Help with my Cancer! (Page 2)

Posted by CluelessCancer
Oh and if you do complain. Complain to your NON CANCER girlfriends. Especially if they have LEO moons. Gad Cap chicsk can write a book on misery and I thought i invented the word.

I'm like do i want to be stuck in this mud right now, thinking this sheet right now, and they'll have great lives, but always talk sheet about people,always see the negativity in things...

blech. Love ya'll still tho.

I don't have any Cancer girlfriends, my best friend is a Scorpio, she also loves to complain, and my other good girlfriends are both Leo's, not so into the talking shit thing. My mother is a Cap, all she does is nag and complain. I swear I don't have non complaining conversations with her lol. Don't wanna be like that when I'm her age, so I'm working on it now before it gets out of hand lol.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I mean't do not complain to your Cancer friends especially if they have LEO moons (me)

lol. Complain to the Virgos. They wrote the manuscript on whining.

My virgo friend is very dark and emotional. Always something wrong with her. You're totally right.

Well true friends will listen to what bothers you and try to help. You shouldn't even have to ask. If they aren't sympathetic, then I wouldn't have them as my friends. You should be able to have at least someone to talk to about what worries you. If you don't, try talking to God. He can reveal a lot =)

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Well true friends will listen to what bothers you and try to help. You shouldn't even have to ask. If they aren't sympathetic, then I wouldn't have them as my friends. You should be able to have at least someone to talk to about what worries you. If you don't, try talking to God. He can reveal a lot =)

True friends are sympathetic, you're right. But I'm not sure if you've dealt with a chronic complainer such as myself before haha? It's draining, I can even see it. That's why I limit my negativity around people who express that they don't feel comfortable with it. There's a difference between confiding and talking about what bothers you, and complaining about anything and everything lol 🙂

Well my friends have probelms and I always try to listen and help. Because if something bad happened to me, I would want the same kinda support. But maybe I just like helping people & can't stand to see those I care about hurt. I only talk to my grandma or God about what bothers me.

Maybe that's why I need to be a therapist or super man lol. But if something wrong, it's ok to talk about it if its really important you know. If you can't, just pray about it ok 🙂. Hope things work out for you because you seem like a smart lady

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Maybe that's why I need to be a therapist or super man lol. But if something wrong, it's ok to talk about it if its really important you know. If you can't, just pray about it ok 🙂. Hope things work out for you because you seem like a smart lady

you're MY Superman! I haven't been cussing like a sailor by the way. Be proud. A few hiccups but no biggies! LoL

Aww Thanks @Kim30 🙂. Im glad you doing ok. I just hate seeing you or any fellow Crab upset. But to be honest, I like when people close to me tell me what bothers them or what upsets them. It makes me feel needed. Im glad to help

You like that? Really?I get it from most everyone even people I don't know.
its a blessing and a curse.
A curse because their times of need may conflict with my bad mood and then I have to suck it up for them. Which is very difficult for me as you know! lol

Yes I do lol. Idk maybe it's the whole nurturing thing we Cancers have. I love making people I love feel better or try. But I can't do it if im in a bad mood such as sad about something or stressing over school. But generally I like being needed. But Kim30 you don't seem that bad to me. Remember, no ones perfect. A lil cussing isn't bad if it's important 😉. Be you and love it

@Kim30 I do have to sometimes say no & let people deal with stuff on they own. Especially, if I already did my best to help. So I have to know when to let go. I'm still learning to be a better me too now.

LoL thanks blackindian

@Kim30 no problem! I'm always here if you need a cheering up 🙂. #CancerPower lol