How do you know is a virgo woman wants you back?

Ok she broke up with me over a year ago. I quietly backed up and almost never contacted her. She was go thru some things during our relationship and she was being really mean to me. It was like i couldn't say anything right. I also think she was attracted to someone else. When we broke up something kind of "hit the fan" in her personal life, she broke up with me thru text saying "i think i need to be alone." Just from her coldness and how she was treating me, I felt it coming anyway. She them said " we can still communicate." Im thinking "whats the point of a break up then" (Anyway I digress).

On her birthday last year she was SO mad at me for not wishing her a happy birthday. Lately she has been texting me randomly, sounding she like she was trying to make conversation. I got a text saying "Just wanted to say good morning." We had small conversation and I went about my business. 3 weeks later I get another text "good morning." she arbitrarily sends me a pic of her wearing this watch i bought her telling me to notice whats on her wrist. I was kind of short because I have been very busy, so I just said "you look good." a couple weeks later a get another text out of no where saying, "I just want to thank you again for getting me this watch. I really love it." Its little things like that.

A couple of days ago, I got a text saying, "I hope you're having a good night." And we text each other kind of thru the night. She was saying things like "Im proud of you" and "I like it that you still call me the name 'baby doll'"

Now is this just her wanting to be friends with me or does she want me back?

Thanks in Advance for your feedback!

She hates it that she ends it because that makes her a bad person. Virgo is all about perfection. Bad is not in our vocab. She is still attracted to you and now she is poking you to see if you still attracted to her. She can't live knowing someone think ill of her. So, the ball is on your side, if you want her love forever, stand your ground and make sure she knows you know that she ends it.

Posted by VirgoDragirl
She hates it that she ends it because that makes her a bad person. Virgo is all about perfection. Bad is not in our vocab. She is still attracted to you and now she is poking you to see if you still attracted to her. She can't live knowing someone think ill of her. So, the ball is on your side, if you want her love forever, stand your ground and make sure she knows you know that she ends it.

Okay, So let me ask you, How do I handle this? What do I say?

Meet her in person and tell her that since she wanted it to be over, why all these texts? What does she want from you? Stand your ground and know what you want. Once u set this meeting, u r in charge and she knows it.

Just move on. more often than not, once we are done were done and move on for good and be better. yes we strive perfection. it is a curse but it is what it is.

Hahahahahaha! I laughed when i see ur post. I feel like tht something i would say to a guy! From my point of view, she misses u! I dont contact with my ex, so if she contacts u, then she still likes u. Depends on if u still like her, if u do, make move. If not, ignore her and be clear tht u only want to be friend

Posted by Clarismoris
Hahahahahaha! I laughed when i see ur post. I feel like tht something i would say to a guy! From my point of view, she misses u! I dont contact with my ex, so if she contacts u, then she still likes u. Depends on if u still like her, if u do, make move. If not, ignore her and be clear tht u only want to be friend

But how do i make sure its real, you know what I mean. Im hoping its not just something like, "she misses the sex." I want a real relationship if anything is going to happen with us again, you know? She just told me "When we broke up, it hurt me too. I never stopped loving you." Do virgoans just say things to get what they want for the moment?

Posted by SoInLOVE

Posted by Clarismoris
Hahahahahaha! I laughed when i see ur post. I feel like tht something i would say to a guy! From my point of view, she misses u! I dont contact with my ex, so if she contacts u, then she still likes u. Depends on if u still like her, if u do, make move. If not, ignore her and be clear tht u only want to be friend

But how do i make sure its real, you know what I mean. Im hoping its not just something like, "she misses the sex." I want a real relationship if anything is going to happen with us again, you know? She just told me "When we broke up, it hurt me too. I never stopped loving you." Do virgoans just say things to get what they want for the moment?

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Virgo wont have sex with a person becuz she misses it. We wont hv sex with someone tht we dont have feeling to.

She sent those messages, mostly she misses u and she wanna see how u react. U know virgo doesnt make first move... Thats true

U can text her sometimes and see how is her reaction. Will she reply u? Will she reply u immediately? When u ask her question, will she reply u with lot of thing to say?

For example: u ask : how are u?
If she replies: fine ( then nothing else, probably she doesnt want to talk to u)

But if she replies: im good! I was so busy with my work! So tireddd! How abt u?

Then it means: she wanna make conversation. If she is willing to talk to u through text, she likes u.....

Then if u ask her out, she never rejects, she likes u more

If she buys something to u, like if she goes to supermarket and also get u some stuff, then it means she included u in her world, she thinks of u

We need a guy who is caring, who protect us

Btw, wht is ur sign?

Will she say something she just want it at the moment?

Consider u guys broke up for awhile, i dont think so

If i just broke up with a guy like he broke up with me, then i will say something like really crazy . Like: i love u alot, dont leave me. I cant live without u. I wont leave u. Blahblahblahblah.... But then after awhile, like several months, i have already moved on.

So, mostly she means it!

Posted by Clarismoris
If i just broke up with a guy like he broke up with me, then i will say something like really crazy . Like: i love u alot, dont leave me. I cant live without u. I wont leave u. Blahblahblahblah.... But then after awhile, like several months, i have already moved on.

So basically you'll be deceptive just for shits and giggles. If you know you'll move on easily, why the "I LOVEEE YOU DON'T LEAVE MEEEE" act?

Keep it for the stage.

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Posted by Clarismoris
If i just broke up with a guy like he broke up with me, then i will say something like really crazy . Like: i love u alot, dont leave me. I cant live without u. I wont leave u. Blahblahblahblah.... But then after awhile, like several months, i have already moved on.

So basically you'll be deceptive just for shits and giggles. If you know you'll move on easily, why the "I LOVEEE YOU DON'T LEAVE MEEEE" act?

Keep it for the stage.

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Nono i mean it when i say it. When the guy broke up with me , then i will feel upset. Then i will say something to try to get him bk.

But he doesnt tk it at tht time, then i will move on.

Btw, wht is ur sign?

Im actually a Libra??_

Posted by tiziani
A Virgo once told me women always come back. At least once. She was right. It's rarely ever for good reasons though. Value your time.

What do you mean? You think she does just want sex or something?

Posted by SoInLOVE
Btw, wht is ur sign?

Im actually a Libra??_

Im a virgo sun.

Libra, if u like her more, its better. Virgo like to be stable, being care... She will also take care of u...

Once i met a libra man whom im not interested in... I ignore him, and tell him very directly" i do not hve any feeling to u, sorry", now i even blocked him, becuz i dont wanna feel bad ignoring him. But at the same time i cant accept him becuz i hv no feeling for him

Virgo is very caring person towards their man. When i was with my ex, i will get up very early to make breakfast for him and call him make sure he ate after i left home. I will do his laundry. do everything for him like a wife

This is how virgo love someone

Im sun in virgo.....(continue last msg) something went wrong with last msg.......

Posted by VirgoDragirl
She hates it that she ends it because that makes her a bad person. Virgo is all about perfection. Bad is not in our vocab. She is still attracted to you and now she is poking you to see if you still attracted to her. She can't live knowing someone think ill of her. So, the ball is on your side, if you want her love forever, stand your ground and make sure she knows you know that she ends it.

We don't care who thinks ill of us especially when we've done nothing ill.