Cancer Male + Virgo Female

I am a Cancer male engaged to a Virgo woman. I love her but trying to figure out what she wants to do or buy is a big, BIG challenge. Astrologically, what is the compatability like between Cancer/Virgo pair?

Any Cancer/Virgo couple in this forum that could shed some light and give some advice is greatly appreciated.

kleanchap i am also a cancer man and have been trying to figure out the virgo women but to no avail. according to all the astrology experts cancer/virgo is suppose to be a good match but i still find them very difficult. i say this because the one's i know are so unemotional or at least act like they don't have any. i dated a virgo a few years back, my current ex is a virgo, and now i have a date with another virgo this weekend. yeah even though i find them difficult they are still fascinating people. not sure why i am attracting them but anyway on to your question. after having read many a thread my best advice to you is.....ask her! from what i have gathered they are direct so just ask her what you want to know. but i am 0 for 2 and could possibly be 0-3 in the virgo department so take my advice with a grain of salt. good luck :-)

Cansir, Thanks for the advice! I will try it out.

agent006, I think good lovers relationship is possible between cancer/virgo. Just trying to be an optimist. :-)

i have to agree with cancerbuddy. they are a strange breed indeed. the last virgo i dated fits the virgo persona to a "t". she is very selfish and it is all about her. she had so many double standards i couldn't take it since she was always right and i was always wrong. anyway, that is why she is now an ex. the latest virgo seems to be a lot different but only time will tell if she turns out to be a nut job like the other. the one i am still friends with has her moments but i keep her in line.lol..

I have to agree with the above.

I honestly don't know that many Cancer - Virgo couples, whether male or female. But I don't know why, theoretically they are supposed to get alond very well. As friends, they often do, but in a relationship....I mean, the relationship very rarely happens at all.
I see Cancers most often with Scorpios, Tauruses and Geminis (quite a few I know, and happy, especially Gemini woman Cancer man combo, not the other way around). And Virgos are usually with Cappies, and often with Saggies (yes, Saggies believe it or not) and Aquariuses.
Perhaps Cancers are too emotional for a typical Virgo, and Virgos maybe a bit too mental and analytical for Cancers. I don't know, but they are far and few between in relationships. Heck, I know more (many more) Libra-Cancer relationships than Virgo-Cancer, so there must be something wrong there....

i don't think virgos are to analytical for cancer since we cancers are just as analytical. the difference is we have the best of both worlds, emotions and brains while virgo just believes they have brains..haha. so yeah i think you are right they are just to mental for us..

"I honestly don't know that many Cancer - Virgo couples, whether male or female. But I don't know why, theoretically they are supposed to get alond very well. As friends, they often do, but in a relationship....I mean, the relationship very rarely happens at all.
I see Cancers most often with Scorpios, Tauruses and Geminis (quite a few I know, and happy, especially Gemini woman Cancer man combo, not the other way around). And Virgos are usually with Cappies, and often with Saggies (yes, Saggies believe it or not) and Aquariuses.
Perhaps Cancers are too emotional for a typical Virgo, and Virgos maybe a bit too mental and analytical for Cancers. I don't know, but they are far and few between in relationships. Heck, I know more (many more) Libra-Cancer relationships than Virgo-Cancer, so there must be something wrong there...."



OMG Lubenica you hit it right on the nail with the relationships!!!! I know so many people in these relationships....


back to kleanchap however...

I must agree that Cancers and Virgos make absolutely great friends, and astrology says that these two work well, but of course there will be challenges in every relationship...

If you two love each other, it is best to talk to her about this issue you may possibly have, because the key to make things right is through communication 🙂

((hope it all works well))

Yes, they really are great friends.

I have one Virgo friend, I being a slightly disorganised Crab, I already feel a bit bad about always asking him for various kind of helps, because he always does it so willingly and courtously. He is great and has a great sense of humour.
I remembered one Virgo-Cancer famous couple: Jennifer Flavin and "Rambo". Well, they have been forever for ages, haven't they?

aquarius is not a water sign...it's air

ah you have to love the virgo intelligence..wrong as usual..haha..

