What does it take for an immature cancer to mature?

What does it take for an immature cancer to mature? I'm in love with an immature cancer. She fits the description very well --- every emotion is a negation of the last, hypersensitive, etc. I'm just wondering what does it take for an immature cancer to ma
scopiooooApril 15, 2018 2:01pm
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  • What does it take for an immature cancer to mature? I'm in love with an immature cancer. She fits the description very well --- every emotion is a negation of the last, hypersensitive, etc. I'm just wondering what does it take for an immature cancer to mature? Are there any cancer women out there who experienced this (immature to mature?) What happened? She is my first love and I have never been in a relationship before with anyone else. Thanks!
  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Everyone is different, but it took me some failed relationships to rid myself of acting out so emotionally and following my ID all the time. Good luck!
  • Posted by Moonbutter
    Everyone is different, but it took me some failed relationships to rid myself of acting out so emotionally and following my ID all the time. Good luck!


    I'm willing to stick it out with her and i told her that i will never give up on her and i guess i'm trying to help her get past her immature stage. Do you think that would help? What happened with your failed relationships?
  • nikkistar
    My moral compass acts like its in the Bermuda Triangle
    Anyone can be immature, regardless of their sign.

    And some people never learn to be better.
  • LadyNeptune
    🌵🍋🌿
    Having negative emotions =/= immaturity.
  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Posted by scopioooo
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Everyone is different, but it took me some failed relationships to rid myself of acting out so emotionally and following my ID all the time. Good luck!


    I'm willing to stick it out with her and i told her that i will never give up on her and i guess i'm trying to help her get past her immature stage. Do you think that would help? What happened with your failed relationships?
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    It took being with losers to appreciate a winner 🤷🏻‍♀️
  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Having negative emotions =/= immaturity.

    I think I know what he means by this....
  • LadyNeptune
    🌵🍋🌿
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Having negative emotions =/= immaturity.

    I think I know what he means by this....
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    What does he mean?
  • LadyNeptune
    🌵🍋🌿
    Posted by scopioooo
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Everyone is different, but it took me some failed relationships to rid myself of acting out so emotionally and following my ID all the time. Good luck!


    I'm willing to stick it out with her and i told her that i will never give up on her and i guess i'm trying to help her get past her immature stage. Do you think that would help? What happened with your failed relationships?
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    You told her she’s immature??! Damn. No wonder she’s got some negative emotions.
  • Yodi
    Cancer sun..Aries moon vibes
    female
    Life experiences and time. Also honest and straightforward friendships/relationships..
  • Yodi
    Cancer sun..Aries moon vibes
    female
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by scopioooo
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Everyone is different, but it took me some failed relationships to rid myself of acting out so emotionally and following my ID all the time. Good luck!


    I'm willing to stick it out with her and i told her that i will never give up on her and i guess i'm trying to help her get past her immature stage. Do you think that would help? What happened with your failed relationships?

    It took being with losers to appreciate a winner 🤷🏻‍♀️
    click to expand


    +1000
  • Yodi
    Cancer sun..Aries moon vibes
    female
    Posted by scopioooo
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Everyone is different, but it took me some failed relationships to rid myself of acting out so emotionally and following my ID all the time. Good luck!


    I'm willing to stick it out with her and i told her that i will never give up on her and i guess i'm trying to help her get past her immature stage. Do you think that would help? What happened with your failed relationships?
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    Errr if she's immature and you told her you'd never give up on her she could be testing you to see if it's true..
  • Echo
    SentimentalCrabby | Cancer Sun | Virgo Moon | Leo Mercury/Venus | Libra Mars
    When reality hits them hard
  • Mature crabs are also negatively emotional and hypersensitive. They just don't bring the flood over every little thing like an unevolved Cancerian will.

    Their shells need to develop and harden. This takes time, and as much as it sucks to say, pain. A Cancerian will never mature and grow until they learn how to process and compartmentalize every single emotion they experience, especially the negative ones. Depending on what they go through and other placements in their chart, this maturity can happen as early as the teens, or never.
  • Moonbutter
    "Rising-Aries-Great for intimidation, mwhahah! Sun-Cancer-Am i laughing or c
    female
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Having negative emotions =/= immaturity.

    I think I know what he means by this....


    What does he mean?
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    I’m thinking he means being too sensitive, passive aggressiveness, neediness, moodiness

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