Aries / Cancer relations

Anyone out there dating a cancer? Do aries cancer relations work? Anyone who has experience in this depo please tell me your experiences.

my non-bf bf is mad at me for being dumb and i feel like i've been just running round in circles like an chicken without it's head. i heard of people taking things differently but this is ridiculous.

I'm an aries female - never had a cancer boyfriend - don't know that I could, but I do have several cancer friends. I've learned that I can only take them in small doses - not often and not too much. Just too emotional for me; very needy; in need of constant reasurrance of themselves - it gets tiring and old personally. Now, this is just my personal experience - I've got nothing against the little crabs; they're a fun lot to watch from a distance. I just think aries and cancer is a tough relationship to pull off. Maybe more mature crabs and mature aries can make it work, but the younger the both are, the harder it is.

ParakissBelle- had a cancer bf last year. nightmare!!! not for aries women...run run run. a friend is a sag is dating a cancer. this cancer guy said that his last gf was an aries and it wasn't good except for the sex part. but you have to figure it out yorself.

ouch, that sucks. I've heard the younger the cancer the more immature, but hes pretty decent. we got back on speaking terms and are trying to work out our relationship, so im pretty happy about that and i truly hope we get back together... offically this time. that and he said im too thick skulled!? he said as long as i dont mind waiting and was patient we'll try to get back to our niche.

Waiting and trying to make it work is a good thing - just don't loose yourself and who you are. You can't hide your aries qualities/traits and anyone worth your attention wouldn't want you to be anything different but yourself - that includes the good and the not so good. Yep we aries can be a stubborn and hard headed lot, but we're as passionate and loyal as they come as well. Good luck.

don't pretend to be something you are not for anyone. it won't work in a long run. the real you will always come out. good luck anyways

I think that Aries would find Cancer very erotic but too feminine in females and too effeminate in males a few shades too feminine and a few shades too effeminate > at some point you would realize that the masculinized cognitive processess are lacking if they are typical of their signs, its a squared vibration but it also depends on the the entire nativities which is your moon her sun his sun and your moon just like that. Cancer might find Aries too masculine > the masculinized cognition in females and Aries men. Both have the Cardinal initiating vibe so that's fascinating.

That's actually why i think we work joe, hes ubber sensitive, but its adorable. i feel the need to protect and baby him, but i kno hes the one really taking care of me. definitely not changing, NEVER!!! i see no point in hiding who i am if thats not what he enjoys about me. i feel theres something there and even tho patience is obviously not my virtue, i cant forget. its like he put up this HUGE wall of china around himself to protect him against me, but im totally ready and waiting to do some SERIOUS demo work! im just gonna make him see the amazing me, shit im an aries we are AWESOME! i've never heard anyone complain about us and im not about to start now. i think im just gonna keep him in check and make sure im never forgotten, i mean i've always heard im an addictive personality that should be good for something right—

Masculine signs are like that considering preception in relation with Feminine signs especially Men with double Masculine vibes such as Aries and Sagittarius among whom are both ruled by Masculine planets and well > Masculine signs and so its a double Macho deal and besides they are Fire signs, Cancer is like Pisces its a double Feminine deal > ruled by Feminine planets and Feminine signs. Its obviously a very strong attraction but narrow just sexual if the partners in consideration are typical of their signs discluding the entire nativity > the natal charts here then we might consider sun moon harmony although I'm referring to what is typical in astro personalities. So it can become one sided especially when the man is an Aries he might find you to be a few shades too much from the sexual erotic standpoint which is great but then what is lacking is the Cognition talkin' about that sympatico vibe yeah if the signs are typical a Masculine sun is definitely discern that something is seriously lacking >

Its that squeak squeak psss wssss psssss wsssss pss wssss squeak swim swim swim and around and around and around and around squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak squeaking swim swim swim round and round and round and round and round and round around and around andaround and around round round swim swim somemore squeakie squeakie I don't think if they are typical a Masculine sun would tolerate this.

This and that around and around and round and round and round pssss wss pssss wsssss squeak squeak psss round and around this way and that way and around and round that way and this way squekie if you keep doing this to me I'm going grab you and squueze you that's wuz up. squeak squeak swim swim pss wssss squak squak this and that that and this back and forth you do too much of this and I'm gonna get pissed.

i feel like u just ran my head into the toilet and lost me.

I've had only 1 cancer male in my life to take my heart. I'd have to say they are very sweet, but the guy was far to emotionally... and the mommy concept.... yeah its real. kid's mom hated me cuz he was madly in love with me and because he listened to me more than her. their are good things and bad things with this pairing, honestly if he's talking to you again thats a great sign. it might take some time, but hey every aries i've ever met has charmed the pants off of me, even my cancer ex's cuz (aries). just dont go over board and drive the poor guy nuts, to quote a cancer "im a simple man, dont make things so complicated". nuff said

From my experience. Aries and Cancer has a very strong attraction for each other and we can talk about anything while hypnotizing gazing for each other while smiling. Tho at first I didn't know she was attracted to me until later... She keeps bumping into me and when she talks to me she moves in very close (at times I felt like planting a kiss. it was that close). She would wave to me and say hi every chance she gets. She seems happy every time I'm near her. Tho I'm just now getting these signals.. I enjoy it. I don't have to try hard to talk to her it comes naturally. Tho I need to found out what her moon sign is. Oh and we are very much both charming it's funny literally! I dunno from MY past experience I had no bad ones with an Aries women. My best friend since high school is an Aries and we have fun being competitive when we play fighting games and shooting games. Same goes with the girls. I love to spark up a challenge with an Aries its fun! Especially when they get all quite when they know they lost muahhahaha. But there very persistent in getting you back. I say bring it on chump

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It sounds like the relationship I had with my cancer, we always used to play and joke around and wrestle. We both are HUGE martial art fans and we used to spar together! I know of a few cancer men and each one of them has similar joking habits, we tend to bounce off each other like two ping pong balls. this one time we were watching a movie and ended up doing this greek dance because it looked like tons of fun!

