cancer problem

I was on the phone with my Cancer friend, we've been friends for a long time and have liked eachother once, but nothing happened.

Well, he made a move for the fourth time and I turned him down. He has been trying to be with me for a very long time. So he asked me why, and I told him no, because I just didn't want to go there. He kept asking so I told him, I said he did not have what I wanted in someone that I am having a relationship with, I do not get that feeling that I should get when I'm around him, and that I do not think he can handle me, because he can't. He began to say that he would treat me better than some people, hinting at my ex boyfriend, and started to cry. He wasn't BOO HOOING, but he was crying. He is a crybaby, and that is another thing that pissed me off. So he hung up on me...I did not call him back. Should I apologize for what I said to him? I don't want to, but maybe I should. And would that hurt your feelings that bad if someone said that to you?

I didn't tell him that I was interested or anything. And he is expecting so much out of me. So I am not playing with his head at all.

Why have you been friends for a long time?

Well, radiotherapy and chemoterapy is the most effective way so far. Also less stress is benefical.

LOL...

One thing I cannot seem to understand is: what kind of a man would propose a relationship, to a female friend, over the freakin phone!!! I am at a lost for words.......

People who truly like each other, doesn't care about the means of communication. Be it telephone or face to face speech, the important part is "the meaning".

When you give flowers to women with greet card on it which tells "I love you", how do you accept this as a different type of communication?

haffos right .

if the relationship is long distance- sometimes the phone is all you have.