i have to have him

As a cancer have you ever noticed someone and decided you have to have that person! I have really been thinking about my past and current situations and have come to a conclusion that this is a pattern with me!

I will notice someone have my eye on them and have to have them! And I will eventually have them and make them mine all mine! Even if it is a challenge!

as a cardinal sign, I can identify especially when they're not really all over you, right? 🙂
what's your moon ?

Specially if they aren't all over me

And my moon is in Scorpio

hahaha - you moon counts for a LOT !!!

The only little thing not to forget though, is you can never really have a human - get too comfortable, the rug's pulled from underneath ! 😕

"I will notice someone have my eye on them and have to have them! And I will eventually have them and make them mine all mine! Even if it is a challenge!"

I'm there now... been there for a while. Even told the other people (who could have potentially filled the position) that I'm single but I'm hunting someone right now... funny how they don't make themselves strangers because of it. I feel the "HAVE TO HAVE THEM" thing in this case, but if I've also been denied so many times in my youth that I've grown immune to the rejection. Now it just lightly bruises, it no longer cuts. And after the last 2 women I was in an actual/attempted relationship with... I've learned to accept that any woman has the potential to treat me the same way. Life has forced indifference on my view of what is considered to be a 'serious relationship.'

you can never really have a human - get too comfortable, the rug's pulled from underneath !

Aint that the truth!

So tell me about my moon sign!

I didn't know I was one of your fav's scorpsting!! Thank you for the compliment!

I am very attracted to scorpio's we get along really well! I had this scorpio guy that was in love with me and I was still hung up on my daughters father! I broke his heart and didn't even know he felt that way because we didn't spend much time together! I liked him a lot too! I just needed closure from my x so I went back to Boston to visit him and my scorp never could forgive me! We were friends for two years started dating again an he could never get over the past! But we are so perfect for eachother! When ever we are in the room together the vibe is so crazy! But I won't be friends with him because he can't get over the past I don't understand it because I on the other hand can! So in my eyes i'm not good enough in his! Don't know why I think that way but that is how I truly feel and he is always trying to contact me to be friends! I don't get it!

Well Scorpios keyword is afterall, "I Desire"....so we usually get what we want..
Good ol' Scorp moon..lol..

Loving the mad hair broken_shell..LOL..

Scorosting! I am now living in AZ! I was born in brockton but we lived in carver on the cape til I was 6 and then moved out here to AZ I lived here from 6 til 17 and eventually found my way back to Boston! Lived there 5 years till this February! My mom sisters and brothers are here and chose to come back to be closer to fam!

And as far as scorpio boy my x wasn't baby daddy until after that scorpio man was mad and didn't want anything to do with me so I ended up seeing my x again and the hot pregnant with my daughter!

Hey Honeyg, the moon and sun have equal effects on us...

so the sun sign is your EGO sign so your personality, your consciousness...
the moon sign controls your unconscious, your emotions...

'I HAVE TO HAVE' is more Scorpio than Cancer...as the mars co-rules scorpio, mars is the god of war so conquering...my sun is ruled by mars so 'I HAVE TO HAVE' is common with me but only not with people...just things...I possess things, ideas, never people and just as easily let it go---once I have, the fun is over, next !

Cancer wants to have but won't openly admit it with the same intensity like Scorpio will.
Scorp is basically quite similar to Cancer but more stubborn version --- so with your scorp moon, you will be more stubborn, more possessive, more emotive, more forceful, better at hiding your hurt, your intensions than Cancer and more independent 🙂

And water signs want not only to understand emotions, they also want to possess and be responsible for the emotions of close friends, families, partners...this is not advisable long term for people with loads of air or fire in their chart..think of actual elements air and fire --- they cannot be contained or predicted...they are constantly moving.

ur baby girl was meant to be!

And my scorp guy says she dhpilf have been his! Lol

Zenalchemy!

Sounds like you figured me out! You think you know all about me now don't you! With my posts and my chart! Lol

Sounds like you figured me out! You think you know all about me now don't you! With my posts and my chart! Lol
Ha ! your suspicious scorp is being activated eh ? 😛

- just giving you generic stuff...

- what posts? oh on the other boards? nah not personal --- lol...

guess🙂

erm ...lol 😕 I did not see that coming.

Aries

lol no sign's an insult in my opinion - we're all part of the wheel - keeps the rotation, right? 😉

I poke in and out of different sign boards ...keeps the knowledge a bit more balanced, I hope.

I knew she was Aries when she said she was ruled by Mars in the previous post on here..or somewhere where it said scorpio moon comment for honeygirl..arrrgh I am lost..

Gotcha!!!..lol..

I am a Cancer. I have never not gotten exactly what I want. This sounds really harsh and I do not mean to be. It astounds me sometimes the absolute focus and determination to obtain what I want, and I am talking about relationships here. The problem I have is that I am dating a Scorpio male. He is incredibly beautiful and sweet and I turn into apeshit crazy loco chick now and again. Talk about apathy. I am grateful because it seems to get better as I get older, but I have lost relationships because of being moody. You will NOT find a more pure love than from a Cancer. However, I must also say- I can be detached beyond belief and I will still go through all the motions on earth.... If I sounds nuts, I have a retrograde Mercury in Gemini along with Mars and the Ascendant, my head is way too harsh and male for my heart... 🙂

yea, I 'm female sting... can be male too depending 😉

Marinda how old are you?

