MsTaurusLady1982
@LadyJuicy
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Cancer men— What's up with them—
I'm a Taurus lady by the way..... can someone help a sister out??
It takes time for a cancer to open up... to be very friendly with anyone.. even if he thinks about u he won't initiate.. so if u want to get along with him.. u need to show him that he can trust u and feel safe.. they r literally crabs.. they only come out of their shell when they feel safe.. so he will show u his true feelings when he wil feel that he can trust u..
Posted by LadyJuicyHow do you know he does that?
He barely reaches out to me via text or call but always stalks my social media page and I catch him!!! ?
Posted by TheSagPosted by LadyJuicyHow do you know he does that?
He barely reaches out to me via text or call but always stalks my social media page and I catch him!!! ?click to expand
I've caught him a few times bc he always monitor what I'm doing what never reaches out.
Posted by Ashley0202That is crazy. I have never seen anything like this ever and it's irritating bc how can we get to know each other if you never try and talk to me? Only when I say come over or initiate the convo first. I don't get it.
It takes time for a cancer to open up... to be very friendly with anyone.. even if he thinks about u he won't initiate.. so if u want to get along with him.. u need to show him that he can trust u and feel safe.. they r literally crabs.. they only come out of their shell when they feel safe.. so he will show u his true feelings when he wil feel that he can trust u..
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
I didn't have this sort of experience with my Cancer boyfriend. We started talking and never stopped. He continuously kept in contact with me. Always started conversations. He did have walls he told me about, but also told me when they came down. I honestly think with all signs and men in general, if they like you, you will know. They might be scared, shy, cautious.... but you wont question interest.
Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
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Posted by heliumfiasco
I didn't have this sort of experience with my Cancer boyfriend. We started talking and never stopped. He continuously kept in contact with me. Always started conversations. He did have walls he told me about, but also told me when they came down. I honestly think with all signs and men in general, if they like you, you will know. They might be scared, shy, cautious.... but you wont question interest.
I never dealt with anything like this. It's like when he is in my presence we talk, laugh and enjoy each other company. I know he has kids and school and I respect that and told him that. I just go by people make time for what they wanna and I feel like he doesn't especially with contacting. I am the kind of person who needs at least a call or text once a day to let me know you ok and I'm good. We don't have to text all day but just make me feel like you give a damn and I don't feel that. I don't get it.
Posted by Ashley0202Ok gotcha!! Thanks!! I've never experienced this before.Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
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Posted by LadyJuicyJust go on if u think u can get along with him.. yes this is a fact that if they get comfortable they r just too frank with u.. in my case things didn't work out as we exoected because when we strtd it was a long distance relationship.. which is very difficult for a cancer man.. bcz if they fall for u.. they want to see u meet u.. as much as they can.. all the best...Posted by Ashley0202Ok gotcha!! Thanks!! I've never experienced this before.Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
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Posted by Ashley0202I texted him and told him I'm done bc I cannot chase or deal with that. Me being respectful and understanding to your schedule and he tries to use that as an excuse and I'm mad about it.Posted by LadyJuicyJust go on if u think u can get along with him.. yes this is a fact that if they get comfortable they r just too frank with u.. in my case things didn't work out as we exoected because when we strtd it was a long distance relationship.. which is very difficult for a cancer man.. bcz if they fall for u.. they want to see u meet u.. as much as they can.. all the best...Posted by Ashley0202Ok gotcha!! Thanks!! I've never experienced this before.Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
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Posted by bubbythewhale1Are you a cancer man?? The thing is I make any man feel special and wanted but you must also make an appoint to make her feel the same. He has kids and school but can find time to be on social media all day. No excuses especially when I'm the one always inviting him to my home to come chill and watch movies and listen to music. I can only do that so much.
