A Crab's memory: it doesn't mean we give a fuck

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Kim31 on Thursday, September 11, 2014 and has 39 replies.

Understanding a Crab's Memory and Emotional Detachment

Crabs have strong memories but do not form emotional attachments. Their memory helps them protect themselves by recognizing threats and managing energy. This behavior reflects a natural defense mechanism, emphasizing self-preservation over emotional investment. Recognizing this can help in understanding their seemingly indifferent behavior.

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@Kim31
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Just because we remember you and everything you say doesn't mean we give a damn.
Get it?
No, you're not special. No, we don't care. No, we don't want you back. No, we don't care if you don't ever come back.
All it means is we got stuck with the blessing, and sometimes curse, of remembering all.
It is a defense mechanism at times. Away of knowing when to save my energy and when to use it. Like when fake people come sniffing around pretending to have good intentions when really all they want is to have their pu** licked.

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This is so true. I remember a lot, and the excellent memory means I won't fall for the same tricks, and if some back stabbing lowlife that I used to call a friend tries to ass kiss her way back into my good graces, it won't happen. It also means that if I'm close to someone, I keep a mental tab of repeat bad behavior and eventually cut the ties, and my losses, with no looking back.

It's funny, though, that when no one sees the walking away coming, that they thought all along they had you fooled, that you didn't know what they were like. Then they rant and rave about how "cold and ruthless" you are for calling them on their crap and making a decision to not put up with it any longer.

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Posted by Kim31
Excuse me, Ms. Mooooon ar-TISSSST!!! Don't be disappearing from the crab board for days and days then come back actin' all CUTE!

I didn't disappear....I was hiding behind the drapes. No, you don't need to know what I was doing in the drapes. Suffice to say that I was hiding.

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Posted by sonofthunder
I always thought it was great when a certain person remembered things, small things that I had mentioned..now I'm learning it meant nothing.

😢

Oh our loves we remember fondly and try to do our best for them. However we also remember the derps and their schemes to be ready for any bs.

I think that's what kimmypoo was referring to. The aholes think we forgave but also forgot. Nope.

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Posted by kissmygrits

Posted by sonofthunder
I always thought it was great when a certain person remembered things, small things that I had mentioned..now I'm learning it meant nothing.

😢

Oh our loves we remember fondly and try to do our best for them. However we also remember the derps and their schemes to be ready for any bs.

I think that's what kimmypoo was referring to. The aholes think we forgave but also forgot. Nope.

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. Dead on balls accurate

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Posted by Kim31
PS I do believe one of the fish seduced me only to collect intel. Pretty sure he's using it to manipulate another crab!

is this what you're referring to? no it was a joke and not about you.
WHAT IS GOING ON IN PISCES WORLD? is the moon screwing with you guys or something?