A pain i enjoy

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Cancermanhere89 on Sunday, May 7, 2017 and has 6 replies.

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@Cancermanhere89
9 Years

Yeah! I feel embarrassed to admit it but know one online here knows me offline so I am in a semi safe place here.

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@themilkyway36
9 Years500+ Posts

What's your moon sign?

I see that it's common for Cancers tend to hold onto things and people from the past, whether it's good or bad for them. Do you still love her? Is it the feeling that you miss that you felt only with that person so far in your life or is it the person you miss?

Since so much time has already passed and she's already married, it's clear there's not much of a possibility left between you guys. Maybe you should take some time to yourself to reflect and dust out the old skeletons in the closet, think about what you really want and make room for new people. Working and focusing on yourself helps. You need to put yourself out there and stop clinging on to the past. It can be hard when we're stuck on thinking in a certain way or pattern but it's necessary for our well-being and sanity. You gotta do what you gotta do for your own good.

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@Cancermanhere89
9 Years

She ended it. Joined the army.

Appreciate the advice milkyway. I have a plan already.

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@Cancermanhere89
9 Years

I guess thats what i got used to telling people but she definitley broke up with me lol.. ... idk why i am lol