I think if a guy is really into a girl but really insecure at the same time, they'll look for you to let them know they are cared for. I put myself in his shoes, sometimes I get in my mood & won't message people bc I feel like they don't care or I'm bothering them but that's usually just my imagination
Posted by Aurora8LunaI just feel like I'm too old to play games with this man. I told him I know for damn sure you didn't put your kids mother through this type of sh*t so why should I— Did yours try and contact you again and rekindle something—Posted by LadyJuicyGood for you for telling him how you feel and not putting up with it. I'm not a Cancer but have experienced one. I think other people make too many excuses for the way some Cancer men act; attributing his flakey, confusing behaviour to his sign and not the fact he's just being an ass. I spent so much time trying to figure one out once upon a time, never again. He did the same thing as yours - using his schedule as an excuse yet being active all day on social media, talking to people on social media without getting back to me, etc. It was bullshxt behaviour. Bullshxt behaviour I have experienced from other men of other signs as well. I experienced this same bullshxt from a Taurus, but I also knew another Taurus who never behaved like that and was a great man. So I no longer give certain behaviour a pass because of a person's sign. If they can't man up and communicate then they aren't for you; some people like that behaviour, you don't and you've said it. Bravo LadyJuicy.Posted by bubbythewhale1Are you a cancer man?? The thing is I make any man feel special and wanted but you must also make an appoint to make her feel the same. He has kids and school but can find time to be on social media all day. No excuses especially when I'm the one always inviting him to my home to come chill and watch movies and listen to music. I can only do that so much.
I think if a guy is really into a girl but really insecure at the same time, they'll look for you to let them know they are cared for. I put myself in his shoes, sometimes I get in my mood & won't message people bc I feel like they don't care or I'm bothering them but that's usually just my imaginationclick to expand
Posted by notsosureI'm too old to chase and play games. If a man can be on social media ALLDAY and not try and contact me to show you are thinking about me, clearly your not rocking with me and I'm ok with that. I don't have time to be wasting waiting for someone to come around and show me attention when they're ready. I text and call to initiate always and I'm not standing for it. I know he has kids, school and other things that may come up but not everyday but if you can be online you can reach out and say hello. He clearly has want interested so I'm good. Moving right along.......
Cool. I guess it´s just the wording that´s making it sound like he is doing something wrong, that she is "putting up with something", when in fact she is not. There is nothing to "put up with", because he is not doing anything to keep her in the situation. She just has too high or too different expectations.
I´m a little fanatic about words sometimes... Language holds a lot of power.
Posted by Aurora8LunaThank you for that!! ??Posted by LadyJuicyGood for you for telling him how you feel and not putting up with it. I'm not a Cancer but have experienced one. I think other people make too many excuses for the way some Cancer men act; attributing his flakey, confusing behaviour to his sign and not the fact he's just being an ass. I spent so much time trying to figure one out once upon a time, never again. He did the same thing as yours - using his schedule as an excuse yet being active all day on social media, talking to people on social media without getting back to me, etc. It was bullshxt behaviour. Bullshxt behaviour I have experienced from other men of other signs as well. I experienced this same bullshxt from a Taurus, but I also knew another Taurus who never behaved like that and was a great man. So I no longer give certain behaviour a pass because of a person's sign. If they can't man up and communicate then they aren't for you; some people like that behaviour, you don't and you've said it. Bravo LadyJuicy.Posted by bubbythewhale1Are you a cancer man?? The thing is I make any man feel special and wanted but you must also make an appoint to make her feel the same. He has kids and school but can find time to be on social media all day. No excuses especially when I'm the one always inviting him to my home to come chill and watch movies and listen to music. I can only do that so much.
I think if a guy is really into a girl but really insecure at the same time, they'll look for you to let them know they are cared for. I put myself in his shoes, sometimes I get in my mood & won't message people bc I feel like they don't care or I'm bothering them but that's usually just my imaginationclick to expand
Posted by Aurora8LunaThat's crazy. Smh.... Men just don't appreciate anything. I'm ok no contact and I don't plan on contacting him. He know he was dry as hell to me and I'm good. I have enough stress and sh*t on my plate so whatever. I don't think he's over his kids mother. They were together almost 9 years and I think this may be the cause as to why he is so dry toward. It is what it is. Men are STUPID!!!! ??Posted by LadyJuicyYou know he contacted me two hours ago, it's so weird!! We summoned him hahaha. I either don't reply or just keep the convo short and boring. He does try to pop in and out of my life, it's inconsiderate and a headfuck; but I suppose the communication will slow down as the emotional distance grows between us. He's trying to make a re-entrance constantly (he won't go a week without reaching out) but I think that will slow down, it's only been a month since I distanced myself. It's sad how things turn out.Posted by Aurora8LunaI just feel like I'm too old to play games with this man. I told him I know for damn sure you didn't put your kids mother through this type of sh*t so why should I— Did yours try and contact you again and rekindle something—Posted by LadyJuicyGood for you for telling him how you feel and not putting up with it. I'm not a Cancer but have experienced one. I think other people make too many excuses for the way some Cancer men act; attributing his flakey, confusing behaviour to his sign and not the fact he's just being an ass. I spent so much time trying to figure one out once upon a time, never again. He did the same thing as yours - using his schedule as an excuse yet being active all day on social media, talking to people on social media without getting back to me, etc. It was bullshxt behaviour. Bullshxt behaviour I have experienced from other men of other signs as well. I experienced this same bullshxt from a Taurus, but I also knew another Taurus who never behaved like that and was a great man. So I no longer give certain behaviour a pass because of a person's sign. If they can't man up and communicate then they aren't for you; some people like that behaviour, you don't and you've said it. Bravo LadyJuicy.Posted by bubbythewhale1Are you a cancer man?? The thing is I make any man feel special and wanted but you must also make an appoint to make her feel the same. He has kids and school but can find time to be on social media all day. No excuses especially when I'm the one always inviting him to my home to come chill and watch movies and listen to music. I can only do that so much.
