Can it work . . .cancer women and a libra man?

All of the horoscopes out there are generally against it! I've read some responses to the same type of quesiton, but in anyones experience - has it worked?? I know I'm falling in love with this Libra man and it scares me! I was hurt by a virgo in the past and so my outer crab shell is in full effect! Slowly but surely that Libra charm is breaking my shell. My psychic intutions are off the hook with this one - I know when he is going to call and I know that when he isn't calling me something is wrong. Libra shows some caring gestures, but at the same time my cancer side of me touchy, romantic, sentimental side of me is starting to come out and I don't want that to scare him off! HE is definately all that a libra is described as - vain, charming, pushes back emotion and knows it. Anyways - HELP!!!

So what is all this about rising, mars, venus signs— Cancerlady can you assist on this one - sounds like you know about these things. Can you explain?

Well your rising sign is the sign that affects your personality the most and is the one that influences your behavior and the way you do the things you do. Sort of like having a second sun sign. Your mars sign has a lot to deal with about your passions and what drives you to make certain decisions. It also has a lot to deal with how and what you are like when you are having sex. Your venus is your love sign and mostly deals with how and what you're like when you're in love. Your emotions, your feelings, how you react in relationships and ties with close ones.
But that's all that I really know. Maybe someone else can help you out.

As for your relationship problem, I have a friend who is a Cancer and she constantly attracts Libra men. It would be a bit of a stretch for me to say that maybe this relationship can work. 'Cause it starts off pretty good. My friend was head over heels in love with her libra men. But after a while you may have to guard yourself and that's when your shell comes in. You have to watch for inconsistencies in their behavior, 'cause most of the libra men I know love to flirt. And they will look for their freedom and go off somewhere else. Of course this doesn't apply to every libra I know, 'cause for the most part libras love to be in relationships and love the feeling of being in love as we air signs all do (i'm an aquarius). But when it gets to the point that it feels like their partner is smothering them, they'll see the chance to leave or go off and flirt with someone else whenever they feel like it.
My friend just broke up with her libra though, and surprisedly he was very bitter about her leaving him 'cause I guess her focus and her attention wasn't going to be on him anymore. Libra's don't like to admit it, but they do get jealous; when you leave them they don't want you, but they don't want anyone else to have you. This libra male ended up saying a lot of nasty things about my friend behind her back because she left him.

But the positive side is every relationship is different. Maybe yours will work out. Just enjoy it while it lasts. 🙂

Crimson

DON'T DO IT!!!!! LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES!!!!

Just Kidding...First of all
Welcome to the boards!

Second of all...I need more information on him in order to figure out his chart.

I'll need his birthdate, time, & place. Let's see what this Mr. Libra is all about.

Also what are the dynamics of your relationship...Did you just meet? Anything physical yet? We'll figure this out.....together.

OK I'm being melodramatic again...

Cancerlady - Thanks for the "smiley" welcome!! Um - I'm on my way to work so I'll post more later tonight, but I hope this can get a head start. We have been seeing each other since Aug 04, yep physical too. His birthday is 10/20/78 and he was born in Dallas TX. I have no clue what time he was born and I'm not sure I want to ask him - he will definatly wonder what i'm up to!!🙂 I'll be back online around 6-7 pm tonight if you are on! I'll have to tell ya about last night! Have a great day and Thanks!

I hate when I realize I am starting to fall for someone...I have to fight the"touchy, romantic, sentimental" part so I don't scare them off.....

SOFTY GIRL!

You should never sompromise who you are because if he don't like it in the beginning...He probably won't like it later on. I learned to supress my touchy feely side but it backfired on me with Mr. Libra because he actually likes that kind of stuff.

So I do what I do now and always have with Mr. Pisces and he LOVES it! This was before I even knew what sign he was. I only found that out this February when it passed. GIRL if you don't be YOU and SCREW them if they don't like it...I will track you down and thrash you!

NOW...Cancerlvlibra, here is his chart reading

Sun is in 26 Degrees Libra.

Very sociable, you enjoy being with others and definitely prefer not be alone. Warm and affectionate, you go out of your way to make others like you. You despise ugliness, for you being surrounded by beauty and harmony is a necessity of life. You prefer fine clothing, an attractive home and pleasant surroundings wherever you are. Your refined tastes apply to music and to art as well. At times, you are very indecisive you waver and falter when forced to make a choice because you have the ability to see both sides of any question. The positive part of this is that you are very fair-minded and can be trusted to settle disputes. Your greatest challenge is to take any one- on-one encounter and make the most of it.

Moon is in 20 Degrees Gemini.

Restless in the extreme, you are easily bored because of your short attention span. Your emotions change rapidly and you love to talk about your feelings. Generally, you have good judgment -- your intellect controls your emotions and you do not overreact emotionally to things. A good jack-of-all-trades, you have many- sided interests and enjoy reasoning things through. With your mental agility and need for physical mobility, you are attracted to traveling and learning about other peoples and cultures. You have vivid powers of emotional self-expression - - you can be a nonstop talker. You love to share your ideas with anyone who will listen.

Mercury is in 10 Degrees Scorpio.

