Cancers

I had a bf for 13 yrs we have kids together but our relationship was dead. I met this guy at work we started dating for 4 months. I fell hard for this cancer guy i denied and lied i had a bf. I left my babys daddy for this guy. I wanted to be with this cancer guy because he was so good to me treated me nice spent money on me showed me he can be a good bf saw him every other day. I wanted more from him but i think i hurted him after telling him the truth. He started to be so mean ignored me cut me out. I got clingy and tried hard so then i just left him alone. He got at me but it was just a happy 4th of july . Then months past by just lil texts then 3 rs later i text him how u been? since den we started talking everyday told him how i felt he said sorry he said it was mutual but we moved to fast he said hes old fashioned he doesn't move fast. He said hes not ready for a relationship. I know if i got him back like before it will be better then it was. I'm so confused with this guy we flirt here and there we been texting for 2 months almost everyday now but still refuse to see me. I love him its hard to let go of this guy he shows lil interest and jokes alot. But i feel like man move on i know if i get him back he will be the way he was to me before. Cancers are so hard.

o He said hes not ready for a relationship.

Believe him. He told you he is not ready. He is not seeing you in person. The relationship is just a fantasy, and it is the fantasy that you are in love with because the reality is this guy isn’t that interested. Unless the menz are taking you out in real life, they don’t exist. This is a good policy to live by.