Cancer Men and Games

I know there's been a series of posts dealing with the issue of game playing and other funny stuff going on with the guys. So what I'm going to ask is this: Do you think it really could be game playing or is it something else inside?

Depends on the situation

I don't see a cancer playing, but i guess it's possible. He might even try to make himself look like a jerk so he doesn't have to get involved.

Yeah, like generally. And univeresal opinions are more than welcome.

Just a thought...maybe some of you guys are not aware that you play games? In my experience cancer men do play games...but then who doesn't?

I guess the main difference is that you are more aware of other people's weaknesses(people confide in you so easily!) then say a leo guy would be...so you're better at head games...and in my experience cancer play dirty when they think they've been intentionally wronged by someone.

What alot of people are refering to with the "games" thing is like taurusgoddessess situation a while back.Where he ditched her at a party,brought her stuff to her but left his number,then she was supposed to know why he was upset and was afraid to call her.The testing to see how far someone is willing to go for them,not saying anything but expect the person to know what they did or what was wrong,saying something mean to just to see if they'll get mad or will get pissed at them,when you want to get back with an ex you bring over something they forgot at your house as an excuse to be there while trying to get close again,etc.Thats the games they are talking about,if you don't say anything you can't hold it against someone for not being psychic and reading your mind.It's usually the really moody cancers who do those things so of course theres always exceptions.Kinda goes to the whole showing it in actions isn't enough if you don't at least state it occassionally,people need to hear things over seeing it once in a while to show it to them.

Bottom line,there is something else that motivates them BUT for some of the people being the reciever of it.You are indirectly toying with them because you don't give them a fair chance to know what is going on and causing your own problems in love sometimes by doing what your feelings tell you to do instead of just being direct and taking the risk of being open verbally.After you hurt someone indirectly so many times they will give up and think you could care less about them because you don't prove it to them because of your own fears of being hurt.But no i've never been involved with a cancer as a boyfriend and just sat back and observed,so other people maybe able to give you better examples than me.

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I dont think you can be general and universal about this, it really does depend on the situation, the other people involded, the persons mentality, maturity, etc etc, you cant just say that cancers do this or do that.
Consider the fact that when someone comes here telling you of thier problems with a partner, thier most likely not telling you the full story, they will change it a bit to protect themselves and to cover some of thier own faults.

So do Cancer men play "Games" it really all depends on a great many things.

That was the question and the answer is still yes,situation or not it's still playing games.It's not all just based on people here either it's friends of mine thats being incoorperated into it as well and there is a line in there about exceptions and I am one of the biggest astrology/generalising balkers here.Cancers in my experiance don't tell the whole truth too,up until you test them with an verbal extremity about what they're complaining about to get them to say whoa its not really like that,foot in mouth type stuff or bath in the "pity" of people who don't think to consider the other side of it.It's a general question and it happens to be astrology related so it's getting astrology related answers based on personal experiances not about you,anyone else here or "all" cancers in general,but you are admitting to doing it yourself because you think it's justified right?So your a cancer who plays games-yes.o_O

You are generalising too much, im a cancer and one of my biggest faults is being too honest. Astrology disn't control everything, even your first name will play a part in how you will be different from someone of the same sign, so much more comes into everything that happens, its never syraight up "oh cancers plays games" it just is not like that.

So then could these answers be applied to the masses or certain individuals?

Don't you think it might be a spot of inequality to pursicute the masses for the faults of certain individuals? Or general humanity for that matter? Its quite a call.

:O whatever....

Astrology's fun ain't it?😉

Not really I think it's stupid and vague,it's a series of traits that any given person can have at one point or another throughout thier lifetime.Some people who say they are true to thier signs are letting thierselves think it's true to the point that they think they don't need to change anything about themselves in everything.If you THINK your like this or that you will only see those things or actually be those things because you allow yourself to lose all the other little things about yourself thats not within those catorgory's.It's good for throwing out ideas to work with or develope when your kinda confused and need something to get your own brain going on what you can and can't do with your life but beyond that it has no logical grounds to be considered everything and true.

The whatever thing is that the two of you are assuming im a normal generaliser that thinks rules are made to be followed.😉

A good point Tiamat

Nah I don't think your a normal generaliser. And you acually had a few good points.

"actually", I mean.