Advice please !

In am a pieces my ex of 3 years is a cancer. One day he randomly cut me off days before our 3 year mark. Since the break up he deleted all our pictures wont talk to me nothing. He has been going out to lubs every weekend basically not being HIM. He has been talking to a girl who is 7 years younger than him. Bottom line is does higher commitment freak cancers out ao bad they can just run away or are they able to really just stop loving someone one day and do what he did. I am so confused ? Do they usually come back after they know they mess up? Or are they too stubborn to admit they were wrong
Help

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The girl he is with now is an aries

Posted by Love123
The girl he is with now is an aries

That won't last.

I was with a cancer for 3 years as well . Back off and dont contact him. Dont text or call or anything. He will contact you if he cares but most likely not to get back with you.

I love aries connection

Anyways as a woman...i dont cut anyone off unless u did some crazy stuff.....crazy...its never for nothing an u woukd have to have done it 1000 times

Damn , you sound like the pisces woman i know, she left me for another guy, fucked me up reaaal bad, made me feel like shit, made many wrong shit in relationships, and now that the guy left her, she wants to comeback to me, i blocked her, she's even reaching out thru her friends telling me she loves me, before she was making up stories for her friends that i did huge amount of bad things for her so she could have a reason to tell everyone why she left me for another guy while the reason was she was cheating with him before, you should stop making yourself a victim and look from other side, you might have done something that pushed his button, i'm also with aries now, she might not be such a deep person, but she's supportive, she has courage, she takes action, thats what i like about her, pisces are like soul mates and thats rly good relationship to be in, but it can be destructive 2, never seen a cancer guy leave a girl for no reason, either you're not telling a full story or he's just rly imature and doesn't know what he wants.3years is a long time, i doubt anyone would run away for no reason after a relationship of 3years, 3years isn't a month, you have build quite a bit, and i don't see cancer runing away from this much work for nothing. 7Years younger? Hahaha thats weird, i'm dating Aries 7years older 😄

Posted by sunkisses26
@rakac and @lovely77 I agree with both these comments ...cancers don't just cut people off (especially people that they love) for NO reason...it just doesn't make sense to me...

I agree esp wat rakac said....and 3 years hmm 🤔

I know someone who broke off with bis girlfriend for no apparent reason. She was extremely supportive but he wasnt ready. She was hurt but decided to move on. When he was finally ready (3-4 girlfriends down the line)... She wouldnt get back with him. He now moans over her and is travelling for a year in china. He hopes that she will be back, but knows that she wont! Weird character!

I think he just freaked out because he wasnt ready for higher commitment and now hes trying to relive him college lifestyle. He said it was a build up of the negtitve aspects of our relationship but like i said it was out of nowhere. He had to move a college town for work 45 minutes away ans it changed him into thinking hes this person that he's not. Hes 27 i thought he would be mature enough to be able to handle it but i guess not

Yeah the pisces guy I kicked to the curb for being a coke head man whore told everyone I just went crazy out of nowhere when actually I don't want sexual predators in my life. I love how I'm the irrational one.