Cancer DO's

I'm sure all of you are familiar with my "disclaimer" from my other posts so just keep in mind that the same "disclaimer" applies to my opinion on this topic too.

Cancer DO's:
-When your Cancer is opening up to you about something or conversating with you face to face, make sure they know you're listening & are focusing & are tuned in to what they are saying. Looking around or looking everywhere BUT in their eyes when they're talking to you will make them assume that you don't care or don't appreciate what they are saying.

-Learn to enjoy quiet, private evenings at home-they will show you how fulfilling these times can be. Cancers take very seriously the time they spend with their partners. Cancers prefer quality over quantity. Don't be suprised when your Cancer wants to spend the night indoors. They are attracted to those who know how to have just as much fun indoors than outdoors.

-Remember & commemorate special days (Valentine's day & the anniversary of your first date).

-Show them how much you appreciate their emotional richness. Don't make your Cancer feel bad or guilty for having so many emotions when they express them. Make sure that your Cancer knows how much you appreciate them (instead of protest against them) for how tuned in they are with their emotions.

-Making them feel the most welcome & comfortable when they come to visit. The way a person takes care of their home or personal space says alot to a Cancer about someone. If your Cancer doesn't feel comfortable in their partners own home or sanctuary, they will not open up or completely be themselves unless that feeling of "discomfort" has left. Always make sure your house is clean & cozy looking when your Cancer comes over. Personal environment means alot to a Cancer, especially since they always make sure their own environments look appealing to you.

-Serve them a good meal or allow them the pleasure of preparing something to please you. When your Cancer wants to cook for you or do any good deed for you, just let them. Understand that they are doing these things out of the kindness of their hearts & with sincerity. Never being able to take their compliments or their gifts will make them feel uneeded & unappreciated.

-If you want to seduce Cancer, you will have to bring her in the right mood first! The environment, the people around her, and her own mood really matters. If you are craving sex or anything romantic, make sure your Cancer is in the right mood. If you see that they aren't, don't try to pressure them into the mood or make them feel bad for not being in the right mood. The best thing to do is to be upfront about what you crave (in the moment) and if they warm up & change face, then go for it, but if they are determined to stay in the same mood, just let them be.

-Understand your Cancer's "tough shell" in the beginning. Don't expect for your Cancer to believe everything you say & to attach to you immediately. Show your Cancer what you can offer them, better than you can tell them. Don't ever make your Cancer feel bad for not telling you something they technically don't owe you an explanation for. If you're Cancer is hiding something destructive from you, that's another story. But never pressure your Cancer to open up before they're ready. They will be ready when they feel YOU are ready for what they have to say, feel & do.

-Appreciate your Cancers love for affection. When your Cancer wants to be affection, know that they take intimacy very seriously & aren't this way with everyone. Take it as a compliment that your Cancer has opened up to you enough to be sexual or intimate with you. When your Cancer wants to have sex, just give in. When your Cancer wants to be in control during sex, let them. If they see that their partners are enjoying & accpeting this "new side" of them that you've never seen, it'll be easier for them to bring out the rest of their personality in front of you.

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