i met a male cancer who showed a lot of interest in me. we met face to face at my church when he came to attend mass with me. he was heartbroken from a previous relationship and i mended his broken heart. i love his soul and his heart and i tell him this all the time. however, when he saw his previous girlfriend, he decided he wanted to pursue re-developing their relationship and he wants us to remain friends. i agreed. however, he is no longer replying to my e-mails. i called him and he was very cordial. i want to remain friends with him because our belief are hand in hand - that a relationship should be sacred and we both love the Lord. we both helped each other get closer to the Lord. should i continue writing him and telling him that i love him in Christ(it is a special kind of love - not physical, not the 'in love' kind but more of the soul - his inner being). I do want to remain his friend for always. I just wish I knew that he too want to remain friends. if he reads this, i know that i am referring to him.
female leo - male cancer
Seems like u2 have something in common as far as spirituality goes.But as far as him excluding you just so that he can patch things up with his old flame is understandable .Even though you'd agreed.Maybe he wants some closure on his past relationship and maybe he thinks that something is really there between him and his old flame.Keep contacting him , see what's going on.If everything is not peachy keen between him/her , don't jump the gun just yet.Just give him time and try to keep a open mind.Who knows ? Maybe there's something for you yet !!
thank you g-virgo. i intend to keep writing him e-mails and sending letters and post cards even though i do not get a reply back. i really want to be a part of his life forever even if it is just as a friend. he really has a good heart and soul and that is what attracts me so much about him. men like him are rare.
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