I used to be way moody too now that i'm older I have learned to put my emotions in check! They do say cancers are late bloomers!

And cancers can be detached which equals the part of us hiding out in our shells! I do it all the time!

You are normal!

LOL...Aww thanks Scorpsting...yeah he turned all cute bless him. Loves my camel..I just leave him to it now. He has a lot going on, so shall leave him to make his decisions. I am sure he will work it out.

How long have you been with your one? Did you say you started as friends?

LOL @ Penis envy..hahaha..you know everywhere you read about Scorp chicks, it says we have penis envy..that secretly we wish we were born men...I must say I always think this myself..they have it so easy!..LOL..

I was with a leo for 7 years too!!..we were gonna get married but I let him go. Fell out of love 😢 he was fantastic...but timing wasn't right and that 7 year itch..you know how it is...he has a leo/cancer cuspian..so I should know really!!..lol

Aww well good luck with your Cancer, I am sure you guys will be a breeze 🙂 I remember this user called Karima on the scorp board when I first started she was with a Cancer..drove her insane..for some reason I never thought about a relationship with cancer boys at that point..wonder if they are still together..hmm..wish she would come back..she was so lovely.

Are there a lot of Scorpio women/Cancer male couples then? My scorp friend in Canada got married to her Cancer man within 6 months of meeting each other..they are soooo cute together..him and his doey eyed look..bless..she's really aggressive..hahah..they banter like an old married couple..hehe

haha scorp sting - I owe it to mars...
na don't have penis envy - you know Aries female 🙂
we think like men, act like men but look like women 😕 Relationships are tough with both men and women - can't understand women, wanna compete with men like their guy friends, then use them for only sex and move on...tough life 😢

could be worse , eh 😉

I think you can wear a strap-on though, just to see how it feels 🙂 you never know, you may like it

LOL @ De-Scorp....now that is all mine. Love it!.

::takes it and runs::

😉

no I love cancer dudes, they bring out the womanly side by their gentle ways 😉

You rock too - EVERYBODY rocks *passes cheap champagne all around* sorry broke-ass !

I can't wait to give up the control to him...it's all his for the taking...I wish he would hurry up about it..lol. He makes me all shy and coy..that's never happened before..lol..Yummy...but he's defo shy.

Zen..how nice does that sound? the whole positive energy thang.

I just spent the afternoon in the pub having lunch with a Scorp friend of mine..so I am already tipsy...but champers all around..woohoo...let the bubbles melt..

sorry was on the phone with bt - you know what they're like mm!

btw, I do love the positive energy !

I have a headache so no matter --- erm, you lot finished all the champagne?!

*Opens new bottle and toasts to balanced control*

Gawd do I know them!...Eeek..hate them..I've just recently taken broadband from them...(well not literally..lol) and I would hate to imagine trying to get through to them should anything go wrong...touchwood..

You know me..am always a positive person..don't like negativity..drains me..but we all have our moments..

Tired though..

Excessive use of the word "them" up there..lol

And I just realised you were talking about my positive energy in reference to your name thing..not calling me positive..hahaha..duh..blame the alcohol..only had 2 pints!..(such a lady)...

only 2 pints ! phss lightweight...lol...

yep was broadband issues - was only setup yesterday too and probs already - I get really annoyed as they control everything --- bleh...it's all over now !

you move over to the northside now or northwest 😉 the cool side 😛

LOL..I know I know..I am losing my touch.

Still trying to sell the bloody thing..seriously it's dead out there at the moment. The hot agent called again though 😉 lol..told him it's pointless, can't buy unless I sell mine.

Got a viewing on my property tomorrow after 4 weeks of nothing..let's hope this is the lucky viewing..3rd time and all that..Can't wait to move up that way..

Was on a train journey today and gazing out of the window (as one does)..I will miss this place when I leave..whilst out drinking with my friend was in Greenwich..The Observatory..what a beautiful place..

greenwich's nice though I have to say - the olympics will help lots of areas ---don't worry, the NW area's got cache!

yea I've heard it's quite dead out now! surprised you have people coming ! hope you don't have to keep slashing the asking.I heard loads of people were doing that as well...

Oh the Leo dude - such a hot story - you should put it in a sun column or summat...

LOL @ Sun column..hahah..oh my..he's so bloody hot..and his voice..you would melt..Hard to resist...but resist I must..he's bloody married!!..end of!

I want to be an NW girl..All my mates live there..

They did ask me to slash the price but I am not budging..I am in no hurry to sell, if it doesn't..then so be it..I will ride the storm if I have to..

oh you fixed signs --- married eh --- what was he thinking getting hitched?! 🙂

you have a point - if there's no desperation, why succumb? banks are tougher now anyways so don't blame people for asking down, not enough coming from the red bricks these days...
whether new or old place, the storm will affect everyone either way somehow, right?

I think I'll retire...enjoy the hangover 😛

Yeah me going to bed also..got a headache..

Later