Cancer Ladies! How to impress you?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Cancer2448 on Sunday, December 21, 2014 and has 15 replies.

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@Cancer2448
11 Years

Calling all cancer women out there. How do you like to be courted? How to impress you and get you out of your shell? I know every Cancer lady is different but just want to see if there's anything that sticks out. I like this Cancer girl, haven't known her long. Like to reel her in.

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@Cancer2448
11 Years

You would figure I would know. But I'm just trying to be careful with this one. Good mannerisms, confident but not cocky, good hygiene, dress in style . Be romantic with a good sense of humor. I read something to be direct with you but I don't want to scare her off if I fail. Guess that's where fear of rejection comes in. I can get her to snapchat me a lot one day and texts one day like yesterday. But I snapchat and texted her today....no answer. And I can see she's seen my snaps. — What am I missing here? This is giving me flashbacks with the libra playing hot and cold.

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14 Years1,000+ Posts

I am very interested in this topic too. My feeling is that perhaps for one thing you shouldn't try to rush things as I tried this recently with a fantastic Cancer woman that I was in contact with through a dating website who I am sure was perfect for me but I was pressing her to meet me (I mean, perhaps too soon) and this seemed to piss her off and she blocked me.

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@Cancer2448
11 Years

Well that's where I'm at. Not sure why im so impatient but trying to be careful with this one. After a handful of texts and snaps yesterday back and forth. I've sent one of each today and no response, so leaving it at that and trying to be patient. I would think I could click with this one since all of my best friends are Cancers. That was before I knew about astrology.

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@Cancer2448
11 Years

I've had no success with cancer in the love department. Just have a lot of friends that are cancers. I dated a Scorpio woman and goodness gracious that was an intense woman. I miss the feelings I had with her...but she cheated on me.

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@Cancer2448
11 Years

I turned down a Gemini, libra, capricorn, and Saggittarius. Will admit they looked pretty fine but didn't believe I would click with them.

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@joon
11 YearsCancer

Posted by Cancer2448
Calling all cancer women out there. How do you like to be courted? How to impress you and get you out of your shell? I know every Cancer lady is different but just want to see if there's anything that sticks out. I like this Cancer girl, haven't known her long. Like to reel her in.

what is your moon sign?

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@joon
11 YearsCancer

So many Scorpio moons in dxp these days. Should not be a problem for you. In a cancer-cancer dating scene, one of you need to take the lead and be the aggressive one in the beginning. Depends on what kind of cancer girl she is. I like to do simple and fun things on dates and I like a guy with a good sense of humor. I need to have an intellectual connection.I also get turned off by clingy guys. My other cancer girlfriends like classy places wine and dine and they are a bit girly girly. So it depends on what kind of a girl she is.

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@Cancer2448
11 Years

Well I don't think I've come off as clingy...yet and hopefully won't. I haven't been aggressive. I see on her social media site that she goes out and has drinks with her girlfriends, like wine. So yup you're right. I think upscale fits her too.