really lost because now we only talk if I text him. I felt that he opened up but now we barely talk. Should I just leave it alone? I told myself I'm not going to text him. The last time we talked he said he was In a little financial trouble and he was working overtime. Am I being played? But I just refuse to text him.

I am just lost. I'm like well should I give him space. I text him and said have a good day and he ddnt respond so I was like well imma leave him alone. It just caught me off guard honestly.

If I had not traveled the world my mind would of been stuck on one guy, in one state, in one city, in one small town.
Don't dwell on the woulda, shoulda, couldas, just learn from it and move on,.
You will feel better when you purge negative thoughts and worries.