ATTN: Cancer Women

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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


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I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions
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I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.
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See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?
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I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?

I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.
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5 dates?! Bruh πŸ˜’

You need a challenge or you need to chase a little more..

Is this your first crab?
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Hold your horses... Goats, or whatever..

WAYYY too fast.

What's way too fast?


You talking about marriage, ringing bells and shit, Motherfucka. πŸ’€

You didn't sense I was being sarcastic? I mean the date was great and we'll do it again, but I operate pretty slow on matters on the heart.
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That's my birthday too btw
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?

I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.


5 dates?! Bruh πŸ˜’

You need a challenge or you need to chase a little more..

Is this your first crab?
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Not my first crab.

First I dated when I was 24. She was 26. We vibed pretty quickly and went on a few dates, but she was super self-conscious about the age gap (which was weird to me, it was only two years). And, despite losing about 100 lbs, she was often pretty depressed about her weight and the wrong thing someone said to her about it (her Mom made a light jab around Thanksgiving 2014 she texted me), or if I touched her the wrong way in her "trouble" spots, she'd get very sad and emotional. She ended up breaking it off with me and looks very happy now.

Went on one date last Oct. with a July 1st Cancer last year. Also had a good vibe, kissed at the end, texted a few days afterwards but never went on another date again. She was 23, I 27. I probably wasn't frat boy enough for her, and I don't think I would have fit in with her friends at all. I don't always think about black/white interracial dynamics, but with her, I was thinking about it a lot and it made me feel weird the more pics I saw of her.

The five date girl was a Virgo. On the 4th date we ended up at her house but I didn't really feel like sex, made it clear I wanted to actually have something of substance with her. When I didn't phuck I think from that point forward she lost interest in me as we only went on one date after that.
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?

I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.


5 dates?! Bruh πŸ˜’

You need a challenge or you need to chase a little more..

Is this your first crab?

Not my first crab.

First I dated when I was 24. She was 26. We vibed pretty quickly and went on a few dates, but she was super self-conscious about the age gap (which was weird to me, it was only two years). And, despite losing about 100 lbs, she was often pretty depressed about her weight and the wrong thing someone said to her about it (her Mom made a light jab around Thanksgiving 2014 she texted me), or if I touched her the wrong way in her "trouble" spots, she'd get very sad and emotional. She ended up breaking it off with me and looks very happy now.

Went on one date last Oct. with a July 1st Cancer last year. Also had a good vibe, kissed at the end, texted a few days afterwards but never went on another date again. She was 23, I 27. I probably wasn't frat boy enough for her, and I don't think I would have fit in with her friends at all. I don't always think about black/white interracial dynamics, but with her, I was thinking about it a lot and it made me feel weird the more pics I saw of her.

The five date girl was a Virgo. On the 4th date we ended up at her house but I didn't really feel like sex, made it clear I wanted to actually have something of substance with her. When I didn't phuck I think from that point forward she lost interest in me as we only went on one date after that.
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Where's your moon? You're a rare breed.

It would of probably worked with the crab if you were her first love or if she was older.



You probably need to find a lady at your church. Where did you meet your new crab?
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?

I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.


5 dates?! Bruh πŸ˜’

You need a challenge or you need to chase a little more..

Is this your first crab?

Not my first crab.

First I dated when I was 24. She was 26. We vibed pretty quickly and went on a few dates, but she was super self-conscious about the age gap (which was weird to me, it was only two years). And, despite losing about 100 lbs, she was often pretty depressed about her weight and the wrong thing someone said to her about it (her Mom made a light jab around Thanksgiving 2014 she texted me), or if I touched her the wrong way in her "trouble" spots, she'd get very sad and emotional. She ended up breaking it off with me and looks very happy now.

Went on one date last Oct. with a July 1st Cancer last year. Also had a good vibe, kissed at the end, texted a few days afterwards but never went on another date again. She was 23, I 27. I probably wasn't frat boy enough for her, and I don't think I would have fit in with her friends at all. I don't always think about black/white interracial dynamics, but with her, I was thinking about it a lot and it made me feel weird the more pics I saw of her.

