Cancer energies

do you notice cancer energies like sun, moon etc seem to always attract narcissists? like not just 'friends' but also stalkers? and they even face competition from supposed 'lovers' or significant others? like a romantic partner freakin competing with you. i'm thinking like selena gomez, princess diana, abby choi, LVP (this one specifically cancer moon) . i'm thinking this has to do with their great business know-how 🤔🤔

Posted by GeminiJim
wth I have Cancer moon and I don;t know what you are talking about

are you good with business? just curious 🤔🤔

I got cancer Venus and Mars and I feel like I'm being stalked all the time even when I'm alone and there's no one around in sight. I don't know if that counts. And not to mention I get lots of unwanted attention stares something Leo moons and fire signs wish to get.

Posted by virgoOPPP
do you notice cancer energies like sun, moon etc seem to always attract narcissists? like not just 'friends' but also stalkers? and they even face competition from supposed 'lovers' or significant others? like a romantic partner freakin competing with you. i'm thinking like selena gomez, princess diana, abby choi, LVP (this one specifically cancer moon) . i'm thinking this has to do with their great business know-how 🤔🤔

oh man, I have a mars in cancer. I never thought about it till you mentioned 😳. I can kind of sense hidden agendas, but thr mars in me is like a marshmallow, I always want to help people 😭😢.

Well the guy I dated early this year would certainly agree. Was taken advantage of from narcissistic personalities in his life. But I must say partially his fault.. he stayed to be abused and take care of them no matter what. He also begs for you to stay when you’re not into him.. latched on pretty hard to me since I am a caring person & never experienced that before. He’s cancer venus/mars. Way too clingy lol

One of my good friends who is a Scorpio Sun, Cancer rising tends to attract stalkers. One particularly was a Leo. Although she did gaslight him a bit and take advantage.. she ultimately did try to end things. The Leo couldn't accept that and displayed erratic behavior such as expressing how much he hates her, threatening suicide and then sending flowers all in the span of 24 hours.

When I say gaslight, I mean she knew his intentions but allowed him to buy her groceries and do acts of services to attempt winning her over. She then declines and he rages.

Selena Gomez has admitted that all of her exes think she's crazy, so crazy attracts crazy!

Stop overusing this clinical term. If you do not have the licensure to diagnose, then you should not be doing so. I get how it is trendy, every woman seems to have dated a “narcissist”. Stop following every trend. Everyone seems to know how to diagnose someone with NPD.

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Posted by LuckyLibra7
One of my good friends who is a Scorpio Sun, Cancer rising tends to attract stalkers. One particularly was a Leo. Although she did gaslight him a bit and take advantage.. she ultimately did try to end things. The Leo couldn't accept that and displayed erratic behavior such as expressing how much he hates her, threatening suicide and then sending flowers all in the span of 24 hours.


When I say gaslight, I mean she knew his intentions but allowed him to buy her groceries and do acts of services to attempt winning her over. She then declines and he rages.

Literally all the women you talk about have my placements.
Let me check off Cancer rising, Scorp sun, Virgo Venus, sag mercury.

Oh and I definitely stay away from Leos. They definitely scare me. My friends joked my Leo coworker has a shrine dedicated to me in his home. He literally act like what you described. Everytime I say I'm not comfortable he needs to stop, he would pretend to be nice to all the other women and make it seem like I'm overreacting.
But there are cases of other Leos where they tried to follow me home. Text me everyday even though I do not respond (I blocked eventually after a month because I can't believe it kept going). One tried to drag me back into his condo by second date.

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😂😂 we still need to check off that moon & mars though. Her moon is in Taurus, but this is a different Scorpio from my previous post.

Oh wow, I haven't been around a ton of Leos, but I hear of the aggressive behavior and super forwardness. Dude just can't accept no for an answer. He just gets a new number if she blocks it and has even emailed her. The whole issue started because he hit her in November. This man called 58 times one day.

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Posted by LuckyLibra7
One of my good friends who is a Scorpio Sun, Cancer rising tends to attract stalkers. One particularly was a Leo. Although she did gaslight him a bit and take advantage.. she ultimately did try to end things. The Leo couldn't accept that and displayed erratic behavior such as expressing how much he hates her, threatening suicide and then sending flowers all in the span of 24 hours.


When I say gaslight, I mean she knew his intentions but allowed him to buy her groceries and do acts of services to attempt winning her over. She then declines and he rages.

Literally all the women you talk about have my placements.
Let me check off Cancer rising, Scorp sun, Virgo Venus, sag mercury.

Oh and I definitely stay away from Leos. They definitely scare me. My friends joked my Leo coworker has a shrine dedicated to me in his home. He literally act like what you described. He would decorate my desk elaborately so the whole office would see what he is doing. He would give me valentine's card and birthday gifts. Everytime I say I'm not comfortable he needs to stop, he would get angry and start doing nice things to all the other women and make it seem like I'm overreacting.
But there are cases of other Leos where they tried to follow me home. Text me everyday even though I do not respond (I blocked eventually after a month because I can't believe it kept going). One tried to drag me back into his condo by second date and called me non stop for days, so I just left my phone at home.

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What sign have you found that works best with you? I'm just curious.

Does your Sag Mercury and Virgo Venus make you seem too blunt and critical?

With your Sun sign, (liking to push boundaries to see where it leads and sus out the weak), I'm just wondering what sign handles the energy well.

Posted by TXCowboy
They either attract narcissistic people or they are themselves on the narcissistic spectrum.


Depends on how their upbringing was as children, from my experience.

Sadly true. There is nothing more narcissistic than a hurt Cancer placement who is convinced that the world is out to get them despite all contrary evidence. They can be surrounded by people who love them but if they feel unloved, the wrath shall pour out and the blood of martyrs shall cover the streets.

Yeah MIC I do attract them. Had them want to destroy me for no reason on multiple occasions. Fucking pathetics things that they are.

Might be a little bit on the spectrum myself but Idk, might just be all the damage they've done to me making me think that lol.

hmm every person with significant cancer energy in my life has been the narcissist. they get psycho. like.. really psycho. throwing massive tantrums and doing stalker shit. some of them have been stalking me for nearly 10 years now 😂 i have 7H in cancer and chiron conjunct 1 degree DSC. yep

Posted by virgoOPPP
do you notice cancer energies like sun, moon etc seem to always attract narcissists? like not just 'friends' but also stalkers? and they even face competition from supposed 'lovers' or significant others? like a romantic partner freakin competing with you.

YES! I met an aquarius sun & moon, who 1) stalked me - he approached me via my mother, and then acted like it was just pure coincidence and 2) after hanging out for 3 days, and telling me that he liked and cared about me, decided to go back to school to finish his bachelors in physics. Apparently he was really impressed w/my educational and professional background.

He kept on saying that he felt insecure around me, i intimidated him and a bunch of other stuff around that. He also mentioned every single ex of his, including the one that he was breaking up with and lived w/, imagined what my future BF would be like (he said a lumberjack..... har har har). Asked if I wanted to have kids and how many, gave me presents and said they were cast-offs from his old girlfriends, made it like we were "friends" and then asked me to go on a weeklong camping trip with him (and again, 3 days worth of hanging out), stood me up for our date. Dropped me twice out of the blue with the whole "have a great life" line, went up and down charming Canada, while talking about the couples that are having sex in the hotels he stayed at, wrote about imagining me naked, and called me stupid for being responsible for my pets.