Cancers and competitiveness...

Come on spill the beans boys and girls...

How much would you compete for the object of your affection once you have set your sights on them..how relentless are you in the chase? 😉

I will go first since I asked the question it's only fair 🙂. I don't give up easy no matter what the competition. I love the smell of the hunt and chase relentlessly until I roar from the bedroom. Once I want someone, I want them, consequences be damned...😛

even if they're attached? would that stop you?

and what do you do once you claimed your victory? get bored and move on to the next?

^^I would still test them out to see how strong the relationship is. If I think it's strong I won't do anything further but if I think that the relationship is weak then I will help it along breakup avenue. It's going to break anyway, if not me some other guy will come along and do the honours...

I don't chase women for personal gratification or ego boost, I only go after women I genuinely like. So there is no question of moving on because I have conquered and I am bored. I like spending time with women and always find quality female company 🙂

Come on crabs, step forward and open up 😛

IC: how very cancerian of you. i asked cos most men seem to like the chase for the sake of the chase and it usually has little to do with anything more than their dicks 'liking' someone, lol.

i know i'm not a crab and have no cancer placements whatsoever but as a female, i don't do competition. i think it's a little undignified. i'm a fatalist. if something's gonna happen it will whether we intervene or not.

I don't chase and I never compete.

My birth chart picked it up, which I thought was very cool.



246 Conjunction Sun - Venus

You tend to rely on the power of attraction to bring people to you, rather than aggressively pursuing love interests. There is some vanity involved here--you are most attracted to people who express interest in you, or who respond well to your charms! You are not the type of person who overtly pursues people who appear to be indifferent to you. You are not competitive in the aggressive sense of the word, and you are not someone who loves a good chase. Instead, you work your charms and draw people to you. Your ability to attract others (Venus) is very much tied up with your ego (Sun). Because Venus rules all things feminine, both sexes with this aspect tend to be quite attractive.