The five date girl was a Virgo. On the 4th date we ended up at her house but I didn't really feel like sex, made it clear I wanted to actually have something of substance with her. When I didn't phuck I think from that point forward she lost interest in me as we only went on one date after that.


Where's your moon? You're a rare breed.

It would of probably worked with the crab if you were her first love or if she was older.



You probably need to find a lady at your church. Where did you meet your new crab?
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Cap sun, Virgo moon. Multiple planets in Cap (Sun, Merc, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune), all in 8th minus the sun in 9th. Retrograde Merc, Jupiter (in Cancer), and Venus in Aqua.

Met new crab on Hinge, a dating app. She's also a Virgo moon.
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?

I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.


5 dates?! Bruh πŸ˜’

You need a challenge or you need to chase a little more..

Is this your first crab?

Not my first crab.

First I dated when I was 24. She was 26. We vibed pretty quickly and went on a few dates, but she was super self-conscious about the age gap (which was weird to me, it was only two years). And, despite losing about 100 lbs, she was often pretty depressed about her weight and the wrong thing someone said to her about it (her Mom made a light jab around Thanksgiving 2014 she texted me), or if I touched her the wrong way in her "trouble" spots, she'd get very sad and emotional. She ended up breaking it off with me and looks very happy now.

Went on one date last Oct. with a July 1st Cancer last year. Also had a good vibe, kissed at the end, texted a few days afterwards but never went on another date again. She was 23, I 27. I probably wasn't frat boy enough for her, and I don't think I would have fit in with her friends at all. I don't always think about black/white interracial dynamics, but with her, I was thinking about it a lot and it made me feel weird the more pics I saw of her.

The five date girl was a Virgo. On the 4th date we ended up at her house but I didn't really feel like sex, made it clear I wanted to actually have something of substance with her. When I didn't phuck I think from that point forward she lost interest in me as we only went on one date after that.


Where's your moon? You're a rare breed.

It would of probably worked with the crab if you were her first love or if she was older.



You probably need to find a lady at your church. Where did you meet your new crab?

Cap sun, Virgo moon. Multiple planets in Cap (Sun, Merc, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune), all in 8th minus the sun in 9th. Retrograde Merc, Jupiter (in Cancer), and Venus in Aqua.

Met new crab on Hinge, a dating app. She's also a Virgo moon.
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Errr same moon sign 😬 I'm dealing with the same issue but I don't know what to make of it yet..

Why are you on a dating site if you're not willing to take someone seriously or have sex with them? Do you want to find love?

Sorry if I'm asking so many questions.. the crab in me wants to help you and understand why your like this?

All of the caps in my life are completely different but none of them are this way towards love.

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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?

I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.


5 dates?! Bruh πŸ˜’

You need a challenge or you need to chase a little more..

Is this your first crab?

Not my first crab.

First I dated when I was 24. She was 26. We vibed pretty quickly and went on a few dates, but she was super self-conscious about the age gap (which was weird to me, it was only two years). And, despite losing about 100 lbs, she was often pretty depressed about her weight and the wrong thing someone said to her about it (her Mom made a light jab around Thanksgiving 2014 she texted me), or if I touched her the wrong way in her "trouble" spots, she'd get very sad and emotional. She ended up breaking it off with me and looks very happy now.

Went on one date last Oct. with a July 1st Cancer last year. Also had a good vibe, kissed at the end, texted a few days afterwards but never went on another date again. She was 23, I 27. I probably wasn't frat boy enough for her, and I don't think I would have fit in with her friends at all. I don't always think about black/white interracial dynamics, but with her, I was thinking about it a lot and it made me feel weird the more pics I saw of her.

The five date girl was a Virgo. On the 4th date we ended up at her house but I didn't really feel like sex, made it clear I wanted to actually have something of substance with her. When I didn't phuck I think from that point forward she lost interest in me as we only went on one date after that.


Where's your moon? You're a rare breed.

It would of probably worked with the crab if you were her first love or if she was older.



You probably need to find a lady at your church. Where did you meet your new crab?

