Crab men always get a pass

Or is it just in my life? Maybe its the crab on crab thing that gives them a pass on the doing the shit that would earn anyone else a dirty look.

I extend a nice cold bottle of water. They ignore it, say something smart about the environment and reach over my head to get a glass. After I just finished the dishes.

They're the only men I know who still call my house phone. I usually forget I have one.

They come in without knocking through the backdoor like they pay bills. Damn lucky I heard them pull up.

And make me feel like a guest in my own kitchen. Though I do enjoy watching them from another room as they cook. The times they want me to cook with them are best. I wish I could bottle that harmonious flow we have between us when accomplishing any task and carry it with me when they aren't around...sigh

This was just brought to my attention when a Crab hit on six nerves all within an hour and somehow I'm not even upset about it. After eight months of hiding in his shell, not even accepting calls from his mother, this particular crab calls at 6:20am. He laughs before saying anything and proceeds to scold me for keeping him up with my noise. (He has always known what I'm doing and how I feel without contact.) He's forcing me out of my home to go recuperate at his lake house three hours away. AND to take pictures to help him with a "project." I hate pictures. Now he's here, downstairs in MY kitchen cooking breakfast before we hit the road. So much for my Sunday shell time.

I love them. I really, really do. The feeling of having an extension of myself is something to be grateful for.

What kinda Crab men are you talking about kim?? Seems like the problem is with the guy, not our sign. Maybe they feel safe around you. But we all don't get a pass. Some Cancers are very respectful. I think you just be meeting the wrong Cancers lol

But two Cancers together would make an awesome couple. You got two people who are more than willing to please each other. Plus you understand each other's emotions & feelings. How can anyone not like that. It can also be the same for Scorpio women & Cancer men

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What kinda Crab men are you talking about kim?? Seems like the problem is with the guy, not our sign. Maybe they feel safe around you. But we all don't get a pass. Some Cancers are very respectful. I think you just be meeting the wrong Cancers lol

fyi...this day is taking a turn...
No, blackindian its more of a tease. Its a light hearted thread. I wonder if the men and women have a different level of tolerance for one another under each sign. For me, it has so far been true.

Well I don't wanna ruin your thread Kim. I hope you dont think that. I think its pretty kool topic ok 🙂. Nothing wrong with learning about each other sign & differences right

LoL Who knew a silentkiller could be crab whipped!

As for the lack of rage where there otherwise would be? ...I think I know but haven't found the words to explain it.

Lol Well Kim maybe this thread can help her out with that. Don't wanna get caught in the Crabs claw

What about you, blackindian? Do you find that crab girls seem to bother you less than non-crabs?

Kim, I don't know as many crab men as I do crab women, but I know what you're trying to say. Sometimes they irritate the living snot out of me, but it's because they do something so overly crabby that it reminds me of my own crabby flaws. lol

But there's also that deep understanding of knowing why they're doing it, and that makes it more tolerable.

I've never noticed the whole crab-pass thing before, but I guess it makes sense in regards to the people that really know me. Those who don't know me can find me arrogant or snobbish, it's just because I can tell when someone is going to bring the worst out of me, so I tend to open up to those that bring out my best.

Well Kim30, Crab women don't bother me at all. I like pretty much all of them. I haven't met many bad ones as the other signs like the air ones I met here in my state. Off course there can be bad snakes in all the signs. But I love my Crab ladies 🙂. We all are unique in our own way.

Plus I can put up with Cancer women moods & emotional side, because I can be the same sometimes myself. You gotta accept their flaws to love a Crab sista. I would be open to meeting some here in my city tho

Oh yes, Aqua. Totally safe.

I.wish you were here to hang out with us Aqua! We could show you how its done!

There's lots of reasons. I have a specific curiosity that impacts my desire to get naked. He doesn't push that button! lol

Lol good points aquavita 🙂. We Crabs love you Sagittarius too. You are very gorgeous & I admire your strength. Yhe same with Cancer women. You are appreciated aqua

Aqua has a little freaky side I see.

Lol she does huh. Perfect for a Cancer

Lol its not like we know what goes on in their heads. We can only do so much for them. I think its a lack of communication and understanding @lSugarfoot.