Does anyone else have this issue?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Brandonb55 on Wednesday, April 6, 2016 and has 12 replies.

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@Brandonb55
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Ok so ive recently have noticed that when i have a problem like a breakup, bad day at work, or if i find something out about someone i dont like i will talk about it to someone and accidentally send my negative thoughts and feelings onto others and it tends to free myself from the pain im feeling and they begin to feel it for me. I dont mean to it just... happens. Please tell me im not that e only one here.

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@Brandonb55
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It sucks, because i have a very guilty mind and doing that doesnt help at all. I try to stay away from people who arent able to take the feelings i accidentally project but just being around them tends to do it too.

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@Brandonb55
10 Years

Good point. Ill try. But yeah a guilty mine like mine is a burden and ive tried to control it but it tends to take me over all together. Mainly the reason as to why i shut down when distraught and hold myself up in my room

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Posted by Brandonb55
It sucks, because i have a very guilty mind and doing that doesnt help at all. I try to stay away from people who arent able to take the feelings i accidentally project but just being around them tends to do it too.

Talk to a Piscean or Scorpio...remember, we are ALL water signs so we will exchange similar stories and empathize/sympathize, hug you, and tell you we're sorry this happened to you. AND we'll give you a bonus..........advice and/or "Lend you our ear".

Love,

Eva 😄

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@Brandonb55
10 Years

I made a freind with a Capricorn who shares "war stories" with me lol so im good

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Posted by Brandonb55
Ok so ive recently have noticed that when i have a problem like a breakup, bad day at work, or if i find something out about someone i dont like i will talk about it to someone and accidentally send my negative thoughts and feelings onto others and it tends to free myself from the pain im feeling and they begin to feel it for me. I dont mean to it just... happens. Please tell me im not that e only one here.

Imagine this, but also during times absolutely nothing is wrong in the physical world. Even to the point I'm making stuff up just for a reason to give people negativity.

That's me.

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@Brandonb55
10 Years

And depending on the mood im in is who i go and talk to or hang with. If im depressed and want to drink, i go out with someone that will take my phone and return it to me in the morning.