@Mschaniam
9 Years
Cancer boyfriend ignoring me
Understanding Cancer Boyfriend's Behavior When Ignoring You
A Cancer boyfriend may withdraw when feeling overwhelmed or insecure, especially if they fear losing emotional stability. His blocking and limited communication could reflect his need for space or emotional distress. Open, honest communication is crucial to address concerns and rebuild trust in the relationship.
Posted by Koniuchaa
What did you tell him when he said he doesn't want you to do anything except talk to him?He sounds very immature.
I didn't say anything cause I thought he was playing, but after a while a realized he was serious.
Break up.
Move on.
Seriously.
Best of luck! 🙂
He was probably looking for excuse to block you, just so he can be free to do what he wants including dating other girls.
Or it could be power game to see how you will react. You are better off without him
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
He sounds childish, immature, and controlling.You went out with friends and he gets that pissed off and proceeds to block you on social media and ignore you? How juvenile. He doesn't sound like a guy who's mature enough for a relationship.
How old are both of you?
I'm 18 and he is 19
Break up with him and go out with someone else.
Posted by Aquistorm
Break up with him and go out with someone else.
I have no way of breaking up with him if he blocked me on everything. I guess all I can do is just ignore him but I don't want to.
Posted by Aquistorm
Break up with him and go out with someone else.I have no way of breaking up with him if he blocked me on everything. I guess all I can do is just ignore him but I don't want to.
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Then just take your leave. If he sees you with someone else and try to call you out on it. Say you are through and it is his fault for not settling the matter before hand.
Posted by Aquistorm
Break up with him and go out with someone else.I have no way of breaking up with him if he blocked me on everything. I guess all I can do is just ignore him but I don't want to.
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Do you know his address? Mail him a letter. Email address?
Posted by Aquistorm
Break up with him and go out with someone else.I have no way of breaking up with him if he blocked me on everything. I guess all I can do is just ignore him but I don't want to.
Do you know his address? Mail him a letter. Email address?
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I have his email but he barely gets on it
What's your sign if you don't mind me asking?
Posted by Aquistorm
Break up with him and go out with someone else.I have no way of breaking up with him if he blocked me on everything. I guess all I can do is just ignore him but I don't want to.
Do you know his address? Mail him a letter. Email address?
I have his email but he barely gets on it
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That's fine! Write him a break up message explaining how his actions make you feel. What he's doing to you is emotional abuse and it's not ok. If he reads it, great, if he doesn't, oh well, if that's your best effort at contacting him that's his fault for blocking communication.
Posted by Aquistorm
What's your sign if you don't mind me asking?
I'm an aries
Posted by Aquistorm
What's your sign if you don't mind me asking?I'm an aries
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I'm surprised you haven't already written him off and moved on actually. What's your Venus and Moon? Pisces?
Posted by Aquistorm
What's your sign if you don't mind me asking?I'm an aries
I'm surprised you haven't already written him off and moved on actually. What's your Venus and Moon? Pisces?
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I don't know actually my birthday is march 27th if that helps. I am the type of person to do that it's just that this was my first relationship.
Hello OP,
It is a pretty easy call, you are in a new place (college) and the next stage of your life. Many many many relationships end at this point and it ending now is normal. You have to look at what you want and how you want people to treat you and decide what to look for in someone you would call a boyfriend.
Time to move on from this guy and into your future.
Good luck.
I say good riddance to the future wife beater.
Posted by Aquistorm
What's your sign if you don't mind me asking?I'm an aries
girl go over to his place and kick him in his nuts.
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Sadly I can't do that this is a long distance relationship.
Posted by Aquistorm
What's your sign if you don't mind me asking?I'm an aries
I'm surprised you haven't already written him off and moved on actually. What's your Venus and Moon? Pisces?
well cause crabs...you know...hot stuff
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Posted by Mschaniam
My cancer boyfriend blocked my number and blocked me on snapchat so I have no way of contacting him. I just got into college and he wants me to not go to events and just stay at my dorm and talk to him. Yesterday I only talked to him once because I was packing to go back to school as soon as I got there my friends invited me to go lunch and I went. I told him I was going and he got mad and didn't respond to my calls or texts. When he finally answered the phone he didn't want to talk and hung up on me and told me to go have fun. I called him all day still no answer then finally at like 11 something he answered my call saying he is with a friend and for me to text him. When I texted him he wasn't responding how he usually does. That's the last time I spoken to him. He blocked me on everything and I don't know what to do.he'll need to ajust that's the i make you feel guilty trip don't fall for it you should just do what you want to do he just needs to get used to things what's your sign ? he just wants to punish you and make you feel bad if cancer feels bad they want you to feel the same as them sort of selfish act
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I'm an Aries.
Don't worry about how to break up with him. Wtf kinda response is that?
Just get you a new boo & block this fool. I would never block my man & my cancer has never blocked me (& I've been a fool).
Maybe you'll get a hot professor.
How long have you been together?
Posted by LadyNeptune
How long have you been together?
Since July.
Posted by LadyNeptune
How long have you been together?Since July.
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So its a fairly new relationship. He's feeling insecure and possessive of you. Does he have a history of gf's cheating on him?
Posted by LadyNeptune
How long have you been together?Since July.
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I am going to do extensive research (google) and see how long LDR's last when they are 2 months old and one of the people is going to college for the first time. I'll let you know...
Posted by Illuminati
He was probably looking for excuse to block you, just so he can be free to do what he wants including dating other girls.Or it could be power game to see how you will react. You are better off without him
You'll leave him eventually... No one wants to be stressed during college for sure..
OK I got kind of tired of looking into this but I found this cool LDR website w/faq:
Posted by LadyNeptune
How long have you been together?Since July.
So its a fairly new relationship. He's feeling insecure and possessive of you. Does he have a history of gf's cheating on him?
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Both of his ex cheated on him. He thinks I would to.
Posted by LadyNeptune
How long have you been together?Since July.
So its a fairly new relationship. He's feeling insecure and possessive of you. Does he have a history of gf's cheating on him?
Both of his ex cheated on him. He thinks I would to.
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So his behavior is understandable. To an extent...
Cancers need constant assurance of your affections, him even more so. Assure him that he's the only one you want. Tell him that he needs to trust you until you give him a reason not too. It's not fair that your paying for the sins of the girls that came before you.
If you want to have a chance of making the ldr work get onto a set schedule of communication, that way he feels like your not going cold on him. Work out a time every day where you skype. Make him feel like he's a priority. If he still can't relax then consider moving on.
Both exes?
He's lying.
The exes are not here to defend themselves.
You met him in July.
We're in August.
Two monthis in....and he's already a nutter-butter?
Don't be suprised if he was the one who cheated....or cheated FIRST!
Guilty parties point the first fingers.
And they're usually crazy, paranoid and jealous, too.
I meant "September."
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My cancer boyfriend blocked my number and blocked me on snapchat so I have no way of contacting him. I just got into college and he wants me to not go to events and just stay at my dorm and talk to him. Yesterday I only talked to him once because I was packing to go back to school as soon as I got there my friends invited me to go lunch and I went. I told him I was going and he got mad and didn't respond to my calls or texts. When he finally answered the phone he didn't want to talk and hung up on me and told me to go have fun. I called him all day still no answer then finally at like 11 something he answered my call saying he is with a friend and for me to text him. When I texted him he wasn't responding how he usually does. That's the last time I spoken to him. He blocked me on everything and I don't know what to do.