Ugh, Cancers why are we so forgiving?

I loathe it.
I swear I get pissed when someone does something I don't like but as soon as they come around
and do something sweet it's like I get amnesia or something and stop with the quiet attitude. I irritate me.

This really doesn't apply to the third decan Cancers because ya'll can be some stubborn heffalumps.

Count me in ! I'm forgiving too 🙂

For me it's either forgive or erase that someone completely if they didn't say sorry 🙂

No grudge 🙂

hahaha yaaass this is how I feel.. my cancer sun and venus are like "aWW ill Forgive thEM iT'S all good" but then my scorpio moon just makes me feel all spastic and paranoid again.. it's a vicious cycle I tell ya 😆

We might forgive, but we never forget. A person who hurts us should know that pain will live with us forever.

Shutting someone out isn't the same as cutting them loose. I think a lot of the forgiveness has to do with knowing that if we decide to cut someone out, it's usually permanent. So we want to give a person we care about every possible chance and then some.

They say it hurts more to hold on than to let go... I'm not sure that's the case with Cancer.

I agree...but once we done we done. Thats why we give u so many chances because i mean come on how many times do i need to forgive u more than 5 10 15 20...after that i could care less about u. Atleast i tried.

Yep I'm experiencing this now with a Virgo friend. I had decided to cut her loose but she popped back up all smiles and it's like ugh why did pop back up I wanted to be done with you. However I'm going to give her another chance but this will absolutely be the last one.

I am the same way..I hate it..because 9 times out of 10 that person will repeat that action again. Alot of people I had to remind myself over and over again that they was asshole so stay away

I cut that shit out a long time ago...but some ppl get q little lead way

Life is too short to hold a grudge I've gotten p*ssed off at people eventually it turns into what ever and move on why stew on something you can't change I never forget thou.

Posted by lovely77
I agree...but once we done we done. Thats why we give u so many chances because i mean come on how many times do i need to forgive u more than 5 10 15 20...after that i could care less about u. Atleast i tried.

Yes right, I couldn't care less after the last chance.

Posted by Crabra
Shutting someone out isn't the same as cutting them loose. I think a lot of the forgiveness has to do with knowing that if we decide to cut someone out, it's usually permanent. So we want to give a person we care about every possible chance and then some.

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Exactly. Expecially the bold.

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Posted by mo0nchild
hahaha yaaass this is how I feel.. my cancer sun and venus are like "aWW ill Forgive thEM iT'S all good" but then my scorpio moon just makes me feel all spastic and paranoid again.. it's a vicious cycle I tell ya 😆

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I have no cancer placements, but I feel exactly the same way. It´s like "why can´t we just all be friends and make love not war and forgive and forget

"I just wish we could all get along like we used to in middle school. I wish that I could bake a cake made out of rainbows and smiles, and we'd all eat it and be happy"
😆 😢