Cancers I need some input

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by DivineWine9 on Monday, June 26, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@DivineWine9
9 Years

I only met her twice...I thought that for a while but I only saw her a couple of times she's nice not to mention gorgeous! I don't think I would be a threat and I would never intervene like that. It is what it is...I know he's having issues with her but i don't believe it has anything to do with me...

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@peo
9 Years

He's probably protective of his relationship/girlfriend and keeping his distance to be respectful to the both of you. It's better for everyone involved.

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@peo
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Posted by DivineWine9

Posted by peo
He's probably protective of his relationship/girlfriend and keeping his distance to be respectful to the both of you. It's better for everyone involved.

That's perfectly fine I get it. But I'm not going to make a move on him or intervene that's not my nature. I still want to be friends we've know each other since we were kids. Can you just cut someone out like that? I've moved on was dating someone but it didn't work out and im doing my own thing. It doesn't make sense... I just can't drop a friend like that...

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Well, it's not just dropping someone like that. Sometimes some distance/zero communication is needed, especially if he's already going through a lot. He doesn't need to think ill of you to want to keep his distance, quite the opposite. I take breaks from people all the time, so I can replenish and they don't get swept into my emotional tornado.

There's a big chance he won't cut you out forever, but he also might not make the first step in the future. Give it time before you contact him and once he knows/believes you're over him, you should be fine.

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