Cancer friendship with virgo.

What would you cancers find difficult and easy when dealing with virgos. What do you love and what do you not love as much about them? I'm writing a novel(no, I don't have publishing deals or anything - just writing.) and I am searching for new angles in the dynamics of the friendship between one male character that I imagine being essentially a cancer and one that I imagine being essentially a male virgo.

Don't worry, they are the good guys, but they still have flaws. I would really appreciate any input!

From a female perspective,

Virgo male is honest, trustworthy, and kindhearted. On the dark side, cold, unemotional, will sulk for days and is a master at the "silent treatment", professional note takers (some may take so many notes they have to buy notepads by the 3-pack often, they love to keep track of every dollar spent, and will get grouchy over trivial spending, often overly strict with their children...

I'll use my cancer friend and her 2 Virgo sisters. Cancers and Burgos are supposed to get along but my friend doesn't get along with virgos-nah just the virgos I know of from her pool of friends and family. Her complaints about them-they are selfish, only look out for themself but expect cancer to give them the world, they use her for money all the time and won't ever pay for shit for the group, they are real judgmental and only know how to look at facts and make objective conclusions-but when the shoe is on the other foot they aren't judgmental or objective with their own selves and expect empathy, they are vindictive and backstabbing and pay too much attention to what everybody has instead of enjoying a good time, they easily get jealous for close to nothing, they always jump to conclusions and believe what they think is real because "they know it all and they're the best", they think they're experts at everything when really they barely know anything they're talking about but has too much pride to admit they don't know what they're talking about, they have to be first for everything and most of what they contribute to a conversation is complaining constantly and gossiping about people. My friend would always feel like she couldn't be a real sister to one of them because she was always in unnecessary competition for one thing or another. One of her other Virgo friends would be the same way. Always in competition and mostly negative. The times she's would not be talking about anyone are the times my friend got her to laugh about something that's actually funny and not degrading. but I added some of my thoughts to this part.

Good compliments-they are organized and follow through with plans, they have a good eye for detail, they are know how to be sociable and outgoing. I think a cancer Virgo combo is ok but only in very small doses. My friend doesn't really hang with that one Virgo friend much because of that and she doesn't really allow one of her Virgo sisters in her life.

Another one to add to that frm my own mouth. They are fake as shit and know how to put up a fake front. They are also very manipulative and cancers cant be manipulated easy so I see power struggles happening. Virgos like to cause shit storms like manipulate two friends into hating each other then being able to be the middle man or best friends with both people. Virgos are the ones who either have no friends or all fake ones and then the reason they give for it is-I'm just better than these low people and they don't fuck with me because they're jealous of me because I'm the best. Meanwhile everybody else is having a good time without Virgo around laughing it up sharing stories without feeling like you'll be judged or it will blow back in your face one day.

If your not stroking their ego they're not your friend and your somehow a shitty person or you don't know good friendship or your incapable of being decent. This is from my experience. Something is always wrong with the non Virgo but never wrong with Virgo. Virgo is always right.

That's true. They will use you them do you like a used condom then try to turn around and come back when the need you with a fake smile om

Thank you all for your responses - this is really helping!

And also:

Cancer - being a cardinal sign - are usually seen as the initiator. Would this be true in the cancer- virgo dynamics too?

And

Who, would you say, are more curious about things(in general) of the two?

I dogt have a good example to work from cuz my friend never dated a Virgo. I know I talk about my friend a lot but the way she explains things helps me to understand and explain it to dxp. But I would guess a cancer would initiate in the beginning then sit back and judge the virgos reaction then Virgo would probably get a false sense of confidence off the cancer initiating then would think he had room to sit on his high horse and wait for cancer to beg for attention. Then cancer would laugh at Virgo for taking himself so seriously and being stuck up and cancer will bounce. Then Virgo would secretly stalk cancer while acting like they're way better without cancer. I've dated my fair share of virgos and I'll pass unless something about the woman speaks to me. Virgos would only initiate if they were looking to get something shady out of the deal like money or trouble or some shit. Of course this don't go for all virgos or all cancers this is just from my own experience

Cancers are way more curious then virgos but in a childlike imagination I just want to learn more about the world way. Virgos are more curious when it comes to the latest gossip or tips to be more superficial and trick people into believing lies or the latest drama or why someone said this very specific thing this specific way just to see if there is any potential for a good disaster they can participate in. Virgos are tricky people and know very well how to set people up and flip shit around like how politicians use facts but not in the way it's meant to be used but that will still make people believe in their bs. 2 of my long time exes were virgos and the reason why I don't want to marry.

I realise that I may have been a bit unclear. When I wrote initiator, I meant it in a general sense.

I'm confused. Initiating for friendship or love or a date?

Anything. A game of racketball, a date, painting the terrace... 🙂

Yes I am very comfortable with my Virgo buddies, males and females..I'm always crushing on some Virgo dudes, sun and moon.They are cool people and I'm quite relaxed around them.I tend to open up to them more than any other sign.They always want to protect me (as if I need it) but it's all good..Virgo love all dayyyyy.

Thank you all for your assistance! It's been really helpful! 🙂