I need some serious help!!!

Cancerian boy claimed his cell phone went off in his pocket and randomly dialed my telephone number. I spoke about another boy, and he asked me if I wanted to be with him, to which I said yes. 🙂 He then said he doesn't care about what I do, so I got mad, and confessed, I was attempting to make him jealous. Of course, he replied, since I desire someone else, what should his reaction have been?

He pushed hard for me to come spend the night into the morning with him. 🙂 I declined. We spoke on the phone instead for two hours. 🙂

You know how sometimes those fantasy conversations inside your head with someone who has your heart just can't be helped? Cancerian boy called again, a few nights later, to say goodnight. Anyhow, before we hung-up, he told me he thinks about me before he goes to sleep. As you could have guessed, I've had this conversation with myself many, many times. 🙂 And somehow got the courage to say: I think about you too, so I guess now we are even. 🙂

Fast forward three months without a word...

He came to find me in order to get romantic during the afternoon, after first and foremost, asking about my "boyfriend"... I said no and went about my business.

I have yet to hear from him again!!!

Kindly provide insight—

insight into what? You play games with him, you reject him....I don't blame him for finding a better use of his time.

Xangelfishx:

Thank you for the reply.

The games I play, for the most part pertain to lack of trust - in anyone.

But I have never really felt he likes me. I am constantly hearing about his sexual conquests, which he does not stop talking about.

So...

Posted by xangelfishx
insight into what? You play games with him, you reject him....I don't blame him for finding a better use of his time.

I agree, what the hell with all the mind games? Shit..

Dream:

Granted, I play hella games, but, as a man, if he cared, wouldn't he tell me it bothers him—

What does that mean—

cancers don't tell you what's bothering them - they expect you to know. And he's telling you about his conquests for two reasons: one to make himself seem "manly" and two to see how you react to the thought of him with other women.

I tell him I do not care what he does... he shouldn't stop on account of me. 😢

But on the inside, I am dying.

DaBull:

He disappears, even when I am honest, on occasion, which, makes me feel as though he cannot possibly like me anyhow and behave like this. 😢

and again

P-Angel:

Jesus!

Same old stuff, just a different day is all - a year later. 🙂