Cancer man Scorpio woman going BONKERS!!!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Sunnyscorp on Friday, August 16, 2013 and has 14 replies.

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@Sunnyscorp
12 Years

Hi everyone. I'm new here and have been lurking for a while.

I have been seeing this cancer guy for about 6 months on and off. It seems like each time we get closer and more intimate, but then he disappears again. I don't want to see him everyday, but a text every couple days would be nice. What's his deal? He says that he's not seeing anyone else, but his behavior makes me wonder! He says he's a loner and likes to go for long bike rides, but I find it fishy. We have south fun when we are together. The chemistry is off the charts!!!! He says he likes me a lot and thinks about me all the time, but he calls infrequently and makes plans once every two weeks. Do I have to make more of an effort to hang out? I feel like when I back off, he comes closer... I get it, men like a challenge... But I'm feeling tortured!!! I want to see him more. What should I do?

He is
Sun: cancer
Moon: cancer
Mercury: Leo
Venus: Leo

I am
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Virgo
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Libra

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@Sunnyscorp
12 Years

Hi everyone. I'm new here and have been lurking for a while.

I have been seeing this cancer guy for about 6 months on and off. It seems like each time we get closer and more intimate, but then he disappears again. I don't want to see him everyday, but a text every couple days would be nice. What's his deal? He says that he's not seeing anyone else, but his behavior makes me wonder! He says he's a loner and likes to go for long bike rides, but I find it fishy. We have so much fun when we are together. The chemistry is off the charts!!!! He says he likes me a lot and thinks about me all the time, but he calls infrequently and makes plans once every two weeks. Do I have to make more of an effort to hang out? I feel like when I back off, he comes closer... I get it, men like a challenge... But I'm feeling tortured!!! I want to see him more. What should I do?

He is
Sun: cancer
Moon: cancer
Mercury: Leo
Venus: Leo

I am
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Virgo
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Libra

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@Sunnyscorp
12 Years

Oops...he's a double cancer.
The rest of his chart is:
Mars:Aries
Jupiter: Aquarius
Saturn: Gemini
Uranus: libra
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: libra
True node: Capricorn

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@geminibunny
13 Years

haha..he's mostly air on top of double Cancer. Accept the fact that he only initiates every few weeks. In between you should send friendly and happy messages just as a reminder that you exist. But don't push it. Even if you're desperate to see him don't ever let him sense it. If you can't take the infrequency then this is not the right guy for you.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

He and I have a similar chart except the Cancer moon of his. Lovely fellow I must say. But sometimes even if I really like a guy, I won't show it. It's so hard, and I don't know why this is because it's so contradicting to my feelings. It's almost like a subconscious cock block. I do think on my feelings until I feel comfortable enough to show them. But then it comes out awkward or the person has moved on.

Perhaps he just needs time.

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@Sunnyscorp
12 Years

I saw him yesterday and decided to put my guard down and let him know how much I like him. He was so sweet and responsive. It's like he had been waiting for me to reassure him. Is this how cancers are? Do they hide their feelings? He said he thinks about me all the time, but doesn't contact me all the time. Is he holding back or full of crap?

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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by Sunnyscorp
I saw him yesterday and decided to put my guard down and let him know how much I like him. He was so sweet and responsive. It's like he had been waiting for me to reassure him. Is this how cancers are? Do they hide their feelings? He said he thinks about me all the time, but doesn't contact me all the time. Is he holding back or full of crap?

Are you interested or are you full of crap?

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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by Sunnyscorp
I saw him yesterday and decided to put my guard down and let him know how much I like him. He was so sweet and responsive. It's like he had been waiting for me to reassure him. Is this how cancers are? Do they hide their feelings? He said he thinks about me all the time, but doesn't contact me all the time. Is he holding back or full of crap?

Are you interested or are you full of crap?