Love hurts doesn't it

I'm sorry but you guys are being way too critical of Virgo's. I mean, I'm emotional, highly so in fact most of the time, and I'm a freaking Virgo. Who the crud are you people to just up and dictate on a person just because of their sun sign? I'm hardly neat, my rooms a fucking pig sty cause I'm lazy and don't wanna pick it up, I am critical yes but I'm my own worst critic so I don't need anyone pointing out my flaws when I've already seen them, and just back off. I mean seriously, is there a need for such hateful words?

That being said... I've been in relationships with Cancer men and I had a blast. We meshed very, very well. He got me completely, I opened up and felt comfortable with him, and the only reason it ended was because I was moving somewhere and he couldn't come because of his job. I think that you should think about someone's personality, how they were raised, what they're like, what they're tastes are, if they even fit the mold of their 'sign', and just try to trust that the relationship will work before you even start doubting it before its begun. From the sound of it, you guys are trying to write off this guys girlfriend simply because she's a Virgo. Since when did we Virgo's become the places for all you other ass hole signs apparently to shit in?

where is lady scorp with her medications when they're needed.........

Okay, I see why many cancer men may be inclined to percieve virgo as a nitpicking-unfeeling-dull-cold individual, but its not necessarily the case for all of us.
Although I'm a virgo sun, my pisces moon causes me to be a highly emotional person,
and I seem to relate very well to all water signs.
And I have a real soft spot for cancer guys.
[Probably due to my eros].
Really, I melt over them.

Okay, I see why many cancer men may be inclined to percieve virgo as a nitpicking-unfeeling-dull-cold individual, but its not necessarily the case for all of us.
Although I'm a virgo sun, my pisces moon causes me to be a highly emotional person,
and I seem to relate very well to all water signs.
And I have a real soft spot for cancer guys.
[Probably due to my eros].
Really, I melt over them.

I'm a Virgo girl currently dating a Cancer man and our relationship is one beautiful dream. We don't even need to say a word to understand what each of us is thinking.

Im a virgo girl, and YES we are the most rational, analitic, yet 2 emotional..

Once we are sure we can trust u , we are ready to give u our heart on a plate xD

My bf is a Cancer, and so far it is amazing..i know i give him a hard time with my vicious sarcasm, but i mean him no harm, i love the fact that we are SO open , and that we can talk about ANYTHING...

Us Virgos hate things being hidden from us...If Cancers do hide something...don't worry, we will find out,as cancers don't know how to lie

Our heart is hard to get, the day my cancer boy showed me hes heart, i made him the most loved person on earth xD

Im happy we are so open,and bout so darn pateticly in love

Don't worry, Virgos love corny, just give us the safety we need, the safety of endless love

I am a Virgo woman and a cancer guy is attracted to me. He's loving, kind, understanding, smart, we talk for hours. He expresses he loves me, he wants to be with me. Cancer's are unreliable, insecure, nit-picking, arrogant. Don't do nothing wrong or u will hear about it over and over again. I told him he was ridiculous.......cancer men are also wishy-washy.....emotional, moody....giving me a migraine..... I can't understand the roller coaster emotional ride! When I mention breaking up he will say, "oh I'm not good enough for you, is their somebody else",shake my freaking head.......I can't win... I tell him he's moody, wishy-washy he says it,s all in my head....what is the cancer man's problem—?

Posted by hydras15
I'm sorry but you guys are being way too critical of Virgo's. I mean, I'm emotional, highly so in fact most of the time, and I'm a freaking Virgo. Who the crud are you people to just up and dictate on a person just because of their sun sign? I'm hardly neat, my rooms a fucking pig sty cause I'm lazy and don't wanna pick it up, I am critical yes but I'm my own worst critic so I don't need anyone pointing out my flaws when I've already seen them, and just back off. I mean seriously, is there a need for such hateful words?

That being said... I've been in relationships with Cancer men and I had a blast. We meshed very, very well. He got me completely, I opened up and felt comfortable with him, and the only reason it ended was because I was moving somewhere and he couldn't come because of his job. I think that you should think about someone's personality, how they were raised, what they're like, what they're tastes are, if they even fit the mold of their 'sign', and just try to trust that the relationship will work before you even start doubting it before its begun. From the sound of it, you guys are trying to write off this guys girlfriend simply because she's a Virgo. Since when did we Virgo's become the places for all you other ass hole signs apparently to shit in?

