Being played..

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by crudemood on Wednesday, January 30, 2008 and has 10 replies.

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@crudemood
19 Years

I'm just wondering, sitting here thinking about it.

How do you guys handle having your feelings being toyed with?
whether its the truth or a result of insecurities.

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@PeanutBrown
18 Years

Another Cancer in agreement...When someone is toying with me I run and hide in my shell too. Depending on the severity of the joking we may not come out.

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@flyingfoxes
18 Years

I've had that before. Well, what I did was just react nonchalant & let the player think that whatever she is doing doesn't affect me at all, & I knew it all along (Bloody pride, ok)...

Cancerians achille's heel is their vulnerable feelings. Yet they are born strategists, awesome mindfxxker as well. Deep down hurting though, but I just played along & showed the person I don't give a shit if she was playing with me at all, & I'll even be ultra nice to her. Eventually, I got her mind fxxked. Tit for Tat. U break my heart, I'll screw your brain. Some think I'm immature, I'll call it a fair game.

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@krobe03
19 Years1,000+ Posts

I start plotting an elaborate revenge...usually involving said playa's brother, best friend, father or all three. If you know what I'm sayin.

LOL! U must be a Scorp!

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Scorp is my ascendant (I'm Pisces), but it does play a huge role in how I react to the behavior of others. I do get even if I'm messed with on that level. Sometimes, you can teach another person a valuable lesson by giving them a taste of their own medicine.

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@krobe03
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Scorp is my ascendant (I'm Pisces), but it does play a huge role in how I react to the behavior of others. I do get even if I'm messed with on that level. Sometimes, you can teach another person a valuable lesson by giving them a taste of their own medicine.

Close enough! LOL! I haven't tried that one before but men seem to be intrigued by it. I have a Pisces friend who did it to her boyfriend because he wouldn't marry her and a couple of months later, she came to me with a pretty diamond on her finger. I LOVE you water signs esp the women.