I think if a guy is really into a girl but really insecure at the same time, they'll look for you to let them know they are cared for. I put myself in his shoes, sometimes I get in my mood & won't message people bc I feel like they don't care or I'm bothering them but that's usually just my imagination
I tried the confrontation thing; spoke my mind and told him what he was doing that I didn't like. I actually didn't ask him to change, just told him what I wouldn't deal with like you did. He agreed he was behaving different and was flakey and inconsiderate; sometimes he hit me with the 'don't have so any expectations' thing. That's when I knew we weren't right for one another. Expectations in a relationship are normal in my opinion. If we don't have a set standard of what we expect in a relationship then we'll be unhappy. I tried to be understanding and it caused him to distance himself more. He knew he was doing it, he admitted he was at fault. He changed for a week and fell back into it. It's sad how these things end before they even got started. I think he just tries to have women around without a title, a lot of female friends, has told me he has run away from good relationships before and didn't know why (red flag). He wants a friend that he has sex with, who he can get close to and then get cold for a week or two. Fuck that in my opinion, I'm sure he'll find somebody to accept that. Won't be me.
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Posted by notsosureWe only been talking a few months now. We finally messed around a few weeks ago and I regret doing that especially seeing as how he is acting. I told him what I needed and he agreed but I don't think he is over his kids mother. 9 years and I think that's why I get the dry treatment. I don't think he was interested. He may kiss me each time he see me but that means nothing.Posted by LadyJuicyDid he show you or give you the impression, that you guys were gonna get together?Posted by notsosureI'm too old to chase and play games. If a man can be on social media ALLDAY and not try and contact me to show you are thinking about me, clearly your not rocking with me and I'm ok with that. I don't have time to be wasting waiting for someone to come around and show me attention when they're ready. I text and call to initiate always and I'm not standing for it. I know he has kids, school and other things that may come up but not everyday but if you can be online you can reach out and say hello. He clearly has want interested so I'm good. Moving right along.......
Cool. I guess it´s just the wording that´s making it sound like he is doing something wrong, that she is "putting up with something", when in fact she is not. There is nothing to "put up with", because he is not doing anything to keep her in the situation. She just has too high or too different expectations.
I´m a little fanatic about words sometimes... Language holds a lot of power.
I mean, good for you for moving on. I wouldn´t be suggesting you would wait around and see. But he is not a bad guy just because he is not interested in you.click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunSee he is all touchy and kissy when he is in my presence but afterwards, a text here and there and then nothing. I hate that bc I really thought we would be a good match and I don't like the dry treatment and I don't chase men at all. I wish he would do better. Smh....
The cancer guys I know make it obvious. They will make contact every day and are straightforward when interested.