Lol. I sooooo agree!!! I guess if someone were to cut us, we wouldn't bleed either, lol.

what you need is a virgo women, with lots of water signs, that is about as close as a match made in heaven for cancers. Your lucky if you can find them of course. but if the virgo women has too many fire/air signs, it can be an unpleasant emotional battle, case in point self. What lures us to them, is they are fing hoooooot. I've never seen a bad lookin virgo women to be quite honest.

Some valid points being made here. 🙂

Posted by highlander
what you need is a virgo women, with lots of water signs, that is about as close as a match made in heaven for cancers. Your lucky if you can find them of course. but if the virgo women has too many fire/air signs, it can be an unpleasant emotional battle, case in point self. What lures us to them, is they are fing hoooooot. I've never seen a bad lookin virgo women to be quite honest.

Awwwwwww!!! I have alot of fire & air in my chart & I heart Cancers. *rubbing tears from eyes* 😢

......."nurturing mode".....there there, You can still play with us cancers, we still love ya... just don't
take our hearts on your way out dear. LOL

Posted by highlander
......."nurturing mode".....there there, You can still play with us cancers, we still love ya... just don't
take our hearts on your way out dear. LOL

Lol...now would I do such a thing? I have mars in cancer. Does that help? 🙂

As another poster mentioned, I do melt for Cancer men but it's such an uphill battle trying to start a relationship with one. The indirectness is maddening for a Virgo 'cause we are the complete opposite but ironically enough, not in love. Ha! I think the two can really drive eachother bonkers.

It's like playing the "you love me, you love me not" game. Sooooo stressful. And it doesn't help that we're both usually shy and reticent--but I believe this applies to the younger, less experienced Cancers and Virgos.

Posted by Chocokat
According to astrology I would be an awesome match for a Cancer, I am a Virgo Sun/Pisces Moon/Capricorn Rising with Cancer on the 7th house and SN. I'm as cheesy as they come, I'm sensitive to people's needs and I love nurturing mofo's. My Aries best friend calls me her "social worker" which I'll be majoring in Social Work and Art Therapy with maybe a minor in counseling.

I mean come one, I'm practically FATED to run into A Cancer right, Imma right?

Where the hell are ya'll crabby patties at?! At the beach side-crawling back into the high tides of the ocean away from us scary unemotional Earth Signs perhaps?

LOL @ your entire post. Love it! Almost every Virgo I know is a social worker or does some form of human services work. We looove to nurture. It's just our nature!

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Posted by highlander
what you need is a virgo women, with lots of water signs, that is about as close as a match made in heaven for cancers. Your lucky if you can find them of course. but if the virgo women has too many fire/air signs, it can be an unpleasant emotional battle, case in point self. What lures us to them, is they are fing hoooooot. I've never seen a bad lookin virgo women to be quite honest.

Awwwwwww!!! I have alot of fire & air in my chart & I heart Cancers. *rubbing tears from eyes* 😢

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lol, same here. I'm all earth, air and fire. Hahahahahaha...

Posted by Chocokat
According to astrology I would be an awesome match for a Cancer, I am a Virgo Sun/Pisces Moon/Capricorn Rising with Cancer on the 7th house and SN. I'm as cheesy as they come, I'm sensitive to people's needs and I love nurturing mofo's. My Aries best friend calls me her "social worker" which I'll be majoring in Social Work and Art Therapy with maybe a minor in counseling.

I mean come one, I'm practically FATED to run into A Cancer right, Imma right?

Where the hell are ya'll crabby patties at?! At the beach side-crawling back into the high tides of the ocean away from us scary unemotional Earth Signs perhaps?

LOL, Maybe your at the wrong place at the wrong time, I am sure if a cancer whom is not a relationship, finds you, they will want hold you tight "wink wink". On the Contrary, It may not be cancer that is destined for you, Know thy Juno from your natal chart, and it may lead you closer to your future partner.

I think Cancer and Virgo make a great couple! I also agree you guys are being extremely harsh on virgos.They can be a little critical ,but they really are not that bad. My boyfriend is a Virgo and I have never had a better relationship. Cancer and Virgos are supposed to be quite compatible actually.