I keep hearing aries and cancer isnt typically a 'good' pairing, but i thought because aries is the 'baby' of the zodiac and cancers tend to be nurturing, that it would be a perfect match!

What sign goes best with aries?

for areis best match is sagittarius , leo, hands down than gemini and aqua, and last but not least another aries if you can find a common ground and not kill eachother,
im seeing and aries woman myslef right now ...and so far so good...she is little damaged from previous bad relartionsip but ive been down that road my self so its notihg i can fix..and the fireworks will come , lol

and as far as aries / cancer
well my sis is an aries married to a cancer guy. they have been married for about 5 or 7 year and are doing good, they love eachother so it works out fine
he loves her like a cancer does and she does love him like an aries ...in my opinion he would never let her go and she loves him so much she couldnt even hanlde the idea of loosing him
but that is 1 out of a 100 aries/cancer
ive tried with a cancer girls once and i could not get her being wishywashy all the time, the final blow was when she decied to ignore me hoping i would forget that we made plans. screw this. cant stand the heat dont go into the kitchen,
honestly right now i have 2 sings of my dating list
virgo and cancer... i doubt i would go for a relationship....a quicky yes but not a long term thingee

Definitely understand the 'if you cant handle the heat stay out of the kitchen'. I hate wishy washy people, that's why im so confused, hes being all wishy washy and not talking. Okay fine, i screwed up i get it, im the first to admit when i've done something wrong. there were a lot of mixed signals that obviously i didnt see because im a very straight forward kinda girl. I dont see the point in saying one thing n then doing another 'o well i thought we were almost there', its like 'oh well obviously u didnt think, because if you did you would've informed me of what was 'supposedily' going on therefore i could confirm'. He rejected me over and over, and even a month ago confirmed he did not want a relationship. then last min he says 'i thought we were almost in one', its either we are or we arent! Then it's like why say 'we'll work things out' if you wont talk to me!? My sagi gf gave me the best advice i've ever heard, 'shit or get off the pot'.

Bleh... and yea ditching someone when you know u made plans... dick move. if you really did forget and i called u... try to fix it! I've played around with an aries before... honestly one of the most memorible days of my life! But yea like you said... we kinda exploded together and thats the way it ended. i guess put to strong fires together and its not that you'll get burned... more like putting a bomb next to a lighter... it will catch fire n it will explode in ur face!

I'm surprised you mentioned virgos, i wish you luck with that. personally i never found virgos all that appealing. great for friends, but never met one worth dating, they're to distant for my taste. Besides im probably far to implusive for theres.

Aries and Cancer don't work. It's hard enough as friendships I can't imagine dating one.

I gotta tell ya - I have dated a Cancer on and off for the past few years and it has been the greatest test of my patience! We do love each other (maybe in a "sick" sorta way) but our personalities are so so very different. I am 36 and she is 35 and it is a constant battle. I live to be my free, independent-thinking self and she wants me to sit at home, bake cookies, cuddle and listen to our arteries harden! I need to be on-the-go and she likes to chill at home. When we are getting along life is great but when she starts to become clingy, naggie, irritable, and manipulatieve...whoa...watch out! I explode, she explodes, she's crying, I'm pissed off...and we cool down. I know that deep down inside we do love each other in our own "War of the Roses" sorta way...it isn't an easy combination to say the leat, however, love and patience can make any combination work! I tell myself that this is a Karmic setup that I have got to pay attention to.

I have to say that all these sun sign compatibility is a load of ol' rubbish. I have seen pairings work that the text book would never mention!..so don't listen to all that crap...

I have seen many Aries/Cancer pairings and they seem to work...and they have been together for a very long time...I haven't seen many of the ones that the textbooks pair them up..i.e. aries/sagi not seen any ever.

Yes thank you FA...at least someone agrees with me!!!..

I am supposed to work perfectly with Pisces, Cancer, capricorn and virgo...I can safely say that all pisces ones have been an utter disaster and I cannot ever see myself settling with a man who cannot make a decision to save his life not to mention not having the ability to say no to anyone...Cancer couldn't be arsed to deal with the moody, sulky behaviour of one..capricorns, no thanks..don't want to be friends with you for 7 years while your sort out your little caution issues of whether you want to start a relationship and virgo put the anal in analytical...sheesh..

Fire for me please...and thank u!

My most successful relationship have been with fire..go figure..the sign I am least meant to get along with..Air I have to agree don't do it for me..great as friends..not as lovers..too indifferent.

I am the fire starter....LOL.

FA what have been your success stories in terms of relationship signs?

Arie father and cancer mother...I dont recommend for a cancer woman.

Feminine and Masculine signs have different M.O. for life - should not be ignored if getting married...One will definitely suffer the consequences eventually

I have noticed that I seem to get along with Aries men (although I don't really know any Aries women).

You know Unusual Cancer, it's same for me - I get along with Cancer Men. Also, I haven't noticed a lot of Female Cardinal signs friendships - I don't have any female close friends with Capricorn, Cancer, Aries or Libra sun...— It never lasts for very long - I run away in fact... How about you guys?
I know some casually but their close friends are not Cardinal signs...

OK - One Cancer lady but she's like double my age so that made the difference

They seem to be born with a chip on their shoulder...but they do it with a certain charm, I must say. Gives them a kind of attitude that can be entertaining at times.

We're all born with a chip but Aries doesn't hide it - most other signs are intellectual or sneaky about it...Aries rams you with it 😛