I love you

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by AngelicVirgo on Thursday, October 14, 2010 and has 8 replies.

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@AngelicVirgo
16 Years

How strong are these words for you? Would you say it first? If so, what would determine you to say it? If you say it and you don't get back the "I love you" what happens to you? What does mean when you say to somebody "there are days when I just care about you and days when I love you"? What about "I love you when I am not with you but I love you even more when I am with you". Do you get shy when someone asks you to tell them that you love them? Would a cancerian say "it sounds so weird" about/after saying "i love you"?

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@domanb
17 YearsCancer

Posted by AngelicVirgo
How strong are these words for you?

Very strong.

Would you say it first?

Yes.

If so, what would determine you to say it?

If I really felt it and thought the other person felt it back.

If you say it and you don't get back the "I love you" what happens to you?

I would withdrawl and shell up.

What does mean when you say to somebody "there are days when I just care about you and days when I love you"?

Sounds like the person doesn't love you every day.

What about "I love you when I am not with you but I love you even more when I am with you".

The person wants you around more often/all the time.

Do you get shy when someone asks you to tell them that you love them? Would a cancerian say "it sounds so weird" about/after saying "i love you"?

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If it was forced and/or I didn't really mean it, then yes, I would say that it sounds weird. I think most Cancers don't like being forced into doing things, and love is definitely one of those things.

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@mr.crabby
21 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by domanb

Posted by AngelicVirgo
How strong are these words for you?

Mean it a lot or shut up.

Would you say it first?

No.

If you say it and you don't get back the "I love you" what happens to you?

You'd better have some really good tact to make me take this. I wouldn't be the same. 3 steps back.

What does mean when you say to somebody "there are days when I just care about you and days when I love you"?

I would never say such a stupid thing.

What about "I love you when I am not with you but I love you even more when I am with you".

Lame, it's just a formula. Empty.

Do you get shy when someone asks you to tell them that you love them? Would a cancerian say "it sounds so weird" about/after saying "i love you"?

Wrong thing to ask. Fail.

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@mr.crabby
21 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by wineaux

Posted by mr.crabby

what's my response? don't say things you don't mean. his response?

at least he didn't leave the room, you're lucky

mr. crabby...is there anyway to fix this? fml.

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Be extra nice and ask to see him more. Act like a love bird but don't talk about it until he does. Make him want to tell you again but next time, don't tell him his feelings are stupid.

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@CancerianGoddess
18 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

veryyyyyyyyyyyyyy strong! i dont say them to someone i am with untill i am ready, some boyfriends i never said it at all. Those are not words you use lightly. Anyone i love, i am willing and ready to take a bullet for them!

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@Cancer1986LeoCusp
16 Years

It takes long time for "love you"
less time for "like you"
seconds to say both if i am drunk, lol (kiddin')