Posted by lindavi20
i fully agree to so many of these virgos commenting. we might seem emotionally distant until we choose to let you in and once we do, you might just be forever lost. the 2 cancer men i have been with have caused me to have such deep moving connections on a totally different level. they melt my ice. one has had my heart for almost 15 years and we by chance ran into each other after 7 years. it was like the 7 years apart had never existed and nothing else mattered in between, at least for me. its like they have the ability to look inside your very soul. makes me warm thinking about it.

It's good to read this Lindavi20. I am dating a lovely Virgo girl for a year now and I have been touched deeply by getting to look into her beautiful and warm soul, which she hides well from most people. It is sometimes difficult for me to gauge her feelings, that's truly a virgo. I then hesitate to show or talk about my strong feelings for her, which sometimes creates misunderstandings. When we are together it's magic, we don't need to speak much, everything goes smoothly, but when we're apart it's like we miss a dimension. Don't know where we're going, but I hope and feel that we will never truly part.

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Posted by lindavi20
i fully agree to so many of these virgos commenting. we might seem emotionally distant until we choose to let you in and once we do, you might just be forever lost. the 2 cancer men i have been with have caused me to have such deep moving connections on a totally different level. they melt my ice. one has had my heart for almost 15 years and we by chance ran into each other after 7 years. it was like the 7 years apart had never existed and nothing else mattered in between, at least for me. its like they have the ability to look inside your very soul. makes me warm thinking about it.

It's good to read this Lindavi20. I am dating a lovely Virgo girl for a year now and I have been touched deeply by getting to look into her beautiful and warm soul, which she hides well from most people. It is sometimes difficult for me to gauge her feelings, that's truly a virgo. I then hesitate to show or talk about my strong feelings for her, which sometimes creates misunderstandings. When we are together it's magic, we don't need to speak much, everything goes smoothly, but when we're apart it's like we miss a dimension. Don't know where we're going, but I hope and feel that we will never truly part.

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oh yes, we sometimes think that we are showing our feelings, when in reality, a lot of what we feel is going on in our heads. i hesitate to show too much of my feelings to people until i feel that they are being returned, and it can cause misunderstandings. even if you dont feel like being open and mushy all the time, those little special comments mean all the more to me when they are expressed by my crab. like the crab, we are afraid of being hurt and vunerable. i am a very sensitive virgo, so, in love, i tend to hold back. i mean this is my heart we're talking about, and it is not given to many. my crab lives a few hours away, and when we are apart, i understand exactly what you are saying. although he is in my thoughts all day and night, i fear expressing too much. sooo, i go at his crabby pace. it's frustrating sometimes, but when someone that changes your life comes around, i'm willing to take it slow and be patient. when we are together, its as you said, magic and effortless. everything just flows. we dont miss a beat and its like he's got to get filled in on all th

I personally know a lot of Cancer/Virgo couples; and my boyfriend of 2 years is a VIrgo.

Posted by kleanchap
I am a Cancer male engaged to a Virgo woman. I love her but trying to figure out what she wants to do or buy is a big, BIG challenge. Astrologically, what is the compatability like between Cancer/Virgo pair?

Any Cancer/Virgo couple in this forum that could shed some light and give some advice is greatly appreciated.

My dad is Cancer and my mom was a Virgo. They had their share of arguments in 45 years of marriage. My mom was naturally argumentative whereas my dad prefers to avoid fights so when my mom would blow her top my dad would usually disappear and that way everything would blow over. But they stayed in love and my mom put up with a lot of crap from him too, example, picking him up from some bar in the middle of the night -.- she was an extremely loving woman who would do anything for her family. Even after 40 years of marriage she would still make an effort with her appearance if my dad was taking her out somewhere. She passed away two years ago and I realised then how much my dad worshipped her, he was a broken man and revealed his vulnerable side which broke my heart 😢

Your post is really touching Tat. Sorry for the loss of your mom —
We virgo fs and cancer ms really do argue lol but the love is always there and lasts forever for sure.

ha I am virgo with aquarius in moon. my past two boyfriends were both cancers. the first one was great but he had to go overseas for studies and i couldn't keep up with the distance. the second one was a bit too clingy to be honest and he tried too hard to please me. i know it sounds ideal for some girls but that was a bit too much for me. but i think cancers and virgos are great together! i am seeing a saggi guy now. 🙂