Cancer and Pisces dynamic 🤮

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So there's this couple my husband knows who I've heard a lot about. 27.9 year old Cancer man and 26 year old Pisces woman, married for 3 years. The friend group they're a part of don't really like the Pisces girl. They would say things like how the Cancer and Pisces are insanely clingy with each other and it's rare you'd be able to get a hold of them separately (before they got married the Cancer would be really cool to hang out with supposedly). They'll be doing things like the Cancer helping the Pisces get out of her chair every time they're seated together. At first I thought it all sounded kind of cute, eh?

Then I got to spend time with the couple yesterday for the first time. We were at a park near a beach. Our husbands were playing volleyball. The Pisces and I were watching from a nice area with shade for a good amount of time. The Cancer calls the Pisces mid-game to check-in and make sure she's not burning up... even tho we've clearly been settled comfortably under a shade for a good half an hour. Me and the Pisces grab cold water bottles. I see the Pisces struggling to open hers... So I offer to help the grown ass woman open her water bottle. And she's all thanking me and saying how she's really weak. It's time for lunch. The Cancer was helping the Pisces cut apart her meat on her plate because she was struggling. I couldn't help but laugh at the cliche Pisces damsel in distress image she had.

Now I get why there's all these Cancer men threads, if you're not a Pisces chick you're most likely out of luck.
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Uhm... she might have a muscle condition—

I'm Pisces and I have days where I have to ask others for the same thing! Open bottles, cut meat, tow garbage can outside, ... sometimes I cant even lift a fork. I have a muscle condition which is progressive. And I'm a strong minded woman but sometimes simple stuff like this, I cant do. Would that make me a damsel in distress too? I didnt ask for it. She may be facing the same issues. Did you ask why she cant do this herself?
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Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Lol maybe she was the youngest sibling of her family. I was always used to everyone doing things for me growing up so whenever I can ask someone to do something I'll ask lol. Also I don't have strong arms.

Her bf loves it so she feels comfortable enough to be her natural self.

Or maybe they have a Master/Sub relationship and they don't wanna get caught lol.

I couldn't stop laughing tho lmao

You're really faken weird, you know that??

It's probably a front anyway, and she's the one wearing the pants behind closed doors. Kinda like this.

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PS: ^^^^ the fact that he's a Cancer and his wife is a Pisces hasn't escaped me.
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Uhm... she might have a muscle condition—

I'm Pisces and I have days where I have to ask others for the same thing! Open bottles, cut meat, tow garbage can outside, ... sometimes I cant even lift a fork. I have a muscle condition which is progressive. And I'm a strong minded woman but sometimes simple stuff like this, I cant do. Would that make me a damsel in distress too? I didnt ask for it. She may be facing the same issues. Did you ask why she cant do this herself?


❤️ Sometimes a simple question is all it takes to receive clarity. Everything isn't always what it seems on the surface.
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Posted by PiscesGal76

Uhm... she might have a muscle condition—

I'm Pisces and I have days where I have to ask others for the same thing! Open bottles, cut meat, tow garbage can outside, ... sometimes I cant even lift a fork. I have a muscle condition which is progressive. And I'm a strong minded woman but sometimes simple stuff like this, I cant do. Would that make me a damsel in distress too? I didnt ask for it. She may be facing the same issues. Did you ask why she cant do this herself?

❤️ Sometimes a simple question is all it takes to receive clarity. Everything isn't always what it seems on the surface.

💗 sorry you have to experience this @piscesgal76 😢

...

i echo .. the above

i am not a pisces and i am like this...

im almost 18 but have not met developmental milestones

bcause of this it is difficult to do every day things

...it is not intentional 😢 but i am deeply

sorry to be a bother...and

forever grateful when

i receive help

if you can ..

for your pisces friend

please be patient with her
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Thank you. 💕

I hope you'll recieve help whenever you need it. Its not a fun situation to be in...
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Posted by PiscesGal76

Uhm... she might have a muscle condition—

I'm Pisces and I have days where I have to ask others for the same thing! Open bottles, cut meat, tow garbage can outside, ... sometimes I cant even lift a fork. I have a muscle condition which is progressive. And I'm a strong minded woman but sometimes simple stuff like this, I cant do. Would that make me a damsel in distress too? I didnt ask for it. She may be facing the same issues. Did you ask why she cant do this herself?

I could see this being possible. This actually didn't occur to me since she looks fairly normal and is a kindergarten teacher. I assumed it required some level of energy to deal with those monsters. She had already nonchalantly declared she was weak so I didn't think of asking anything further like if it was due to some condition.
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Posted by PiscesGal76

Uhm... she might have a muscle condition—

I'm Pisces and I have days where I have to ask others for the same thing! Open bottles, cut meat, tow garbage can outside, ... sometimes I cant even lift a fork. I have a muscle condition which is progressive. And I'm a strong minded woman but sometimes simple stuff like this, I cant do. Would that make me a damsel in distress too? I didnt ask for it. She may be facing the same issues. Did you ask why she cant do this herself?

I could see this being possible. This actually didn't occur to me since she looks fairly normal and is a kindergarten teacher. I assumed it required some level of energy to deal with those monsters. She had already nonchalantly declared she was weak so I didn't think of asking anything further like if it was due to some condition.
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I look normal too. If you see me walking (something I couldnt do 4 years ago) you wouldnt think something is wrong with me. On me good days, I can do most stuff on me own. On bad days, getting out of bed is a battle, cant hold a knife to make bread, cant lift a milk can ect... and even tho I cant do those things, I'm still a ball of energy. Its the muscles that fail me, not the brain 😉

Next time, just ask her.... dont be afraid to ask. If she doesnt want to explain, she'll tell you. Pisces rather have you ask than think of them behind their backs n creative some false truth. Know what I mean? We will also tell you if we dont want to talk about it but most times, we're happy to explain.
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I’m the kind of woman where my partners get mad at me because I won’t let them help me, stubborn as hell... so I don’t understand this dynamic, but to each their own.

You should let your man help you. When you do we feel appreciated and needed. 2 of the most important things we want to get from our woman.

so you want women to act retarded for your own egos

okay i understand

actually i don't

generally men are fuking lazy, if you really want to help women, learn how to clean/cook properly

that'll help us
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Lmao right?! Instead of resorting to help with the cheap stuff.
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I mean to each their own... They’re relationship seems to work for THEM, so 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

4 how long though

this Crab must have a water moon cause this kind of behavior is just disgusting.
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Again, it works for them.. So, who are we to put a time limit to THEIR relationship. Unless the people witnessing are jealous 🤔🤔... b/c if they’re happy with their relationship why should others care or feel disgust 🙄🙄🙄