cancer men...can you answer this?

Hi, I'm a virgo girl and brand new to this forum...a virgin so to speak 🙂 Sorry that was a crap joke but if you're a true cancer you're probably chuckling right now 😉
Anyway...I need your help.
I've been talking to a cancer man for a year...we've never met just email and calls and from the beginning we connected like I never could have imagined. He wanted to drive 300 miles to meet me but I was honest from the start and told him I was married. My situation has...changed shall we say and I've fallen for him 🙂 he knows how I feel but he never comments when I say things like...I wish we could meet, I would love to kiss you in person...you get the drift. He says things like...I wanted to come see you but you said no. Did he appreciate my honesty about being married do you think or have I ruined my chances with him because of it?
I'd love to hear from you cancer gentlemen...and you truly are gentlemen 😉 what do you think is stopping him from making a move?
I know he doesn't want a relationship with anyone..he just wants some fun and I'm ok with that. So why doesn't he grab me with both hands?
Thanks for listening...look forward to hearing from you 🙂

If things have changed with the marriage, why don't you just get a divorce?

I am and he knows this.

But....if things have changed ARE you going to get a divorce?

Yes I'm just waiting for it be finalised now.

ok, now there's more to go on. Does the Cancer know you're getting a divorce?

Yes he knows about the divorce. He knows everything I have always and will always be totally honest with him 🙂

Hahaha 🙂 yep I'm a smiler 🙂 ...life's too short not to!! A smile can change your day and everyone's around you too so I'm gonna keep on doing it lol

Well, he knows about the divorce and he knew you were married. I'm not sure why he's holding back. Could be any of several reasons or more. Have you asked him what his thoughts are?

Moonartist...Yeah I've asked and in true cancer style he either avoids the question altogether or he gives it a "that would be nice" non-committal reply. I feel it's because he can't follow through on his promises at the moment so he just doesn't promise. Which I guess is honest of him. And I don't think forcing an answer is the right thing to do to anyone regardless of their sign. Is it usual for a cancer man to be so vague when they have strong feelings?

Moonman...you're a hoot!! I'm kooky yeah..how would you describe yourself though? 😉