
scorpio_sun_gemini_rising
@scorpio_sun_gemini_rising
8 Years
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Posted by EvilHareLOL!!!!!!!!
Define "mothering" him...

Posted by MyStarsShine
Strong Scorpio woman meets mommies boy ... Not good
Our lad has your placements and he is strong and is attracted to strong women ... As in very strong !
Do you think as time goes on, you may lose respect for this guy? His moon is watery and rising and mars in cancer may be a bit too sensitive for you?
Maybe you hand him back to mommy?

Posted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingMe tooPosted by MyStarsShine
Strong Scorpio woman meets mommies boy ... Not good
Our lad has your placements and he is strong and is attracted to strong women ... As in very strong !
Do you think as time goes on, you may lose respect for this guy? His moon is watery and rising and mars in cancer may be a bit too sensitive for you?
Maybe you hand him back to mommy?
I am watery-ish too... I feel deeeeeeeply and intensely. I am often the person everyone comes to for advice/support...
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingMe tooPosted by MyStarsShine
Strong Scorpio woman meets mommies boy ... Not good
Our lad has your placements and he is strong and is attracted to strong women ... As in very strong !
Do you think as time goes on, you may lose respect for this guy? His moon is watery and rising and mars in cancer may be a bit too sensitive for you?
Maybe you hand him back to mommy?
I am watery-ish too... I feel deeeeeeeply and intensely. I am often the person everyone comes to for advice/support...
But as time went on, I got bored with being a mother figure to guys......I would rather be with a strong man, but we are all different
After I had our son, I realised the only person I wanted to mother is him .... not a fully grown adult
Mommies boys turn my stomach if I'm honest
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Posted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingWell so he should at age 23Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingMe tooPosted by MyStarsShine
Strong Scorpio woman meets mommies boy ... Not good
Our lad has your placements and he is strong and is attracted to strong women ... As in very strong !
Do you think as time goes on, you may lose respect for this guy? His moon is watery and rising and mars in cancer may be a bit too sensitive for you?
Maybe you hand him back to mommy?
I am watery-ish too... I feel deeeeeeeply and intensely. I am often the person everyone comes to for advice/support...
But as time went on, I got bored with being a mother figure to guys......I would rather be with a strong man, but we are all different
After I had our son, I realised the only person I wanted to mother is him .... not a fully grown adult
Mommies boys turn my stomach if I'm honest
He's still independent and can look after himself.. it's just at times I feel like I remind him of his mom and i dont think thats good lol
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Posted by EvilHare
There's a lot of "I think" and "I feel" here.
Has he told you that you remind him of his mother? Does he call you mommy? Does he want you to dress him in a diaper and have you treat him like an infant?
If not, what's the big deal? I think you're projecting your insecurity into the relationship. Stop.
A relationship is supposed to a mutually beneficial arrangement for both people and allow for growth in both people. If the relationship you have isn't stifling or controlling for either of you, then I don't see a problem.
Plenty of men and women are attracted to people with traits similar to their parents. It isn't wrong if those traits are positive traits. If a man has a good relationship with his mother and admires the warmth and compassion she showed raising children, and he seeks out a partner with similar traits, why is that wrong? Should he instead look for some cold, trashy skank, instead?
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He is a mommy's boy. His mom and I have similar charts and are very similar and get along AMAZINGLY...
He is a sensitive soul, feels deeply and I have realized that sometimes I am mothering him as well, instead of just being a woman. I can't help it cause I am a very caring, nurturing person myself, especially to those who are close to me. I am starting to think this cant be healthy for the relationship? Any tips on how to break this pattern or advice regarding this would be much appreciated.
him:
sun: leo
rising: cancer
moon: pisces
merc: virgo
venus: libra
mars: cancer