...do cancers fall in love? Would you say you have a lot of loves of your life? And do you hold onto past love that ended on good terms/friendship?
how often....
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!
Posted by ashley1734"My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom".... Wow
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!
Posted by SensitiveBluesMom is a Virgo.
whats you moms sign
I fall in love RARELY, why its tough to let go
Actually my sister married a Cancer too.
Posted by ariesheartDon't heart eye him, eye roll him. He's the worst.Posted by ashley1734"My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom".... Wow
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!click to expand
Posted by ashley1734*eyes rolled 👀Posted by ariesheartDon't heart eye him, eye roll him. He's the worst.Posted by ashley1734"My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom".... Wow
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!click to expand
Posted by KinglyCrabJoint but mostly Mom. (Dad every other weekend).Posted by ashley1734Who got custody after they divorced?Posted by ariesheartDon't heart eye him, eye roll him. He's the worst.Posted by ashley1734"My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom".... Wow
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesThey were hippies when they met (Mom came from Denmark Dad came from Armenia), but my Mom is very loving and nurturing and my Dad is emotionally distant and moody, so eventually my Dad would start spending more and more time at work and weekends away from home...I doubt there was ever any infidelity, but I think he just got overwhelmed with having a wife and kids and all that. Eventually my Mom just couldn't handle the distance and they separated when I was like 4 and divorced when I was 5.Posted by ashley1734why they divorce?Posted by SensitiveBluesMom is a Virgo.
whats you moms sign
I fall in love RARELY, why its tough to let go
Actually my sister married a Cancer too.click to expand
Neither of them remarried, both super independent. Mom lives in a tiny town in the mountains, Dad lives in a tiny town in Hawaii.
@Ashley1734 what about your sis and hubby...what's her sign?
Posted by ariesheartSister is Aquarius.
@Ashley1734 what about your sis and hubby...what's her sign?
Posted by KinglyCrabYou are somewhat correct. My Dad was more the one who fed me negative things about my Mom...they both did it, but my Dad did it more. Then when I turned 18 and moved closer to my Dad for school, I got very close with him and a lot of times would defend him to my other family members (even on his side of the family he has caused ripples). It wasn't until I was like 26 or 27 that I started to see my Dad's true colors. I still love him of course and would love to have a relationship with him, but sadly it has faded more and more the last few years. I reach out to him all the time, but am met with the cold brick wall I'm assuming my Mom was getting all those years.Posted by ashley1734Have you heard his side of the story or did he try to tell you anything if only just to let you know and not to give excuses. I'm not trying to justify whatever this man has done but the amount of malice a scorned woman has is scary dark. I'm just trying to make you think about the possibility that your mother may have skewed your imagination of your father and this is regardless of his sign if he has done bad things he should have thought twice about the consequences. I mean we are the architects of our actions and we must live with the consequences, whether glorious or tragic. Many apologies if I assume wrongly.Posted by KinglyCrabJoint but mostly Mom. (Dad every other weekend).Posted by ashley1734Who got custody after they divorced?Posted by ariesheartDon't heart eye him, eye roll him. He's the worst.Posted by ashley1734"My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom".... Wow
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!click to expand
I have fallen in love twice in my 39 years. I wouldn't say I hold onto past loves so much as that I remember how it felt to be in love with them. The places in my heart that they occupied will always be taken by them, but there is no activity there and fits the description of death. I no longer desire to be with them, or miss them. The relationships have been put to rest, and I have moved on.
Posted by Aggrippina66789What would you do if you was to see him again?Posted by ariesheartOnce .....cappie we are not on good terms....at all...yes i hang on...to the memory...
...do cancers fall in love? Would you say you have a lot of loves of your life? And do you hold onto past love that ended on good terms/friendship?
We are not on good terms though. I never want to see him again.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesHaha oh my god no, he's just a jerk. His Moon is either Capricorn or Leo...can't remember what year he was born.Posted by ashley1734you make your dad look like a monster. i thought he abused her somethingPosted by SensitiveBluesThey were hippies when they met (Mom came from Denmark Dad came from Armenia), but my Mom is very loving and nurturing and my Dad is emotionally distant and moody, so eventually my Dad would start spending more and more time at work and weekends away from home...I doubt there was ever any infidelity, but I think he just got overwhelmed with having a wife and kids and all that. Eventually my Mom just couldn't handle the distance and they separated when I was like 4 and divorced when I was 5.Posted by ashley1734why they divorce?Posted by SensitiveBluesMom is a Virgo.
whats you moms sign
I fall in love RARELY, why its tough to let go
Actually my sister married a Cancer too.
