In general, do cancer men come back

If someone has left you due to an argument, will you be the one to make contact first? Also, They say you are homely and will not disrupt your home life but is there an exception to this rule?

Just curious on your take of cancers...

Mine came back less than 2 weeks of disappearance, but I haven't return his message yet.

Posted by Iceprincess17
Mine came back less than 2 weeks of disappearance, but I haven't return his message yet.

Well, as a Cancer female I can say that we Cancers like our routine and home life to be smooth and no drama. We don't like chaos or someone who can't chill and relax at home. We don't want to "go out" all the time clubbing or to bars generally, once in a while is ok but not every weekend all the time. We prefer to get to know someone in depth, and are not interested in someone who is not capable of having deep communications or feelings, if your holding back we know it and wonder why. If you keep holding back and not giving us the emotional depth we seek we will move on and consider you untrust worthy. We are VERY intuitive and just KNOW things sometimes, kind of like a gut feeling and we generally listen to our gut feelings. If we love you we do so with all our being 100% ! We are very loyal and expect that same thing in return. Hope this gives you a little insight to the mind and heart of a Cancer person.

They all come back at some point.
The question is do you want them back?

Posted by LunarMaiden
They all come back at some point.
The question is do you want them back?

Would definitely want this one back, however, It's Impossible... 😢

I was just curious as to whether Cancers do this normally or not. This is a past tense situation which I have been reminiscing as I heal in my present situation.

I've never dated cancer men...and the signs DO play out very differently between the genders...so I can't help you there. For me, I've never returned to an ex. My thing is I hold on way too long to a dead relationship but once I get the courage to leave, there's no going back. I left an abusive relationship over a year ago and at the very end my my gemini ex started listening to me and wanting to work things out, I told him it was 2 years too late for that conversation. I had been telling him about our problems until I "checked out" and then I went deadly silent and the "handwriting was on the wall."

Don't know if this will help but this is my sense of breaking then making up. If it happens once, you might be able to patch things up. I know lots of people who broke up. Took that time to re-evaluate their lives & what they wanted. And then decided they really did want that relationship. They got back and stayed together. This happened with my mom after my dad passed on. She met a nice man. They broke up briefly after a year and then he came back and stayed back.

If it's more than once, it's too unstable and best to move on.

Hope this helps. Good luck. And don't chase after him. Let him go. If he's yours. He'll scuttle back. If not. You prolly deserved better than a whiney mama's boy! Oh no she DIDN'T! Sorry but cancer men aren't my thing but good luck.

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Posted by LunarMaiden
They all come back at some point.
The question is do you want them back?

Would definitely want this one back, however, It's Impossible... 😢

I was just curious as to whether Cancers do this normally or not. This is a past tense situation which I have been reminiscing as I heal in my present situation.

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I have done it for those I felt a connection with.

Now even with the connection I keep moving forward, it never works out.