aquarius girl vs cancer guy?

can this work.....? the cancer guy is lovely very sweet caring and affecoinate however he seems to have a fear of being hurt so much that hell almost be ok with losing me than commiting to me.... i want him to commit as a propper boyfriend but because he wants to not because im making him.... i think hes too comfortable already for a change.... avoid it at all costs. why r cancer men so frightened.... —

hey beanie...

i'am a canci and i was in luv with an aqua...he didn't commit t me wholely so even i couldn't take any steps towards him...

your case is opposite...interesting.

listen aqua's are very different from canci.the prob is u aquas are sometimes incapable of giving the security and trust the canci needs..
just keep pouring him with love...show him your care....give him trust...he is sure to commit.
beleive me..true love is magical.
all the best

I'm an Aqua, and from experience w/ Cancer guys, they're MORE than willing to commit, so you shouldn't have any problems. I had to end it with mine though. They just got too clingy, and being the aloof aquarian I am, I just couldn't take it. I guess I should have known and expected it before, that it wouldn't work, but when you're in love, (which I thought I was at the time), nothing else matters. After a while, I felt really bad, 'cause I broke his heart and I knew that he was hurt. And when I talked to him later about it, he said he was okay. But a friend of mine told me that he called her up, and was crying about out breakup. Then he tried to get back with me after I told him no which left me to despise him even more. o.O
But if you're sure that you know what you're getting into, I think that you wouln't have any problems with him trying to commit. And if it doesn't work out, well, it just wasn't meant to be. All in the best wishes of luck!

Toodles!
Crimson

its such a mess... one week were good and the next he goes distant and somewhat cold...he cares alot and misses me wen were not together, he wont open up to me propaply and i never know where we are.. as a cancer male hes lovely but wen were apart i feel insecure etc... i know its not working and i need to let go but he finds it hard to let go too...theres a strong connection and we just cant understand each other, its really sad tho cos he meant the world to me and ive lost his friendship which i valued but im the aqua and hes the cancer but it seems he wont let himself fall in love and rejects me whenever things r nice.. which i cant take and lash out.......we r so doomed

please stop answering with your negative feedback parallax its not valued and its just plain judgemental....u seem to have some issues of your own and picking on whatevr u think is an easy target... arent u the one to say dont generalise then go on to say... aquarius wome are ANNOYING? u dont know me so dont judge me... and dont take everything so seriously so what the tittle says 'vrs' everyones elses comments are valuable and helpful yours are just damn critical and prejudice.... u obviously have had bad experiences with aquarius' and assume that theyre all the same which is exactly what u attacked me for doing so just please dont answer my threads unless u have something worthwhile saying

dont dish it out if u cant take it