Mysteriouslyindc
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Bad sex with Cancer man
So he had orgasm once and that's it?
Try what happens if you give another round straight after with some foreplay. He may didn't have sex long time, who knows might help.
If it's constant it's indeed not promising from your perspective
Try what happens if you give another round straight after with some foreplay. He may didn't have sex long time, who knows might help.
If it's constant it's indeed not promising from your perspective
Why didn't you go multiple rounds? I'm confused? Of course the first was probably bad because of the anticipation. Give it another go and take your time and see.
Is there any sexual chemistry? Doesn't sound like it
Posted by RaakacPffttttt............... you saw that in the other thread and said nothing! 😛Posted by saggurl88Ohh hello there my reverse sign 😄
Why didn't you go multiple rounds? I'm confused? Of course the first was probably bad because of the anticipation. Give it another go and take your time and see.click to expand
Posted by RaakacPosted by saggurl88Didn't notice 😄Posted by RaakacPffttttt............... you saw that in the other thread and said nothing! 😛Posted by saggurl88Ohh hello there my reverse sign 😄
Why didn't you go multiple rounds? I'm confused? Of course the first was probably bad because of the anticipation. Give it another go and take your time and see.click to expand
Posted by RaakacI'm in the middle of Mafia wars, so I'm loaded up on gifs lol 😆Posted by saggurl88Didn't notice 😄Posted by RaakacPffttttt............... you saw that in the other thread and said nothing! 😛Posted by saggurl88Ohh hello there my reverse sign 😄
Why didn't you go multiple rounds? I'm confused? Of course the first was probably bad because of the anticipation. Give it another go and take your time and see.click to expand
What was bad about it exactly? Be specific
He prolly ain't comfortable .. Do y'all drink before it happens? He probably needs a damn drink.. Telling him it's bad only adds pressure, and some people don't perform well under pressure.. He needs to relax
He may have gotten lazy since he was in a 10 year relationship but you're a scorpio and we love challenges so teach him. You can pull greatness out of him.
Posted by MyStarsShineOh no! We have such a sexual chemistry but sex is always bad! Too much passion and we are from different sex schools...
Is there any sexual chemistry? Doesn't sound like it
He said once ‘I am so hyped up I don’t know where I am and where you are...’ and it was just that! Like hillarious! He admits it! ‘I don’t know what I am doing!’ Lol
Eyes are crazy watery with passion.
I think best would be to hug and cry together...but man wants to be a man but he can’t! I mean fucking is going on but emotions are taking over and we are like...WTF? Mess! Frigging mess!
Except we aren’t here for an orgasms!
THATS the key!
We are here for togetherness...
And nothing else matters. We are TOGETHER holding each other and looking at each other! Breathing together skin to skin and dying from something that is above orgasm!
Funniest thing was...on a middle of sex he asks me...’so how is you new job’?
Hysterical laughing and falling in each other arms hugging and I wisper...’was I cursed to love an idiot like you? Why God why—’
And his stupid reply..,’you don’t have to love me...let’s just have sex’
‘But you don’t know HOW!!!’
‘So...you don’t love me?’
‘No! I love you anyway...’
‘Want some coffee?’
‘Yes...if you can make THAT good’
God help me...
It's bad because you're not his ex. Before that sinks in, let me say that doesn't mean he wants you to be his ex. It's just she is what he is used to. Think about it, he kept a woman down for 10 years. The likelihood of that happening with a dick that can't get the job done is pretty minimal. I seriously doubt the issue has anything to do with an inability to perform. I bet if you got half of what he deals in a solo session with himself, you'd never have started this thread.
So with that said, take a step back and reevaluate the situation. I mean if he's a square peg, and you're a round hole, there's no fixing that kind of incompatibility. But that is why you step back and see if the issue pertains more to that, or impatience on your part.
So with that said, take a step back and reevaluate the situation. I mean if he's a square peg, and you're a round hole, there's no fixing that kind of incompatibility. But that is why you step back and see if the issue pertains more to that, or impatience on your part.
Posted by GemitatiCheating on your husband and still not getting yours! That’s so pitiful. I hope you do better in 2018.
Oh no! We have such a sexual chemistry but sex is always bad! Too much passion and we are from different sex schools...
He said once ‘I am so hyped up I don’t know where I am and where you are...’ and it was just that! Like hillarious! He admits it! ‘I don’t know what I am doing!’ Lol
Eyes are crazy watery with passion.
I think best would be to hug and cry together...but man wants to be a man but he can’t! I mean fucking is going on but emotions are taking over and we are like...WTF? Mess! Frigging mess!
Except we aren’t here for an orgasms!
THATS the key!
We are here for togetherness...
And nothing else matters. We are TOGETHER holding each other and looking at each other! Breathing together skin to skin and dying from something that is above orgasm!
Funniest thing was...on a middle of sex he asks me...’so how is you new job’?
Hysterical laughing and falling in each other arms hugging and I wisper...’was I cursed to love an idiot like you? Why God why—’
And his stupid reply..,’you don’t have to love me...let’s just have sex’
‘But you don’t know HOW!!!’
‘So...you don’t love me?’
‘No! I love you anyway...’
‘Want some coffee?’
‘Yes...if you can make THAT good’
God help me...
Posted by MysteriouslyindcI had a similar experience with a Cancer. I have a Mars Scorpio and sex is very important to me. The first time was rushed; the foreplay was too fast and he finished within the first two minutes. We didn't have sex again for a year because I said I needed some time to think about what I wanted. He respected it and we just came back together recently. Honestly the bad sex was a turn off and I'm kind of ashamed to admit that it scared me away for a long time. But the feelings I had for him remained.
Welllll, Cancer man and I have been going pretty strong for some time and yesterday we finally had sex. He had been in a long term relationship of about 10 years I believe and so I'm not sure if that has something to do with it. He was done pretty early on and I got the feeling he didn't know what he was doing. It was so bad we laid there and laughed about it but the more I thought about it the less funny it became lol. When laying there he kept saying it must've been timing and he didn't know what happened and that we'd try again another time. When I left him he told me to "let's just forget about that failure"
After that he went to work and invited me over to his place again after. I had no intentions of sleeping with him again because genuinely I like him but idk if I can handle bad sex so I feel like I'd need more feelings for him if I'm going to be patient about this. So I get over there and we have sex again and again it's even worse than the first time. I truly care about this guy and he's very sweet but idk what to do. He kept asking me what was wrong and I couldn't tell him because I felt like it was a touchy subject so I ended up leaving.
ADVICE PLEASE, ANYONE
btw I'm a Scorpio
So a year later, we end up having sex again. Again he finished fast, honestly even faster than the first time, although this time the foreplay was better. I think it was just the building up, he had been wanting me for so long and thinking about it, and then when it finally happened, he just got very excited. But this time we stayed in bed kissing afterwards, cuddling, and unexpectedly he initiated again after ten minutes of a break. I was surprised! It was a huge turn on that he was able to go again in such a short period of time. The second time I was on top and he lasted longer.
As others have said, you need to give him a chance if you really like him. Cancers like to know what you want in bed, in my experience, and they aim to give you pleasure (that gives them pleasure). It may very well get better with time and a little talking. For me, the penetration is less important than the foreplay, and this guy happens to be great at foreplay, so I can forgive that he finishes fast.
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ADVICE PLEASE, ANYONE
btw I'm a Scorpio