Cancer question

Okay this will be quick, I feel like my bf doesn't wanna hang out with me anymore lmao. Well like it seems like he'd rather hang out with his friends on Friday and Saturday and on Sunday thats when he wants to hangout, I don't get it. And literally since we've been dating we've always hungout at least Friday or Saturday and the last 2 weekends he hasn't asked to be with me except on Sunday. I find it odd but actually hilarious because it actually pisses me off. So this past Sunday I decided not to see him. Then I thought maybe he just isn't into me anymore, cool but he just keeps bringing up our future together and where he wants us to live and kids and shit but like only wants to be with me on Sundays now haha. We've kind of been fighting for the past week on and off but still. What tf is up?

Rising: Gemini

Moon: Virgo

Mercury: Leo

Venus: Virgo

Mars: Virgo

Those are his signs

Posted by Arielle83
So he needs to hang out with you on your schedule? And if he doesn’t you play games to get your way?

If he’s a cancer he’ll see through your manipulation so fast you’ll be hanging out with yourself all three days.

Maybe it’s time to get some hobbies rather than dictating his time with you.

Lol okay thanks we'll do but that bit of antics gets me nowhere because my question isn't answered..

Posted by -sierra-
virgo placements.. give him space

i'm a virgo and i stay away from my boyfriend for a whole week every month

some breathing space is good in a relationship

Okay thanks! That helps and also makes sense because my friend is a virgo and she stays at her parents house once a week to get away from her husband.

Posted by -sierra-
wait so how did he react when you didn't see him sunday?

Well that night he told me I blew him off and so I called him before I went to bed and he'll usually call me the next day but he didn't talk to me Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday.

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Posted by -sierra-
virgo placements.. give him space

i'm a virgo and i stay away from my boyfriend for a whole week every month

some breathing space is good in a relationship

Okay thanks! That helps and also makes sense because my friend is a virgo and she stays at her parents house once a week to get away from her husband.

what's her husband's sign?
and is that just a habit or due to conflict?
but seeing each other just once a week i admit is a little too much..

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Her Husband's an Aries. She says because she gets sick of him

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wait so how did he react when you didn't see him sunday?

Well that night he told me I blew him off and so I called him before I went to bed and he'll usually call me the next day but he didn't talk to me Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday.

how long have you guys been dating?
interesting.. i see you're a pisces moon..

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We've been dating for 7 months now. Yeah, most of my placements are water smh

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Posted by -sierra-
virgo placements.. give him space

i'm a virgo and i stay away from my boyfriend for a whole week every month

some breathing space is good in a relationship

Okay thanks! That helps and also makes sense because my friend is a virgo and she stays at her parents house once a week to get away from her husband.

what's her husband's sign?
and is that just a habit or due to conflict?
but seeing each other just once a week i admit is a little too much..

Her Husband's an Aries. She says because she gets sick of him

hmm.. my bf's an aries moon
is the aries okay with it?

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She says he gets annoyed because he wants to talk to her either on the phone or text but she feels like she needs the whole day and night to completely be away from him including communication

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Posted by -sierra-
wait so how did he react when you didn't see him sunday?

Well that night he told me I blew him off and so I called him before I went to bed and he'll usually call me the next day but he didn't talk to me Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday.

how long have you guys been dating?
interesting.. i see you're a pisces moon..

We've been dating for 7 months now. Yeah, most of my placements are water smh

if it upsets you.. why not ask him why he only wants to hang on sunday? if he cared, he'll take what you say in consideration and put in the effort to spend more time together

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Yeah true. If he does need space though I don't want to make him feel like he has to hangout with me even if he is feeling a certain way because that's how he is. He does for people to make them feel better even if it means he's not feeling it.

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Posted by -sierra-
wait so how did he react when you didn't see him sunday?

Well that night he told me I blew him off and so I called him before I went to bed and he'll usually call me the next day but he didn't talk to me Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday.

how long have you guys been dating?
interesting.. i see you're a pisces moon..

We've been dating for 7 months now. Yeah, most of my placements are water smh

if it upsets you.. why not ask him why he only wants to hang on sunday? if he cared, he'll take what you say in consideration and put in the effort to spend more time together

Yeah true. If he does need space though I don't want to make him feel like he has to hangout with me even if he is feeling a certain way because that's how he is. He does for people to make them feel better even if it means he's not feeling it.

wait you barely spend enough time but when you do you're always fighting? about what?

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Okay well for the past 6 months we had been spending a lot of time together like weekends and weekdays and we literally talk 24/7. I mean we'd goto sleep on the phone, wake up on the phone, then once we goto work we'll either keep each other on the phone just on speaker or ear piece (because our work schedules are tremendously different) or we'll get off the phone and text all day until one of us gets off then we'll call each other and fall asleep on the phone and repeat lmao but then we started only seeing each other on the weekends due to work schedules so the weekends were kind of our thing, well at least I had assumed so(my fault) but for the past week we had kind of been arguing, nothing too serious just about him not saying when things bother him or waiting until I bring up something that bothers me then all of a sudden he starts spitting out all of these things that I've done that bothered him but he didn't say it at the time, just cancer crap.

Posted by -sierra-
virgo placements.. give him space

i'm a virgo and i stay away from my boyfriend for a whole week every month

some breathing space is good in a relationship

Like what she said.

I have the same sun sign and moon sign as your man.

I don't always want to hang out with my boyfriend after we argue. And i want to hang out with friends too and balance my relationship.

You're going have to accept the fact that he needs his personal time with his buddies too. You could just laugh and be mad about it and find how hilarious it is, but it's also what he wants to do too.

If you don't think he actually loves you or whatnot, you're going to think about this for a good long minute.

Yeah you guys are right. His reasoning though is because he says I never ask him to see him. He feels like he always asks to see me which is true when I think about it. It just never really crossed my mind. Also thank you guys for your words of advice, I really appreciate it!!

Sounds like he just needs some space. Give it to him and he’ll come crawling back