Neither of them remarried, both super independent. Mom lives in a tiny town in the mountains, Dad lives in a tiny town in Hawaii.
what's his moon?click to expand
Posted by KinglyCrabJust a quick interjection. OP is 30. I think she would have worked it out by now. Most kids by early twenties have worked out who the wanker in the divorce actually is. Sorry if you've had a similar experience. My niece is nine, parents divorced, and already knows her dad is a complete tool. Not just because he cheated but because he is a TOTAL tool in life.Posted by ashley1734Have you heard his side of the story or did he try to tell you anything if only just to let you know and not to give excuses. I'm not trying to justify whatever this man has done but the amount of malice a scorned woman has is scary dark. I'm just trying to make you think about the possibility that your mother may have skewed your imagination of your father and this is regardless of his sign if he has done bad things he should have thought twice about the consequences. I mean we are the architects of our actions and we must live with the consequences, whether glorious or tragic. Many apologies if I assume wrongly.Posted by KinglyCrabJoint but mostly Mom. (Dad every other weekend).Posted by ashley1734Who got custody after they divorced?Posted by ariesheartDon't heart eye him, eye roll him. He's the worst.Posted by ashley1734"My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom".... Wow
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!click to expand
For me not alot. I don't hold on to pass lovers .I just don't forget them. But that anybody that come in my life. If u was a person who made me laugh alot I will never for get that. If u came around me with a evil spirit ..I will never for get that.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberHe's a Leo. July 30.
GalOnTheCusp, what is the astrological sign of your niece's dad (the tool)?
Posted by KinglyCrabOh gosh my bad. Just realized I didn't even see page 2 before I posted.Posted by GalOnTheCuspK.Posted by KinglyCrabJust a quick interjection. OP is 30. I think she would have worked it out by now. Most kids by early twenties have worked out who the wanker in the divorce actually is. Sorry if you've had a similar experience. My niece is nine, parents divorced, and already knows her dad is a complete tool. Not just because he cheated but because he is a TOTAL tool in life.Posted by ashley1734Have you heard his side of the story or did he try to tell you anything if only just to let you know and not to give excuses. I'm not trying to justify whatever this man has done but the amount of malice a scorned woman has is scary dark. I'm just trying to make you think about the possibility that your mother may have skewed your imagination of your father and this is regardless of his sign if he has done bad things he should have thought twice about the consequences. I mean we are the architects of our actions and we must live with the consequences, whether glorious or tragic. Many apologies if I assume wrongly.Posted by KinglyCrabJoint but mostly Mom. (Dad every other weekend).Posted by ashley1734Who got custody after they divorced?Posted by ariesheartDon't heart eye him, eye roll him. He's the worst.Posted by ashley1734"My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom".... Wow
My Dad (Cancer) and Mom have been divorced for 26 years and my Dad is still in love with my Mom and has not moved on to anyone new.
My ex (Cancer) and I broke up three years ago this month and he still e-mails, leaves voice mails, etc.
In both situation it was the Cancer who screwed things up.
So I would say yes, they hold on. Them crab claws!click to expand
But curious; do you think a child who has been swayed to judge one parent by another can eventfully grow up to see the manipulation or come to a conclusion on their own that differs from what they were 'taught'?
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXHaha shit yeah sorry about that babe. My only point was the cancers I have seen have difficulty letting go in love.
This thread became all about @Ashley1734 lol
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXSure did lol!
This thread became all about @Ashley1734 lol
Posted by ashley1734Understandable... Glad you went into detail about your family.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXHaha shit yeah sorry about that babe. My only point was the cancers I have seen have difficulty letting go in love.
This thread became all about @Ashley1734 lolclick to expand
Posted by butterfly30What if it was a person that became attached to your family and stays in contact with them? Even if you move on, do you still wonder about working things out?
For me not alot. I don't hold on to pass lovers .I just don't forget them. But that anybody that come in my life. If u was a person who made me laugh alot I will never for get that. If u came around me with a evil spirit ..I will never for get that.
Just once. I'm more careful now.
And my fellow children of divorce /separations there are 3 sides to every story.
And my fellow children of divorce /separations there are 3 sides to every story.
Posted by ariesheartPosted by butterfly30What if it was a person that became attached to your family and stays in contact with them? Even if you move on, do you still wonder about working things out?
For me not alot. I don't hold on to pass lovers .I just don't forget them. But that anybody that come in my life. If u was a person who made me laugh alot I will never for get that. If u came around me with a evil spirit ..I will never for get that.click to expand
no...because most likely if I move on that mean I am done. I did have a guy friend that I had some feeling for who is my brother best friend. Lol. Everytime I see him it's real short. I know when I am with u or allow u in my world i give it my all and put work in. Once I let u go I am done.
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