Cap sun, Virgo moon. Multiple planets in Cap (Sun, Merc, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune), all in 8th minus the sun in 9th. Retrograde Merc, Jupiter (in Cancer), and Venus in Aqua.

Met new crab on Hinge, a dating app. She's also a Virgo moon.


Errr same moon sign 😬 I'm dealing with the same issue but I don't know what to make of it yet..

Why are you on a dating site if you're not willing to take someone seriously or have sex with them? Do you want to find love?

Sorry if I'm asking so many questions.. the crab in me wants to help you and understand why your like this?

All of the caps in my life are completely different but none of them are this way towards love.

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Never said I don't take some women seriously on these sites/apps, but some lend themselves to hookups (Tinder, some of Bumble), and sometimes I just want something physical. Other times, I desire something more...but I have trouble expressing it. Venus in Aquarius is already funny, throw in a natal retrograde along with so many placements in Capricorn and 8th along with a Virgo moon and I can be a difficult and sometimes polarizing person to the opposite sex.
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If you like this cancer womans and are playing for keeps, be consistent with your actions and words...no offense but you caps tend to shift when things get real (cough feel a feeling). That pull back is the quickest way to lose her. Be a good communicator if you're feeling like pulling away...and good luck.

Sometimes the thought of a relationship scares me, like traveling with a significant other, people knowing I'm involved with someone else, being that close to someone. I see all of these pics on social media, and they kind of rub me the wrong way.

I'm a late bloomer, first time I had sex was 21. Since then, I believe I've been attractive to the opposite sex, have a lot of allure with my placements, but investing a ton of time in another person makes me uneasy. I invest but not all the way, and I'll often say or do things that self-sabotage my linkage with a woman. I know with Cancers I've got to handle them with kid gloves. Tough sometimes, cause of so many planets in 8th and Cap, I've got a way with words that can sometimes cut deep or be misinterpreted.

But after this recent unprotected sex scare a month ago, I think it's God and the universe telling me that I may need to truly work on finding something more stable. Saturn return hitting me hard in my first year at 28 but I'm a Cap so I know about hardship and darkness. I was born in it lol.
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Congrats ✊🏿 don't fux it up..

I probably will. Aquarius in Venus retrograde.


πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'd help but ya'll caps don't like taking directions

I'll be fine. I feel like every time I've been close to a relationship I mess it up. Think it's cause I've got a fear of the next level deep down.


See πŸ˜… smh.. it's okay boss I know you got it already mapped out in your head..

But what do you consider next level? Sex or titles?

I've had sex before. Not a player or anything though, my number is only 12 and I'm 28.

Never had a girlfriend however, most I've been on with one girl is five dates. Either I'm too serious for them, or say the wrong thing or say nothing when I should say something.


5 dates?! Bruh πŸ˜’

You need a challenge or you need to chase a little more..

Is this your first crab?

Not my first crab.

First I dated when I was 24. She was 26. We vibed pretty quickly and went on a few dates, but she was super self-conscious about the age gap (which was weird to me, it was only two years). And, despite losing about 100 lbs, she was often pretty depressed about her weight and the wrong thing someone said to her about it (her Mom made a light jab around Thanksgiving 2014 she texted me), or if I touched her the wrong way in her "trouble" spots, she'd get very sad and emotional. She ended up breaking it off with me and looks very happy now.

Went on one date last Oct. with a July 1st Cancer last year. Also had a good vibe, kissed at the end, texted a few days afterwards but never went on another date again. She was 23, I 27. I probably wasn't frat boy enough for her, and I don't think I would have fit in with her friends at all. I don't always think about black/white interracial dynamics, but with her, I was thinking about it a lot and it made me feel weird the more pics I saw of her.

The five date girl was a Virgo. On the 4th date we ended up at her house but I didn't really feel like sex, made it clear I wanted to actually have something of substance with her. When I didn't phuck I think from that point forward she lost interest in me as we only went on one date after that.


I see the rxVenus struggle is really strong within you as well.

I realy hope things will work out well for this case. Fingers crossed.
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What and where is your retrograde Venus?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/dxp-venus-retrograde-at-birth-roll-call--11118462/