Choices

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by suresh0807 on Monday, February 13, 2012 and has 5 replies.

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@suresh0807
14 YearsCancer

Happy valentines day my dear fellow cancers and cancer lovers.......

Sometimes i tend to allow others to decide things for me.. (not on life decisions though). Simple things like selecting dress, camera, etc.... they confuse me a lot. Finally i settle with the opinion of my dear ones and would feel my choice would have been crappier.....

Any one felt the same..

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@muff
17 Years

my cancer girl has to process things, so her decision making is not the quickest (or the best). i tease her and tell her her favorite color must be plaid

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@prettyladii
17 Years1,000+ Posts

I am opposite. I like to make all of my decisions on my own. I may ask for advice from a trusted friend here and there depending on the magnitude of the situation but I do not like people to try to talk for me or decide for me, ever.

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@CanceritaBonita
15 Years

I ask opinions, but end up doing what I want. Mostly, I'm just wanting validation for my choice. If they suggest something else, I'm still doing my own thing. 🙂

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@suresh0807
14 YearsCancer

hmm, interesting... When i was in a relationship, there was a period when i would seek my gf's suggestion to even smallest of the things i would buy... i used to go with my gut on the choice given by her.... maybe i thought she must always be right...... Thank you for your opinion guys n gals..........