You are a born investigator. You are fascinated by secrets and mysteries and unanswered questions of any kind. When you become upset or angry, your emotional reactions are overpowering -- reason and logic disappear in an uncontrollable passionate outburst. You tend to keep your thoughts secret and bottled up and this makes others regard you with suspicion. It is not that you are trying purposely to be evasive, it is just that you would rather not deal with the explosions and hassles that often occur when you reveal your true feelings and opinions. Your sense of humor tends toward sarcasm and irony.

Venus is in 22 Degrees Scorpio.

Your feelings about others are deep, powerful, intense and complex. When you like someone, you do so totally and obsessively if you do not like someone, they do not exist. Your faithfulness and loyalty to your lover is unquestioned, indeed at times it is too much so -- you get so possessive that you almost smother your partner. At times, your feelings are kept deep within you and, because they are so complex and intense, they frighten you -- this is the way that you try to ignore them. But the more you try to do this, the more explosive things get when you eventually do express them.

Mars is in 21 Degrees Scorpio.

Your likes and dislikes are strong and intense, never casual or superficial. You are known for your persistence and willful obsession. Once you have decided on a course of action, you are unstoppable. Your emotional actions tend to be extreme, although you try to keep them muted. You are not quick to anger, you do slow burns. And you tend to release your anger as sarcasm or irony. Beware of your tendency to hold grudges and to be vengeful. When you do fight, or release your internal tensions, you do so body and soul -- you become totally passionate and your outbursts are awesome to behold.

Jupiter is in 07 Degrees Leo.
You must be proud of all that you do in order to grow and develop. You enjoy being totally honest and aboveboard and you revel in the admiration and respect you receive from others due to your high- minded, upright way of life. Make sure, though, that your natural tendency to boast and show off is based on your actual accomplishments. Don't fall prey to self-exaggeration or arrogance. You truly do like outrageous spectacles and grand jolly times and will go out of your way to make them a

I must say...No wonder you are so psyhic about him with all that water (Scorpio) in his chart. I don't know his rising sign b/c I need birthtime, but I also need your info so it can be compared.

Being that Libra's & Scorpio men are both obsessed with sex, it is good that you guys have been physical. I think that was a big problem between me & my Libra. They just gotta have it! I'll probably not be on tonight, but I will anwser all questions tommorow. Tell me what happened between the two of you though...

Cancerlady

Hey cancerlady! That chart about Mr. Libra was pretty right on!! I agree with your conclusion of "they just have to have it", but that is cool with me cause I'm right with him in that one!! And lets just say its pretty damn good!!
Well so this is what happened last night . . . he came over and we were just chillin and ate supper. Then we started messin around on the computer and downloading songs to make a cd for him. We were getting some "musiq" songs (called "don't change" and "love"). Do you know whose songs? Well he started singing to me (I think)because he was looking at me, touching me and gesturing to me. To be honest I could hardly look at him cause I knew that if I did I would just fall my butt in love even more than I am now!!! I seemed to me like he was trying to say his feelings through the songs 🙂 What do ya think?

Anyways - my info is 07/20/78 5:46pm Albert Lea, MN.

AAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!

He's singing to you! Oh boy, don't screw this one up because he is really into you. Either that or he just really likes singing. The reason I say this is because the Mr. Libra I was infatuated with is a "rapper", MC or whatever the hell they call themselves these days...Anyway in our most productive period, he would make up little free style s about me while looking me in my eyes & doing small touches. He said in one of those raps that he didn't know how to express how he felt other than in the song. I would be inclined to say that's VERY GOOD!

As far as MUSIQ...DUH! Of course I know those songs...especially "Love"

Looove...So many people uuussse your name in vaaaiiinnn

Looooooove...those who have faith in you sometimes go astraaaayyyy

Looooooooove...through all the ups and downs the joys & huuurrtts

Loooooooooove...For better or wooorse Iiii still will choose you fiiirst!

At first you didn't mean that much to meeee, Oh
But now I know you're all I neeeeed and Ooooh
The world is sooo brand neeeewwww to mmmmmeeeeee
NOW THAT I FOUND LOOOOOVVVVEEE
Everyday I live for yoooouuu
And everything that I do, I do it for yooouuu
See what I say, what I feel better believe it's true....
Girl you know it's truuuueee.....

LLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

Oh, sorry, back to the real world.

Here's yo info!
Cancerlady

Rising Sign is in 14 Degrees Sagittarius
You are known for being open, frank, outgoing and honest. At times, though, you are also blunt and quite indiscreet. Others have to learn not to take everything you say personally, because you usually do not mean any harm. You appreciate living your life in a straightforward and simple manner -- you dislike social niceties and consider them to be hindrances to real communication. You have lots and lots of energy and tend to become quite restless if you feel confined. You demand the freedom to do as you choose -- you must be self- directed or you feel trapped and anxious. With your abundant energy, you enjoy being outdoors, and you should be attracted to physical exercise or to those forms of sport which can help you burn off some of that excess energy. Very gregarious, you love to socialize -- your innate enthusiasm livens up any gathering.

