Healing?

Hey there,

I was just wondering if there are any Cancerians out there that use the same healing mechanism as I? In order for me to move on from someone I tend to delete them from everything. I hate that by doing this it's considered as giving those people the power. This is something that's always worked for me whether it be a friend that I'm no longer friends with, or a guy whose done me wrong? It this a trait most cancerians have, or am I the only one?

I usually do exactly the same. (Except for this current one.) I remove every trace of their existence from my life. I always considered it stripping them of all their power, since they don't get to claim any more time or space.

The only exes I allowed back into my life after some necessary distance were those who proved to be useful/contributing in certain ways. Mostly professionally and/or intellectually.

Same I am a fan cutting people off... Its easier not deal with them at all.. Instead of rehashing old arguments and feelings cut the pain off at the source!!