Closure

I need it! I crave closure! And I can't seem to get it with the crab that I've been involved with, and it seemed to adruptly vanish - this fling. I've accepted it,but I oh so love to just have a peace to the ending. I would do it so friendly and wouldn't mind staying friends with him.

I mean we are, after all, in the same group of people and see eachother every so often.

So might as well try and make amends and if it's gonna end, then we might as well give a handshake and move on.

But....

he won't give it to meeee (the closure I mean)

Is there a way to go about this?

There is no such a thing as closure on fling.

Some people don't have closure on marriage! Fling! Forget it.

Best advice is - get a crab legs and eating it - brake them and twist them and enjoy!

Don't ever wait for closure. Not responding is also a response. That should be enough closure. We don't always get it. We just need to accept it. Sometimes we need to strip our emotions n assess the situation candidly n practically. Just move on without the handshake. Don't need to ignore him. Talk to him casually when n if you should or want to.

*hugs*

to everyone who needs it in this thread.

Trust me. You'll never pry it out of him.

My suggestion: don't waste your time on getting too invested on him anymore. Find other people who'll satisfy your emotional need. Only talk to him if he talks to you. Otherwise, you are guaranteed to face against a cold wall.

Get a piñata that looks like them and then beat the shit out of it ?

And also never have another fling with a cancer...

Whoa dude ? reading your posts just stressed me out... chill out. Us Cancer chics don't like too much intensity especially in the beginning of a relationship. Tread carefully and woo her softly.

Told ya....those claws (male claws)...latch on and don't let go!! Just like I mentioned; a pit bull will not let go (strong jaws). When a "male" cancer falls for a woman; he will NOT let her go.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

https://cafeastrology.com/articles/cancermanlove.html

"and few Cancer men fall in love at first sight, or even believe in the concept. When he finds the partner of his dreams which may take awhile as the Crab is rather picky the Cancer man will throw himself into the romance of the situation, buying flowers, riding white horses, and slaying metaphorical dragons for them. The traditional side of this man means that he will shower his partner with thoughtful gifts, wine and dine them in the best restaurants, and try to grant their every wish."