Cancer Women and Babying/Cuddling Your Boyfriends

In all three of the relationships that I have been in all of the men have been much older than me but I noticed that I have never layed on any of my boyfriends chest.

Instead they would always lay on my chest and I would aways hold them in my arms as if they were a baby.

I have a burning desire to do this with every man that i am in a serous relationship with.

I guess I think that this is awkward because in movies you always see the woman laying on the mans chest not the opposite.

I read that Cancer women have a burning desire to mother. Do other Cancer woman do this?

When I was reading about Cancer men a lot of sites said that all Cancer men secretly want their lover to baby them and to lay on their woman's chest as if they are a baby.

I'm a Leo. My gf is a Cancer. We do this both ways. She lays with her head on my shoulder a lot. When she is working on her computer in bed and I am trying to sleep I lay with my arm over her leg and my face against her hip. She also does something we jokingly call 'starfishing', which is when she completely lays on top of me and kind of wraps around me.

Posted by starlover
There is something a little disturbing about holding a grown man like a baby....i mean now and then is okay if they have been through a difficult time etc, but if you are doing it all the time, you seem to be attracting men that want mothers...

Not healthy

I know it's so strange but I have burning desire to do that with every guy who I have been in a long term relationship with. It seems like the only type of guys that I am attracted to are the ones who are like this.

I can't lay on my husbands or boyfriends chest I don't know why I just can't do it.

This is some weird shit..No I don't do that and no I have no intention of mothering a grown man...I want to be viewed as a sexx godess not a damn mommy.

google babying a man then go to images...... something familiar pops up

Posted by crabRiot
This is some weird shit..No I don't do that and no I have no intention of mothering a grown man...I want to be viewed as a sexx godess not a damn mommy.

So no one else does this in thier relationships but me. Omg I feel bad now exspecially being that these men are p seven to ten years older tha me. Or who knows maybe it's the fact that I never had parents and this is why I act this way.

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Posted by crabRiot
This is some weird shit..No I don't do that and no I have no intention of mothering a grown man...I want to be viewed as a sexx godess not a damn mommy.

So no one else does this in thier relationships but me. Omg I feel bad now exspecially being that these men are p seven to ten years older tha me. Or who knows maybe it's the fact that I never had parents and this is why I act this way.

There nothing wrong with your style of love. If it feels natural do it, if you want to be on your man's chest, let em know. Say what you want, youll get it.

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The thought of laying on a mans chest is desterbing to me.

Posted by Kodak375
I'm always the strong one in my relationship, not on some ole i'm alpha male shit, but I genuinely like dating girly girls. When I dated "strong" women, it felt like a guy friend lol I like to be the one to come to rescue and carry you to bed. I enjoy the attention women give gives when I run things.

That funny because both of these men wanted me to tone it down a little bit as far as the way I dressed (when I used to where short skirts) And one of then used to complain that I was always trying to be too dominat in the bedroom (as far as me wanting to be on top).

Correction "disturbing"

I find it sexy. When instupidly joined my friend on a ski trip years ago I saw her do it. It was very sweet. It made me jealous in admit. Playing in dudes hair and all.

For dudes that had this done to you how does it make you feel? Cancer women do you want to do this more or lay on chest more?

Posted by starlover
How many children do you have caner?

I have a daughter, but I wanted a son so bad that I was going to get invetro infertalization. Ii want three boys.

I'm really good with kids I had legal custody of my five nephews ages 3 to 15. And I once had custody of my two pre teen nieces.

No, I can't say that I want to cuddle a grown man like a baby. I LOVE snuggling onto a man's chest, or in the crook of his shoulder. I also love when they fall asleep using boobs as a pillow. I guess I like a mutual mix of snuggling/cuddling.

I baby my boyfriends emotionally I would say, not physically.
I do not like cuddling though or people running up to me and hugging me.

I truly do want to mother my boyfriends to an extent but I don't want to have the feeling that they're dependent on me or for them to get the subconscious idea that I'm "responsible" for their emotions. A line needs to be drawn and I would like a guy that does that for me since the moment I feel he's getting to be too much I just want to cut him off right then and there. If I mother him too much I don't see him as a "man" but if he doesn't let me at all but if the guy is too independent or distant emotionally I would feel he's essentially rejecting what I feel is my favorite thing to bring to the table.

This is some beta male type shit.... you wont see a fire sign subjecting himself to such a thing... and should he....

HE OUGHT TO BE ASHAMED OF HIS DAMN SELFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I knew a cancer woman like that.. but I dont think cuddling/babying is correct wording... ive seen two types of cancer female one is the partygirl the other is the housewife and usually the latter is the one who wants a man laying on her breast.. some may forget the breasts are a cancers weak spot soooo

I thought that it might be a little bit different, but I didn't think that it was anything wrong with it. I just know u never see it in movies. But all of the men that I do this with are the very strong manly man type. There moms were not there for them growing up.

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Posted by starlover
There is something a little disturbing about holding a grown man like a baby....i mean now and then is okay if they have been through a difficult time etc, but if you are doing it all the time, you seem to be attracting men that want mothers...

Not healthy

Bingo, +1.

I have a broad chest and shoulders, and very warm skin.

It's the perfect place for my woman to place her head.

For the opposite to happen would simply be unnatural, and feminine behavior.

It's simply not acceptable conduct for a man to rest his head on his woman the majority of the time.

We have babies for that, not men.....i agree with you fishy.....the idea of babying a man makes me feel sick. There is something so not right about that

Ewwww

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For me the thought of laying on a mans chest is repulsive.

Maybe I need to phyco analyze this. I have no problem laying my head in my mans lap but not on him chest.

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Posted by canerleo101
Maybe I need to phyco analyze this. I have no problem laying my head in my mans lap but not on him chest.

Really—
So you're saying, as a woman, you have a problem with this...

or this

or this

please explain

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Idk even looking at those pictures makes me nervous. I guess me laying on a mans chest would make me feel way too vonerurable and the guy would view me as weak or perhaps I haven't been with a man that I feel I can fully trust.

Posted by Arielle83
I used to lie on my dad's chest a lot when I was a kid watching movies. Do ya I wanna lay on my guys chests. He's always laying on me and I find it annoying.

That is so cute ( your boyfriend laying on your chest)