I have been surrounded by cancers lately

More specifically cancer men. It seems they have been coming out of the woodwork, lol. As of right now, I'm still getting to know a cancer male, and it seems that people I've been meeting or running into have been cancers. Also, a few of my cancer male friends have gotten back in touch with me. I don't know if I'm giving off some sort of pheromones for the crabs or this is just too much of a coincidence, lol.

Haha, my relationship with cancers has always been interesting. I do see what you mean by an understanding quality. I always feel like I "get" cancers. Like there is a connection I don't often experience with other signs. I always joke that one of these days, I'll marry a cancer if I could just land one for good hahahha. They always slip from my grasps.

I do have a question though about the cancer I've been seeing. I spoke about him before when I felt an uneasiness being with him because he seemed very unsure and testing at the same time, but he's truly an incredible person beyond just a romantic sense. I assume I could call our relationship friends, but with all the potential in the world to be more. When we are together, we just have a very nice connection, we can talk about anything, and we just have moments where we look at each other and we just smile. It's just very comfortable being around him. However, I still find myself holding back in how I'm feeling simply because I don't want to fall too hard. Earlier when we were getting to know each other, the cancer told me his worries because he knew that we were in different places and that he's had issues with girls before. I told my cancer that I'm in no rush and that no matter what, we'd be close regardless of how we turned out. This cancer is always calling me beautiful, saying that he's amazed I don't see it and that I would totally drop him if I realized it. You know, silly little insecurities. I assured him that I liked him and that I was still going to be here, and he would tell me that he liked me too. One night when we were laying together he was telling me how he felt sad because he felt trapped in where he was, and I just held him and we talked about it.

I guess I find myself holding back because I become insecure when I think that at some point, he's just going to uproot and leave, and he has his moments where he seems to question things, but then the next moment he's back to being very affectionate and fun. Sometimes I'm not sure what he's thinking or what he really wants. I suppose this is just the sort of cancer push/pull, and it's still a little early to tell, but being a virgo, it can sometimes make me feel uneasy when I don't know where it'll all go. And I do care about him a lot.