so I contacted him again via text and said something along the lines im tired of being strong all the time, I dont think hes gonna respond to me, but im not sure, what do you guys think? (i told him off the other day)
Im so weak

He might not, it will probably take him a while to process the info. He'll take in what you said and keep it in mind but he won't forget it or ignore it(I don't think). But hey thats my experience with my cancer. They are a bit tough to figure out, more complex than meets the eye!
So best advice is not 2 try and figure him out! Keep going on with your life. I know Cancers R attracted 2 slow moving creatures like the Capricorn. OMG, these R slow moving creatures. They don't like to rush into nothing. If he is attracted 2 this behavior. Try it and back off and quit trying to rush up stream and end up with destination 0. Just look at it like a fish trying to swim up stream, the faster U swim, the harder it will be 2 come to the destination. When if U quit fighting the current and let everything flow naturally, U will probably end at a great destination. So just go with the flow and live your life in the process. Let nature take its course.
my two cents is you tried to contact him and hopefully apologized. not trying to sound negative but he will contact you on his terms because regardless if he tells you or not he is probably hurt and is nursing himself right now. we don't take to harsh words very kindly and believe me our pincers will come out. one thing about us cancers is that we can eventually forgive but we will NEVER forget especially if the hurt comes from somone we care about.. just give him his space right now. he will come out of his shell when he is ready.
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