Posted by Aurora8LunaYes they do. You lose good people dwelling on the past. She has moved on and he needs to. He told me he was over her but deep down I don't think he is bc of the kids situation. I'm not chasing only replacing.... He lost a good thing!!Posted by LadyJuicyTrue!! People coming out of long relationships need to get over that shit before they bring other people into their lives and cause drama for those other people. Bullshit behaviour.Posted by Aurora8LunaThat's crazy. Smh.... Men just don't appreciate anything. I'm ok no contact and I don't plan on contacting him. He know he was dry as hell to me and I'm good. I have enough stress and sh*t on my plate so whatever. I don't think he's over his kids mother. They were together almost 9 years and I think this may be the cause as to why he is so dry toward. It is what it is. Men are STUPID!!!! ??Posted by LadyJuicyYou know he contacted me two hours ago, it's so weird!! We summoned him hahaha. I either don't reply or just keep the convo short and boring. He does try to pop in and out of my life, it's inconsiderate and a headfuck; but I suppose the communication will slow down as the emotional distance grows between us. He's trying to make a re-entrance constantly (he won't go a week without reaching out) but I think that will slow down, it's only been a month since I distanced myself. It's sad how things turn out.Posted by Aurora8LunaI just feel like I'm too old to play games with this man. I told him I know for damn sure you didn't put your kids mother through this type of sh*t so why should I— Did yours try and contact you again and rekindle something—Posted by LadyJuicyGood for you for telling him how you feel and not putting up with it. I'm not a Cancer but have experienced one. I think other people make too many excuses for the way some Cancer men act; attributing his flakey, confusing behaviour to his sign and not the fact he's just being an ass. I spent so much time trying to figure one out once upon a time, never again. He did the same thing as yours - using his schedule as an excuse yet being active all day on social media, talking to people on social media without getting back to me, etc. It was bullshxt behaviour. Bullshxt behaviour I have experienced from other men of other signs as well. I experienced this same bullshxt from a Taurus, but I also knew another Taurus who never behaved like that and was a great man. So I no longer give certain behaviour a pass because of a person's sign. If they can't man up and communicate then they aren't for you; some people like that behaviour, you don't and you've said it. Bravo LadyJuicy.Posted by bubbythewhale1Are you a cancer man?? The thing is I make any man feel special and wanted but you must also make an appoint to make her feel the same. He has kids and school but can find time to be on social media all day. No excuses especially when I'm the one always inviting him to my home to come chill and watch movies and listen to music. I can only do that so much.
I think if a guy is really into a girl but really insecure at the same time, they'll look for you to let them know they are cared for. I put myself in his shoes, sometimes I get in my mood & won't message people bc I feel like they don't care or I'm bothering them but that's usually just my imagination
I tried the confrontation thing; spoke my mind and told him what he was doing that I didn't like. I actually didn't ask him to change, just told him what I wouldn't deal with like you did. He agreed he was behaving different and was flakey and inconsiderate; sometimes he hit me with the 'don't have so any expectations' thing. That's when I knew we weren't right for one another. Expectations in a relationship are normal in my opinion. If we don't have a set standard of what we expect in a relationship then we'll be unhappy. I tried to be understanding and it caused him to distance himself more. He knew he was doing it, he admitted he was at fault. He changed for a week and fell back into it. It's sad how these things end before they even got started. I think he just tries to have women around without a title, a lot of female friends, has told me he has run away from good relationships before and didn't know why (red flag). He wants a friend that he has sex with, who he can get close to and then get cold for a week or two. Fuck that in my opinion, I'm sure he'll find somebody to accept that. Won't be me.
How are things on your end?
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Posted by Capri-sunI don't like too much clinginess but I like some attention instead of no attention I just feel like when me have excuses they are either wanting someone else or they are with/ waiting for for someone to come back. So you can go on and be with who you want. Plenty of other fish ? in the sea ?!!! ?Posted by LadyJuicyPosted by Capri-sunSee he is all touchy and kissy when he is in my presence but afterwards, a text here and there and then nothing. I hate that bc I really thought we would be a good match and I don't like the dry treatment and I don't chase men at all. I wish he would do better. Smh....
The cancer guys I know make it obvious. They will make contact every day and are straightforward when interested.
Yeah I hear you. Cancer men are too clingy for me, with the texting/calling too much. I think they'd be better for you as a Taurus than me as a cap. I avoid hanging with them so...I can understand what you mean about in person though. I think you did right by ending it because you two just aren't on the same page, especially if he isn't over the ex.