Sun is in 27 Degrees Cancer.
Very emotional and sensitive, you have an intuitive understanding of the "vibes" around you. You tend to be quite generous, giving, loving and caring, but only when your own needs for emotional support, love and security have been met. If they are not met, you tend to withdraw into yourself and become very insecure and selfish. Your home and family (especially your mother or the person who played that role for you early on) represent security for you and thus assume a larger-than-life importance. Very sentimental, you have vivid and long- enduring memories of the past. No matter how well adjusted you are, you will always need a secret quiet place of your own in order to feel at peace. Feeding others can give you great pleasure you would enjoy being part of a large family.

Moon is in 09 Degrees Aquarius.
Very freedom-oriented, you must always be able to do what you wish, no matter what. You become stubborn and recalcitrant when others try to force you into a mold. You are a true democrat -- you are not a follower, but you enjoy being with those who are like-minded. You appreciate emotional self-control -- you practice it yourself and you look for it in others. You solve problems, including emotional ones, with your brains and intellect, not your feelings. Try to be tolerant of those who have powerful and obvious emotional responses -- not everyone is as objective, cool, dispassionate and detached as you are.

Mercury is in 24 Degrees Leo.
You are usually quite convinced that your own ideas are correct and you enjoy persuading others that they are. At times, you are very stubborn and proud of your beliefs and principles, and you get very defensive when they are challenged. You appreciate truth and honesty -- you practice it yourself and expect it in others. You have good talent for organizing, directing and planning. You delight in being asked for your advice and counsel.

Venus is in 10 Degrees Virgo.
You express your love and affection through selfless service to people or causes. You have a tendency to underestimate yourself and doubt your self-worth. This is very demeaning and should be avoided -- learn to love yourself as well as you do others. Your standards of perfection are very high -- you are attracted to relationships based on duty and responsibility. You are supercritical of yourself and others and, at times, prefer to be alone rather than deal with any imperfections in yourself or in those with whom you might relate.

Mars is in 21 Degrees Virgo.
Very careful and systematic, you pay great attention to details. You are always seeking perfection and sometimes get bogged down searching for the ultimate when adequacy would have been sufficient. You dislike abstractions, preferring whatever is practical, useful and demonstrable. You have a strong and enduring sense of personal responsibility, and you demand that others be as responsible and upright as you are. Very critical of yourself and others, sometimes you carry this too far and become

Well no wonder you guys get along so well.

At first glance, your suns would seem to give you trouble, but ALAS! Your Sagittarius rising and Moon in Aqua make it all the better for his Moon in Gemini which would make him tire of you VERY quickly normally. Both of you love to love but also like to have a life outside of your significant other. That emotional part should work out well as you are less emotional than a normal Cancer.

I don't know what his rising sign is so I can't really say how that effect you, but yours is a good sign for a Libra Sun.

Your mecury signs (It is the planet of day-to-day expression and communication.) There might be a problem because of power struggles. Having Leo there means you will not want to listen to someones perspective unless it's yours and him having Scorpio there...he will want alot of control. Both of you should be careful of being too defensive with each other.

I am inclined to think your Venus/Mars combo's (You Virgo, Him Scorpio respectively)combined with the Sun signs will be okay because Virgo's & Cancers are so giving of themselves and Scorpio's & Libras (Sun & Venus) would both suck it right on up, loving every minute of it. The Scorpio Mars might give him better decision making skills but also will make him more controlling because Libras are jealous too, just secretly...I can tell you this though, you better not look at any other men because he might sting ya!

Hope this helps you out a bit...Remember I am not an astrologer or anything. I was just so obsessed with my Libra trying to find out everything he wouldn't tell me that I read so much on each of the signs and their different planets I am bursting with deductive reasoning! Seriously...

GOOD LUCK!

Cancerlady

cancerlady - you are the bomb! I love when you sing to me🙂 lololol But I have to ask you to stop . . . cause i might fall in love with you too!!!

I'm at work so I really can't write a long response so I'll respond to your messages later!

Hey Girl - you feeling better yet? No more wanting to cry? Hope not! This little story should make you laugh a little bit! This is the short and sweet version and so there was more to the conversation than what I'm telling here so it was actually even more funny. Well so Mr. Libra has been a little depressed lately cause he is having baby mama drama and so I told him that in August when my baby dad gets out of the big house that I'm sure I'd have some baby daddy drama. Mr. Libra says "your baby dad doesn't want to start drama with you" and I said why? He goes (in a sort of joking tone)"I'm bigger than him!!!!" How fricken cute is he? Showing his jealous/possessive side. You think?

Any ways I thought it was pretty cute - we'll just have to see what goes on in August!

cancerluvlibra! 🙂

Oh so that WAS your baby in the picture...What a cutie!



Yeah, jealousy is a good thing because it means he cares. Libras don't get jealous over people they don't care about...

Good Luck with all the Baby Mama/Daddy drama!

Cancerlady

Yep that was my baby in the pic - Thanks for the good luck on the baby daddy/mama drama we will need it! Please read my post on the libra board and let me know what you think! Thanks girl- I'm having one of them doubting moments.