Change of heart?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Wishbear on Monday, May 31, 2010 and has 8 replies.

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@Wishbear
17 Years

We finally had the commitment talk, albeit in the heat of the moment, but still...

The night was magic.

And no, I did not give it up yet. 🙂

When we parted, he was SO loving and a little bit clingy, if I may say.

He asked me to call him the following day (Sunday), and said he wanted to keep company the following Monday.

I have not heard a word from him since this time!!!

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@shellshocker
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Relax...
Think about romance, longing and urning for someone.
Replaying every magical moment over and over in your mind.
Cherishing words whispered and intimate thoughts spoken aloud.
Dreaming of possible scenarios of what's to come...

That's what he's probably doing.
But... so many people want to receive a text, that says what? "Hi, I'm on my way to my job that sucks?"
Or a phone call, where you talk about nothing...
Why kill the romance with reality?

Enjoy the memory. Give yourself a chance to miss him, and for him to miss you. Just enjoy the ride.

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@PiscesArgie
16 Years500+ Posts

I agree with Shell Shocker, why worry so much?
You should be doing the same thing, reliving all the magic moments...!!
he will come back for more 🙂

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@Wishbear
17 Years

It's strange, I have perused some of the recent posts in this section, and the two people who have replied to mine are those I made a mental note of. 🙂

The way in which both are you convey your thoughts is straight and to the point, which I appreciate.

As a love interest, I am a fight risk, and ironically, he is also. 😢 I simply fail to understand how he could be so inconsiderate after what transpired. Sheer curiosity...

I am not one for phone calls, but I made it a point to be reliable. He asked me to call him, since he would be working late, and it seems, he likes to check-in/check-out.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

A year has gone by and you are still chasing the man .... obssession is a flaw not a virtue .. perhaps, you need to work on that instead of worrying what his next move is going to be.

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@Wishbear
17 Years

Angel:

Honey, I do NOT chase any man, let's not guild the lily.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

excellent idea, wtf .... problem solved.

See, you wasted a whole year chasing this man when all you had to do was train a dog to cater to you, and please you .. I hear that Siberian Huskies muff dive very well. You should get one of those.

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@Wishbear
17 Years

WTF: Funny idea. 🙂

P-Angel: Your commentary is asinine.

Do us all a favor and take a long walk off a short peer.

Enough of reading far too into subtext!!! I chase money, not men.

Pisces Angel: It has been three days since we last spoke.