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Posted by LadyJuicyYour loss. If you put the time in it would probably be worth it. You obviously only see guys that put themselves right in front of you. No going back now though. You have shown him you haven't got any patience to stick with anything and won't appreciate that in a girlPosted by Ashley0202I texted him and told him I'm done bc I cannot chase or deal with that. Me being respectful and understanding to your schedule and he tries to use that as an excuse and I'm mad about it.Posted by LadyJuicyJust go on if u think u can get along with him.. yes this is a fact that if they get comfortable they r just too frank with u.. in my case things didn't work out as we exoected because when we strtd it was a long distance relationship.. which is very difficult for a cancer man.. bcz if they fall for u.. they want to see u meet u.. as much as they can.. all the best...Posted by Ashley0202Ok gotcha!! Thanks!! I've never experienced this before.Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
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Posted by CanbullriusI liked him but he made it difficult to know him. He shared personal things with me, and always sent me memes or funny things on social media and I never understood that. I felt like with is just getting to know each other, why wouldn't you take that time to get to know me instead of sending that crap— I want to know you not that mess so I can see the person you are. I then expressed to him what I need as far as communication wise and he did it for a day and that was it. I asked him did he want me to leave him alone and he said, No. We were intimate as well. Then the second time I expressed the communication thing, I said wasn't contacting him anymore bc he doesn't get it. He said he was tired of explaining himself and said cool. So seeing this am I wrong for my actions— Doesn't seem like he was interested in me to be honest. My friend who is a cancer woman told me i need to reach out to him and apologize for my actions if I like him. But why should I— I didn't do anything. Would you even want to hear from me after all that— Like really?? LolPosted by cancerman_0707I'm a Cancer sun and think this is all BS, if i like a female and i'm getting the vibes from her, i pick up on it and react on it too, i let her know...Posted by LadyJuicyYour loss. If you put the time in it would probably be worth it. You obviously only see guys that put themselves right in front of you. No going back now though. You have shown him you haven't got any patience to stick with anything and won't appreciate that in a girlPosted by Ashley0202I texted him and told him I'm done bc I cannot chase or deal with that. Me being respectful and understanding to your schedule and he tries to use that as an excuse and I'm mad about it.Posted by LadyJuicyJust go on if u think u can get along with him.. yes this is a fact that if they get comfortable they r just too frank with u.. in my case things didn't work out as we exoected because when we strtd it was a long distance relationship.. which is very difficult for a cancer man.. bcz if they fall for u.. they want to see u meet u.. as much as they can.. all the best...Posted by Ashley0202Ok gotcha!! Thanks!! I've never experienced this before.Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
I don't understand this BS with the stereotypical Cancer men, i'm not stereotypical though, i'm hardly shy and will show that lady how much i want her, be it by text or with each other.
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Posted by cancerman_0707How could I put it in when he wasn't giving me the communication I asked for— I knew what his responsibilities were and his schedule and wasn't tripping on that. If you can be on social media you can take the time to get to know me more. Doesn't seem like he was interested. He shared personal things with me and would only come to my house if I told him too. So why should I have to do the inviting as well?? I'm a very understanding woman but when you keep trying to throw the same duties up like I'm stupid to the fact, then yes I should walk away. If I apologized to him and he ignored me would you even bother talking back to me again— Sh*t is crazy!!!Posted by LadyJuicyYour loss. If you put the time in it would probably be worth it. You obviously only see guys that put themselves right in front of you. No going back now though. You have shown him you haven't got any patience to stick with anything and won't appreciate that in a girlPosted by Ashley0202I texted him and told him I'm done bc I cannot chase or deal with that. Me being respectful and understanding to your schedule and he tries to use that as an excuse and I'm mad about it.Posted by LadyJuicyJust go on if u think u can get along with him.. yes this is a fact that if they get comfortable they r just too frank with u.. in my case things didn't work out as we exoected because when we strtd it was a long distance relationship.. which is very difficult for a cancer man.. bcz if they fall for u.. they want to see u meet u.. as much as they can.. all the best...Posted by Ashley0202Ok gotcha!! Thanks!! I've never experienced this before.Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
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Posted by CanbullriusIf I were to call you and leave a voicemail apologizing to you would you even consider contacting me back especially after I said I wouldn't contact you—Posted by LadyJuicyPosted by CanbullriusI liked him but he made it difficult to know him. He shared personal things with me, and always sent me memes or funny things on social media and I never understood that. I felt like with is just getting to know each other, why wouldn't you take that time to get to know me instead of sending that crap— I want to know you not that mess so I can see the person you are. I then expressed to him what I need as far as communication wise and he did it for a day and that was it. I asked him did he want me to leave him alone and he said, No. We were intimate as well. Then the second time I expressed the communication thing, I said wasn't contacting him anymore bc he doesn't get it. He said he was tired of explaining himself and said cool. So seeing this am I wrong for my actions— Doesn't seem like he was interested in me to be honest. My friend who is a cancer woman told me i need to reach out to him and apologize for my actions if I like him. But why should I— I didn't do anything. Would you even want to hear from me after all that— Like really?? LolPosted by cancerman_0707I'm a Cancer sun and think this is all BS, if i like a female and i'm getting the vibes from her, i pick up on it and react on it too, i let her know...Posted by LadyJuicyYour loss. If you put the time in it would probably be worth it. You obviously only see guys that put themselves right in front of you. No going back now though. You have shown him you haven't got any patience to stick with anything and won't appreciate that in a girlPosted by Ashley0202I texted him and told him I'm done bc I cannot chase or deal with that. Me being respectful and understanding to your schedule and he tries to use that as an excuse and I'm mad about it.Posted by LadyJuicyJust go on if u think u can get along with him.. yes this is a fact that if they get comfortable they r just too frank with u.. in my case things didn't work out as we exoected because when we strtd it was a long distance relationship.. which is very difficult for a cancer man.. bcz if they fall for u.. they want to see u meet u.. as much as they can.. all the best...Posted by Ashley0202Ok gotcha!! Thanks!! I've never experienced this before.Posted by LadyJuicyNo I m a virgo woman but have read about these cancer man.. infct my cancer man(or ex) has all those traits which I read about cancer men..Posted by Ashley0202Are you a cancer woman??
I know it is.. Infct my suggestion for u.. if u can't handl a man who avoids confrontations ... don't go for a cancer man.. bcz they r way too clingy and moody... but yess they r very loving n caring too..
If u will say something wrong to him he won't contact u n ask u about why did u do that.. he will just go into his shell until he feels like talking n that phase is just way too difficult.. I m going thru that.. ?
So be careful ... and if u want to get along.. then just keep taking initiatives.. n when he will feel that u r the one.. then he will definitely tell u about his feelings... they r real crabs.. they won't let u enter their lives until they feel good about u.. they never date for fun.. love and relationships is a real thing for them.. they don't waste time if they feel that u r the one then cancer is just the best one to get along..
I don't understand this BS with the stereotypical Cancer men, i'm not stereotypical though, i'm hardly shy and will show that lady how much i want her, be it by text or with each other.
I think a good idea would to be frank and honest with him, as a Cancerian sun myself i admire a strong woman and always go for the Alpha type female as they match me far better, i am very capable.
Cancer men can be all kinds of personalities... so it depends.
If he responds openly and honestly then he is doing it the right way, if he does not answer or gets defensive, back off, this Crab don't seem to understand what respect is and take that as an initiative to tell him you are having second thoughts, if by this time he does not snap out of it, move on sadly.
Cancers need to evolve and learn to control their emotional imbalances, once they do, they are an unstoppable force, otherwise they are just mostly a useless bag of piss IMO, too much mood swings and starting bitchy fights.
Me personally i would recognise my drawbacks in what i have done if i acted this way, and would apologise, then remind you of how you make me feel and go from there, i would heal it up as much as i could.
Hope this is useful advice to you.
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Posted by Aurora8LunaThanks for the advice. I felt like I did nothing wrong. I liked him a lot but I don't want to be the one to initiate always. I like a man to take charge. I will miss the intelligent conversations we had but hopefully he will not want to lose me and reaches out. I doubt he does. Anywho, my life goes on. I just met another cancer man a week ago and he has did the total opposite of old boy. He calls me and text me everyday. Why?? Bc he listened to how important communication is for me. He also has kids but makes time to contact me. We will see how things go. —
And @canbullrius has given you great advice btw, breath of fresh air
Posted by CanbullriusThank you. ?? I'm so excited to see how things go.....Posted by LadyJuicyThat's a true Cancer who has all heart for you, go get him girl and enjoy the beautiful love 🙂Posted by Aurora8LunaThanks for the advice. I felt like I did nothing wrong. I liked him a lot but I don't want to be the one to initiate always. I like a man to take charge. I will miss the intelligent conversations we had but hopefully he will not want to lose me and reaches out. I doubt he does. Anywho, my life goes on. I just met another cancer man a week ago and he has did the total opposite of old boy. He calls me and text me everyday. Why?? Bc he listened to how important communication is for me. He also has kids but makes time to contact me. We will see how things go. —
And @canbullrius has given you great advice btw, breath of fresh air
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